I lose clients regularly - basically because I have to cut them off. But I have been struggling with the reason. I can not see anyone that has decided that because I “made love” to them that it somehow translates to me being “in love” with them... and in turn they think they are “falling in love with me”.
Don’t get me wrong, I like being desired, I like having fun, I enjoy the flirting, I enjoy the actual sex - even bad sex means I’m getting laid today (which is always the goal)... but please don’t get it twisted.
I don’t do commitment that lasts more than a weekend, I don’t do relationships, I don’t like being told no, I don’t like following rules, I don’t like to be told what to do, I don’t want anyone else deciding my schedule, I hate being lied to about anything no matter how minuscule it may seem, I refuse to check in with anyone about what I’m doing, I don’t answer questions, Im not getting out of this business until my clients have all moved on and I can’t obtain anymore, and I DONT DO LOVE....
I do accept respect & I do accept loyalty. And those two things mean way more to me than Love ever will. And to me - loyalty doesn’t mean I’m the only one they see... it’s just that they ensure me that when I return, they can’t wait to see me! And my clients that have been loyal to me since we met get treated especially well.
I could go through and tag a bunch of you that always follow my rules and make my day a breeze, but I would never do that... just like I could go through and tag the ones that get it twisted.... but again, that’s not me... so please just take a moment to consider this before contacting me. Take a moment to realize that sex is not an emotion to me. It’s a physical act that is a lot of fun. I enjoy it probably more than most women but just as much as I like sex... I like VARIETY.
Last thing, I relaize it can be easy to blur the lines in this hobby, I too have been guilty of such... and occasionally I have to break out my own glasses to see clearly, but this has become a regular thing lately and I really would like to politely ask that all of you take a minute to breathe, enjoy, and relax.
Thanks for letting me vent.