Tinder...? Anyone getting action here
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I used to do the same thing , had a rotation of ladies and would actually hit the fasthouses on the way out to see them and id be so drained that when fuckin the regular ladies i met i couldnt even finish, things seemed so much easier 5 to 10yrs ago or maybe i was just lucky.
It sucks to see youre getting diff ladies easily and im getting almost nowhere on pof, ones i do talk to wont even come out because of virus or play games so its frustrating.
It sucks to see youre getting diff ladies easily and im getting almost nowhere on pof, ones i do talk to wont even come out because of virus or play games so its frustrating.
I align with this heavily. 9/10 I see provider whether SW or any of the girls from the advertising sites they either straight out say ‘what is a good looking guy like you do this for?’ Or the way they act in mannerism and body language say it. In my favor, as long as the girl doesn’t look at this as just a money thing I get a lot more out of them for the money I’m giving them in performance.
The problem I’ve personally seen with dating apps like someone posted a few pages ago these girls expect ‘emotional connections and a lifetime movie’. While I have no doubt your scoring like crazy because I used Tinder after my divorce a couple years to great results. I’m 33 and have no interest in marrying again, I don’t want to know these woman and quite honestly don’t waste money on them to go dating. One of the reasons I will see a provider. I don’t like wasting time and the habitual, manipulative and addictive nature of these apps is also not good for your psyche. My guess is your also using the paid feature which the only time you will have success on those things is when you pay premium.
with civilians I still have success in person but wait for them to make moves or eye contact and it happens weekly even during the bug that’s killed everything. If any one of your follow the Men Going Their Own Way movement... coach Greg adams, joker or even guys like Corey Wayne. The world is about to be a lot more in our favor and really already is.
the experiment of online dating has made many below average looking woman think they have higher value and most of these women have zero value. I just can’t see putting in time talking to anyone let alone eating a meal with any.
The problem I’ve personally seen with dating apps like someone posted a few pages ago these girls expect ‘emotional connections and a lifetime movie’. While I have no doubt your scoring like crazy because I used Tinder after my divorce a couple years to great results. I’m 33 and have no interest in marrying again, I don’t want to know these woman and quite honestly don’t waste money on them to go dating. One of the reasons I will see a provider. I don’t like wasting time and the habitual, manipulative and addictive nature of these apps is also not good for your psyche. My guess is your also using the paid feature which the only time you will have success on those things is when you pay premium.
with civilians I still have success in person but wait for them to make moves or eye contact and it happens weekly even during the bug that’s killed everything. If any one of your follow the Men Going Their Own Way movement... coach Greg adams, joker or even guys like Corey Wayne. The world is about to be a lot more in our favor and really already is.
the experiment of online dating has made many below average looking woman think they have higher value and most of these women have zero value. I just can’t see putting in time talking to anyone let alone eating a meal with any.
Well i guess thats just me because if i had a line up of girls to fuck last thing id do now is fuck a ho unless it was something really special.
I'm still trying on pof and theyre really playing games its very frustrating and probably a waste of time, most dont even look good and the worse looking ones never answer even if i message them for fun. Alot have just one pic of their face from many years ago.
Main one I was talking to on the phone from pof just suddenly blocked me for no reason at all and got nasty with me, all this after her talking about our future together. I tried to text her last night and we're talking again but she seems very unsure about dating so who knows if she will disappear again, also her pics seem very weird and old. I like her and all and if she could become a new gf who gives great sex then it will be worth it.
Talking to another one close to the nassau/qns border on the phone, shes a 46yr old milf but talks about her kid and husband non stop but loves to talk real dirty at night so i guess that makes up for it. It helps pass the time but who knows if it will lead anywhere. Ill try to line it up for some summertime fun.
Just messaging a few others on the site, who knows if it will lead anywhere, convos are very boring and any mention of sex too soon or at all and they will just run. I already have a gf now but im just getting tired of her and sex is boring so I feel like i could do better, like looking for a better job when youre stuck at a shitty one. Another funny thing is that the same people are on forever w same pics, its one thing if you dont want to talk to me but are the other 1000s of guys not good enough either because if they found someone they wanted im sure youd never see them on the site again or maybe theyre getting fucked by a diff guy every week, ill never know... too many games on there.
I'm still trying on pof and theyre really playing games its very frustrating and probably a waste of time, most dont even look good and the worse looking ones never answer even if i message them for fun. Alot have just one pic of their face from many years ago.
Main one I was talking to on the phone from pof just suddenly blocked me for no reason at all and got nasty with me, all this after her talking about our future together. I tried to text her last night and we're talking again but she seems very unsure about dating so who knows if she will disappear again, also her pics seem very weird and old. I like her and all and if she could become a new gf who gives great sex then it will be worth it.
Talking to another one close to the nassau/qns border on the phone, shes a 46yr old milf but talks about her kid and husband non stop but loves to talk real dirty at night so i guess that makes up for it. It helps pass the time but who knows if it will lead anywhere. Ill try to line it up for some summertime fun.
Just messaging a few others on the site, who knows if it will lead anywhere, convos are very boring and any mention of sex too soon or at all and they will just run. I already have a gf now but im just getting tired of her and sex is boring so I feel like i could do better, like looking for a better job when youre stuck at a shitty one. Another funny thing is that the same people are on forever w same pics, its one thing if you dont want to talk to me but are the other 1000s of guys not good enough either because if they found someone they wanted im sure youd never see them on the site again or maybe theyre getting fucked by a diff guy every week, ill never know... too many games on there.
Finally had some success on dating sites but it comes with alot of stress.
First one ill call the ''free prostitute'', her profile pic she pretty much looked like a street walker so knew if she was attracted to me it should easy. seemed pretty normal at first even when talking on the phone then hits me with oh let me tell you about my past and it was as bad as my worst fears. Heroin addict, prostitute, said she had a line of 15 guys fuck her but the way she said it like it was no big deal almost thought she was joking. I was kinda deterred but the next day i was horny and had nothing to do so texted her and she agreed to come out.
Tells me her address and i go on pick her up at her house and we go right to the motel, she starts drinking and after 30mins of talking started making moves on me, loved to kiss lot of tongue, pretty big tits for a 5'2 skinny white girl. Got her all naked and tasted everything her pussy and asshole so good, said she never had her ass eaten before. Put a condom on and started fucking her i took a cialis before so i was rock hard felt like i was gonna break something in there. Finished and we relaxed then got ready for round two she blew me real good real into licking inner thighs and all even did a 69 too. Put another condom on and fucked her doggystyle was gonna finish again so we stopped. Everything seemed great we left the room and i dropped her home and she even offered me the money back for the room.. i was pretty happy thought i found someone great.
I txted her to make her feel like i wasnt gonna disappear and no answer which was a bad sign, get her on the phone the next morning and the problems start when she tells me shes at a motel with another guy. I just couldnt believe what i was hearing, throughout our date she was crying and begging me not to see any other girls and she goes and does this. I of course stopped taking her seriously but still wanted to fuck her again. After this she got very weird and unreliable but 2 weeks later got her to come out again but said she had her period so we couldnt do anything, 10mins after picking her up shes all over me and soon after is begging me to take my dick out so she can blow me in public, too many people around so i actually went back to her house. She blew me in her room while i played with her not too messy period pussy (if she wasnt with so many guys i would have done more) came in her mouth and she swallowed felt great. Followed me outside and wouldnt stop kissing me and telling me she loves me. Get home and same unreliable shit tried to be patient but couldnt get her to meet again so shes done.
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Wrote to a black woman and she responded a week or two later and just wanted to meet at a motel to fuck, this was exciting cuz i havent been with a black lady for like 11 years. I get to rodeway in ronkonkoma and wait for her and everything goes dead she completely stops answering. I didnt even have her number we just txting on the dating site pof. I was very disappointed and horny so had to get some relief at forbidden fruit... but theres more to this story after my next one!! I texted her a few days later asking what happened and she just said she changed her mind and wouldnt want to try to meet again. I thought maybe she took one look at me and took off.
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Started talking to another black girl i had a lost connection with before and told her we should hang out i started taking a more aggresive approach. So i mentioned that we should get a room and she seemed ok with it but the day we met it was pretty late so figured we could just get food and i could leave, she must have really liked me because when i picked her up she mentioned that we should get a room. So we did and grabbed food too, ate the food and i started massaging her and kissing her she wouldnt french kiss for whatever reason and was acting all shy said maybe we shouldnt have sex first date cuz she thought i would judge her and not talk to her anymore. I of course would say anything at this point to get it so reassured her everything would be fine. She was like 5'7 lil thick nice look to her, she told her id love to eat her out and make her feel good so she washed up and laid down and i got right into it. Tasted so good she was loving it i was licking her thighs she was going crazy actually got up cuz she got so wet and needed a break, ate her some more wanted to eat her ass too but thought shed get jumpy so hopefully next time.
I put my condom on and stick it in her always take cialis b4 sex now so i was rock hard and she felt just as tight and good as the skinny white girl i was hitting those spots so good, wore her out and finished. Told her i could go another round but she was tired so took her home. She seemed very friendly and into me but stopped answering but then got back to me 2 days later and everything seems fine now and will prob meet again, def want to eat her ass and go raw next time that pussy will feel unbelievable raw. Guess girls need time to process things.
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So back to girl number 2... maybe i felt a burst of confidence but i started teasing her about how i made this other girl feel good and how she missed out... first she called me nasty then her next message was ''lets me now'' i couldnt but we set things up for the next day. Some thing about this one just really turned me on and i really wanted her. I was 90% sure she wasnt gonna she but she actually did. Went up to her asked her if still wanted to do this and she said yes so i went and booked the room quick then went in i took a quick piss and she was already naked. Went right down the taste that pussy and it was good huge clit and lips but toughest i ever had it would have taken hours to make her cum got so hot from my effort had to put AC on. Put my condom on and fucked her pussy didnt feel as great as others but still very good, couldnt hold back anymore and finished, she kept calling me daddy btw.
So i asked her about why she didnt show up and she said she was scared to see a white guy and i was her first, now i knew her ass was huge but til now shes been on her back i asked to see her ass figured she would flip over but she went doggystyle and omg what a sight! i spread those big cheeks and ate that ass so good i was in heaven got hard again after cumming like 5mins before and just stuck it in her doggy then did more missionary then she wanted to be on top and kept asking me to let her suck it... she seemed more shy and reserved but this may have been the best head i ever got in my life. She went crazy on me up and down real fast felt like pure silk no hands right after it was in her pussy too so that turned me on even more. she was on top for like 10mins til she got tired then we just left.
I like her but itl be strictly hookups and she said i was much better than she thought thinking a white guy would be horrible in bed. Said she would be willing to do this again but who knows when hopefully soon cuz i want her for the whole day.
have some more dates coming up, ill post here if anything cool happens.
First one ill call the ''free prostitute'', her profile pic she pretty much looked like a street walker so knew if she was attracted to me it should easy. seemed pretty normal at first even when talking on the phone then hits me with oh let me tell you about my past and it was as bad as my worst fears. Heroin addict, prostitute, said she had a line of 15 guys fuck her but the way she said it like it was no big deal almost thought she was joking. I was kinda deterred but the next day i was horny and had nothing to do so texted her and she agreed to come out.
Tells me her address and i go on pick her up at her house and we go right to the motel, she starts drinking and after 30mins of talking started making moves on me, loved to kiss lot of tongue, pretty big tits for a 5'2 skinny white girl. Got her all naked and tasted everything her pussy and asshole so good, said she never had her ass eaten before. Put a condom on and started fucking her i took a cialis before so i was rock hard felt like i was gonna break something in there. Finished and we relaxed then got ready for round two she blew me real good real into licking inner thighs and all even did a 69 too. Put another condom on and fucked her doggystyle was gonna finish again so we stopped. Everything seemed great we left the room and i dropped her home and she even offered me the money back for the room.. i was pretty happy thought i found someone great.
I txted her to make her feel like i wasnt gonna disappear and no answer which was a bad sign, get her on the phone the next morning and the problems start when she tells me shes at a motel with another guy. I just couldnt believe what i was hearing, throughout our date she was crying and begging me not to see any other girls and she goes and does this. I of course stopped taking her seriously but still wanted to fuck her again. After this she got very weird and unreliable but 2 weeks later got her to come out again but said she had her period so we couldnt do anything, 10mins after picking her up shes all over me and soon after is begging me to take my dick out so she can blow me in public, too many people around so i actually went back to her house. She blew me in her room while i played with her not too messy period pussy (if she wasnt with so many guys i would have done more) came in her mouth and she swallowed felt great. Followed me outside and wouldnt stop kissing me and telling me she loves me. Get home and same unreliable shit tried to be patient but couldnt get her to meet again so shes done.
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Wrote to a black woman and she responded a week or two later and just wanted to meet at a motel to fuck, this was exciting cuz i havent been with a black lady for like 11 years. I get to rodeway in ronkonkoma and wait for her and everything goes dead she completely stops answering. I didnt even have her number we just txting on the dating site pof. I was very disappointed and horny so had to get some relief at forbidden fruit... but theres more to this story after my next one!! I texted her a few days later asking what happened and she just said she changed her mind and wouldnt want to try to meet again. I thought maybe she took one look at me and took off.
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Started talking to another black girl i had a lost connection with before and told her we should hang out i started taking a more aggresive approach. So i mentioned that we should get a room and she seemed ok with it but the day we met it was pretty late so figured we could just get food and i could leave, she must have really liked me because when i picked her up she mentioned that we should get a room. So we did and grabbed food too, ate the food and i started massaging her and kissing her she wouldnt french kiss for whatever reason and was acting all shy said maybe we shouldnt have sex first date cuz she thought i would judge her and not talk to her anymore. I of course would say anything at this point to get it so reassured her everything would be fine. She was like 5'7 lil thick nice look to her, she told her id love to eat her out and make her feel good so she washed up and laid down and i got right into it. Tasted so good she was loving it i was licking her thighs she was going crazy actually got up cuz she got so wet and needed a break, ate her some more wanted to eat her ass too but thought shed get jumpy so hopefully next time.
I put my condom on and stick it in her always take cialis b4 sex now so i was rock hard and she felt just as tight and good as the skinny white girl i was hitting those spots so good, wore her out and finished. Told her i could go another round but she was tired so took her home. She seemed very friendly and into me but stopped answering but then got back to me 2 days later and everything seems fine now and will prob meet again, def want to eat her ass and go raw next time that pussy will feel unbelievable raw. Guess girls need time to process things.
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So back to girl number 2... maybe i felt a burst of confidence but i started teasing her about how i made this other girl feel good and how she missed out... first she called me nasty then her next message was ''lets me now'' i couldnt but we set things up for the next day. Some thing about this one just really turned me on and i really wanted her. I was 90% sure she wasnt gonna she but she actually did. Went up to her asked her if still wanted to do this and she said yes so i went and booked the room quick then went in i took a quick piss and she was already naked. Went right down the taste that pussy and it was good huge clit and lips but toughest i ever had it would have taken hours to make her cum got so hot from my effort had to put AC on. Put my condom on and fucked her pussy didnt feel as great as others but still very good, couldnt hold back anymore and finished, she kept calling me daddy btw.
So i asked her about why she didnt show up and she said she was scared to see a white guy and i was her first, now i knew her ass was huge but til now shes been on her back i asked to see her ass figured she would flip over but she went doggystyle and omg what a sight! i spread those big cheeks and ate that ass so good i was in heaven got hard again after cumming like 5mins before and just stuck it in her doggy then did more missionary then she wanted to be on top and kept asking me to let her suck it... she seemed more shy and reserved but this may have been the best head i ever got in my life. She went crazy on me up and down real fast felt like pure silk no hands right after it was in her pussy too so that turned me on even more. she was on top for like 10mins til she got tired then we just left.
I like her but itl be strictly hookups and she said i was much better than she thought thinking a white guy would be horrible in bed. Said she would be willing to do this again but who knows when hopefully soon cuz i want her for the whole day.
have some more dates coming up, ill post here if anything cool happens.
Late March I reactivated Tinder and to my surprise have been getting laid quite a bit from it. I don’t know if it’s because the pandemic is letting up and women who were cautious have been releasing sexual energy but it’s never been this easy. There are a ton of really hot women in it too, that in the past in my brief times using it were never on.
think there is also a societal/psychological thing too going on at a scale we really can’t fully can’t comprehend in the moment. A ton of single moms, post wall chicks in their 30s and early 40s. Many trying to get ‘the’ man even though it’s too late for many of them but alot of them are out in the open DTF.
if anyone has been off it like me for sometime reactive and have your shot at it.
think there is also a societal/psychological thing too going on at a scale we really can’t fully can’t comprehend in the moment. A ton of single moms, post wall chicks in their 30s and early 40s. Many trying to get ‘the’ man even though it’s too late for many of them but alot of them are out in the open DTF.
if anyone has been off it like me for sometime reactive and have your shot at it.
More of the shaved head, muscle, heavily tattooed dude that looks like the dude smashing the hotties in a porn type. With a bachelors degree in PUA, game and holding frame. I’m not an older male so I’m not sure. It seems like Seeking would be more beneficial for you. As some of the guys on this page have outlined (which they still contributed) it is some work and nonsense to sift through but at this point so is mongering.
Tried tinder and it seems weird, alot of women on there are also on pof. im using the free version so you dont even know who liked you on there, also i think pics i put up are no focused right on that app, ill try it for a few more days.
pof has turned very bad, ton of fake profiles, alot of girls saying no hook ups right on profile and alot who are barely on or join for a day and delete their accounts. Ive talked to some and they take a whole day or two to even answer with 2 word or 1 line response. At this point ill try to speed things up and get their number sometimes it works sometimes they just stop answering. one wrong word to these women and theyre gone. Long island doesnt have a huge selection and alot of them look very bad but if you look in nyc 85% of the profiles are fake.
pof has turned very bad, ton of fake profiles, alot of girls saying no hook ups right on profile and alot who are barely on or join for a day and delete their accounts. Ive talked to some and they take a whole day or two to even answer with 2 word or 1 line response. At this point ill try to speed things up and get their number sometimes it works sometimes they just stop answering. one wrong word to these women and theyre gone. Long island doesnt have a huge selection and alot of them look very bad but if you look in nyc 85% of the profiles are fake.
There has been for sometime now a phenomena unfolding outside the US (Japan would be a perfect example) that is making inroads in the US. This being where younger folks are very disenfranchised and quite down on the notion of dating. Young men thinking their female counterparts are demanding, manipulative and to interested in what one makes, drives, etc. Women thinking the males are lazy, shiftless and only interested is sex.
in these countries, including our own, dating statistics are down, as is marriage rates and child birth. It’s gotten so bad in Japan that their population is actually dropping (Though Japan, being a relatively densely populated country) can survive that for some time).
in these countries, including our own, dating statistics are down, as is marriage rates and child birth. It’s gotten so bad in Japan that their population is actually dropping (Though Japan, being a relatively densely populated country) can survive that for some time).
I think it depends on the age you put in tinder. Yeah there are a lot of fake profiles, bots and scammers, but, if you're patient you can find the diamonds in the rough. I've had particular success with the over 35 crowd. Usually a divorced single mother, who says she's looking for a real relationship, but when presented with a hookup opportunity will usually just say fuck it and there you go. Also for some reason younger Asian girls have been super easy to fuck.
Just a follow up on @djme123 post, young girls of any ethnic group, by young I mean early to mid twenties, are so unpredictable when it comes to whether or not they will fuck an older man.
I've gotten reactions from "eww that's gross you're my father's age" to an enthusiastic "yeah why not, you remind me of my coach I always wanted to fuck".
But since there is always that chance like the latter I just go for it and if it's a no go I just move on because I know there will always be someone who says yes.
I've gotten reactions from "eww that's gross you're my father's age" to an enthusiastic "yeah why not, you remind me of my coach I always wanted to fuck".
But since there is always that chance like the latter I just go for it and if it's a no go I just move on because I know there will always be someone who says yes.