Dear Mongers...

Sophia Belle

Sophia Belle

Trickle Down Economist
#1
#1
FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT??​

I want some feedback on a complicated matter... and please answer with your opinion only as it pertains to your sessions with providers.

I absolutely love sex and love what I do. Sometimes probably more than I really should, but who determines that anyway. There are times when climaxing is just not going to happen. As a rule, I have refused to fake it... but it seems that the men always seem so defeated when I don't get there. I always explain that it is not that I don't enjoy it, it just happens sometime. (S/N - Believe me, if I didn't enjoy it, I can always teach you during the session to do it the right way for me to enjoy it!!) SO.... do I fake it or not?
 
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AlwaysHavingFun

#3
#3
Sophia Belle said:
FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT??​

I want some feedback on a complicated matter... and please answer with your opinion only as it pertains to your sessions with providers.

I absolutely love sex and love what I do. Sometimes probably more than I really should, but who determines that anyway. There are times when climaxing is just not going to happen. As a rule, I have refused to fake it... but it seems that the men always seem so defeated when I don't get there. I always explain that it is not that I don't enjoy it, it just happens sometime. (S/N - Believe me, if I didn't enjoy it, I can always teach you during the session to do it the right way for me to enjoy it!!) SO.... do I fake it or not?
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Don't fake it...be yourself
 
MayorSimpleton

MayorSimpleton

#5
#5
Tough one. The sounds of a woman enjoying sex gets me off even though I know as a monger, it's almost always fake. If a guy is giving you no pleasure at all and you appeared bored, i think that would ruin it for the guy paying a decent amount for the experience. However I do like your honesty.
 
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lovelight

#7
#7
Communication is key. Some women love certain activities and positions. Won't know if you don't ask and it probably won't happen first visit,although it has .

It's hard faking the uncontrollable shaking ,as brief as it may be sometimes.
If she likes what you're doing don't stop doing it.

Some providers have absolutely no interest in pleasure for themselves through their clients. I've tried to stay away from them at all costs. NOTHING turns me on like a woman having areal orgasm,it's just my thing that perhaps others share .

If she says "OMG you're hitting my spot" that should be a clue to remain on task ;)
 
genius

genius

#11
#11
During a session (that I am paying for as will the clients with earlier and later appointments) I want to enjoy myself with as few distractions as possible.
So here is feed back, unvarnished, to the point, listing of my preferences:

I discuss in detail before the session starts what I want (prevents multiple "oh you want that - that's xxx more" during the session - I want to get the $ out of the way)

I enjoy doing DATY for the act itself - if you want to get off just tell me during it I will cooperate, if not please don't do any fake moaning - I find it distracting and actually annoying

For Christ's sake, unless you have a clitoris in your throat (a la Deep Throat - Linda Lovelace) please, please don't make moaning sounds while you suck my dick.

During various positions for my enjoyment all I require is enthusiastic cooperation - I have actually put my finger up to a woman's lips, smiling and saying "shhh, that's not necessary".

Turn off your phone.
 
genius

genius

#14
#14
MayorSimpleton said:
That may be true but I still think when you're paying you don't want the dead fish syndrome. .......
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Of course they don't want "the dead fish syndrome" (I assume hopefully you're not talking about smell but just lying there staring at the ceiling). I suspect that if many of the guys were ok with the "dead fish syndrome" they would be having sex with their wives and the escorts would go out of business.
 
AssMan19

AssMan19

#15
#15
For starters Sophia you bring up an excellent question. The prevailing question should you fake it or not shows many of us that your main concern is that you provide a memorable experience to EVERYONE who sees you. I think many providers don’t necessarily share your concerns.

I agree with Genius and Lovelight wholeheartedly!!!! I would just like to add that ATTITUDE and CHEMISTRY also go a long way. A few years back I saw a provider who said that she never gets off during DATY. Like Genius I enjoy the act of daty but I also enjoy getting the girl to hopefully orgasm. She just laid there with her legs spread and was totally uninterested. Some guys have a different approach that some girls find pleasing while others don’t and vice versa when it comes to girls pleasing us. A little direction to provide the ultimate pleasure experience is sometimes needed and welcomed despite initial insecurities by some. Think of how good those who were insecure will feel when you do orgasm. I think the majority of guys do care and wouldn’t want you to fake it. Sometimes when something is lacking both the guy and girl don’t cum and orgasm.

Another time I saw a provider her attitude was great as she wanted to please me but there was zero chemistry between us. She didn’t take direction well at all, as we all like things done differently. For me at least, if there is no chemistry then psychologically I have checked out and not into the session. This provider had said to me, I had never had anyone not cum before. I said well there is always a first time.

Sophia I say don’t fake it!!! Yes there will be guys who are insecure and might even feel inadequate. But if handled properly, which I am sure you would, these initial thoughts will be quickly squashed by most of the mongers.
 
Waterclone

Waterclone

Go ahead. Try me.
#19
#19
Socially, never fake it. If your partner thinks orgasm is required, then educate him that sex without it is ok. It doesn't always happen. Make him (or her) a better lover by teaching them.

Professionally, yes, fake it. Guys are paying for a fantasy. Part of that fantasy is that they are good lovers and can always make their women cum. If you have regular clients who understand sexuality, then you can be more honest with them. But, as a general rule, you cumming is part of the fantasy.

Oh. But to clarify, I mean within reason. You don't have to moan and go crazy the second he starts to do DATY. You should be honest in your reactions (unless he really sucks at it). I just mean that, by the end of the date, if you aren't going to cum, then a little extra acting effort will do the job.
 
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