Covered Blow Jobs/Covered Full Service
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Originally posted by justme
æ - See, for me the pacing would be interrupted too much, even for just 5 - 10 seconds (and I guess it's always seemed like more time than that...). Also, I don't get a whole lot of sensation out of uncovered blowjobs (I know that this puts me in a very small mnority), so for me the marginal difference is too negligible to bother with repapplying a condom later.
æ - See, for me the pacing would be interrupted too much, even for just 5 - 10 seconds (and I guess it's always seemed like more time than that...). Also, I don't get a whole lot of sensation out of uncovered blowjobs (I know that this puts me in a very small mnority), so for me the marginal difference is too negligible to bother with repapplying a condom later.
*btw, i think this is a function of people who think too much. goddamn that life of the mind crapola.
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Having thought about it for a while . . . .
1. In this particular case, because to me the whole point of 69 as a sex act is mutuality.
2. In general, because the selfish reason I enjoy performing cunnilingus is that I enjoy feeling like I got some woman really off. But part of why is so that she'll be more passionate and uninhibited toward me. Which as far as I'm concerned is over the minute the condom slips on for a blow job.
Originally posted by justme
(Seriously, if you're going to perform cunnilingus in a session at all (and I do (for my enjoyment, of course)), what does it matter if she happens to be giving you a cbj at the same time?)
(Seriously, if you're going to perform cunnilingus in a session at all (and I do (for my enjoyment, of course)), what does it matter if she happens to be giving you a cbj at the same time?)
2. In general, because the selfish reason I enjoy performing cunnilingus is that I enjoy feeling like I got some woman really off. But part of why is so that she'll be more passionate and uninhibited toward me. Which as far as I'm concerned is over the minute the condom slips on for a blow job.
Originally posted by h. von bingen
i don't mean this as an indictment in any way. but, you're like a girl's worst nightmare: the super highly calibrated guy.* i think for the most part, girls like (as one of jl's stripperfriends once said) guys who come fast (at least from blow jobs). there's few things as frustrating as a guy that you're going down on who looks like they are going to come like 10 times and never gets there. if i wanted that kind of aggro, i'd have sex with a girl.
*btw, i think this is a function of people who think too much. goddamn that life of the mind crapola.
i don't mean this as an indictment in any way. but, you're like a girl's worst nightmare: the super highly calibrated guy.* i think for the most part, girls like (as one of jl's stripperfriends once said) guys who come fast (at least from blow jobs). there's few things as frustrating as a guy that you're going down on who looks like they are going to come like 10 times and never gets there. if i wanted that kind of aggro, i'd have sex with a girl.
*btw, i think this is a function of people who think too much. goddamn that life of the mind crapola.
Originally posted by h. von bingen
1. note the parenthetical.
2. btw, since i now live with hombre we have very little sex. i expect to stop completely when we get married. (can't ever say i don't make a good wife.)
1. note the parenthetical.
2. btw, since i now live with hombre we have very little sex. i expect to stop completely when we get married. (can't ever say i don't make a good wife.)
2. Sorry to hear that. When married, will you then start engaging in commercial sex like the rest of us?
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Originally posted by h. von bingen
i don't mean this as an indictment in any way. but, you're like a girl's worst nightmare: the super highly calibrated guy.* i think for the most part, girls like (as one of jl's stripperfriends once said) guys who come fast (at least from blow jobs). there's few things as frustrating as a guy that you're going down on who looks like they are going to come like 10 times and never gets there. if i wanted that kind of aggro, i'd have sex with a girl.
*btw, i think this is a function of people who think too much. goddamn that life of the mind crapola.
i don't mean this as an indictment in any way. but, you're like a girl's worst nightmare: the super highly calibrated guy.* i think for the most part, girls like (as one of jl's stripperfriends once said) guys who come fast (at least from blow jobs). there's few things as frustrating as a guy that you're going down on who looks like they are going to come like 10 times and never gets there. if i wanted that kind of aggro, i'd have sex with a girl.
*btw, i think this is a function of people who think too much. goddamn that life of the mind crapola.
It's not that I can't come fast, it's just that I don't want to (normally). That's not even entirely true. If I were to have sex about as often as I'd like (maybe 2-3 times a day), I'm sure a good deal of it would be fairly quick. In the times that I have been able to have sex about that frequently, quickie sex was definitely part of the portfolio (I can't count the number of times I was out the door for work, on the kitchen table five seconds later, and still on time to catch my bus).
But when I have sex as infrequently as I've had it the past few years (not much more than weekly on the average), I just have a real problem with letting it go by too quick.
Specifically talking about oral sex, it really shouldn't come as any surprise that I don't get a lot out of it. There's just no affirmation in being a recipient (that looks really counterintuitive when I write it out). And I'd never make a woman try to bring me off via oral (unless I was paying for it and even then rarely). Sometimes I've had a woman insist, viewing it as almost a challenge, on these occasions it's worked out OK.
Originally posted by pjorourke
1. What parenthetical? I thought I knew how to read them until we had the long discussion on proper punctuation thereof. Now I'm just confused.
2. Sorry to hear that. When married, will you then start engaging in commercial sex like the rest of us?
1. What parenthetical? I thought I knew how to read them until we had the long discussion on proper punctuation thereof. Now I'm just confused.
2. Sorry to hear that. When married, will you then start engaging in commercial sex like the rest of us?
1. blowjobs.
Re: Having thought about it for a while . . . .
1. I'm not sure that I assign a 'point' to individual sex acts except...
2. Yeah, I suppose that the selfish reason I perform cunnilingus during commercial sex (other than the histrionic related ones) is that I have some vain hopes that it will lead to better sex (actually, not so vain, given experience). Anyway, I've found that I can still secure the better sex regardless of whether or not I can secure a bbbj.
(And of course we have to remember that I belong in Ripley's)
Originally posted by justlooking
1. In this particular case, because to me the whole point of 69 as a sex act is mutuality.
2. In general, because the selfish reason I enjoy performing cunnilingus is that I enjoy feeling like I got some woman really off. But part of why is so that she'll be more passionate and uninhibited toward me. Which as far as I'm concerned is over the minute the condom slips on for a blow job.
1. In this particular case, because to me the whole point of 69 as a sex act is mutuality.
2. In general, because the selfish reason I enjoy performing cunnilingus is that I enjoy feeling like I got some woman really off. But part of why is so that she'll be more passionate and uninhibited toward me. Which as far as I'm concerned is over the minute the condom slips on for a blow job.
2. Yeah, I suppose that the selfish reason I perform cunnilingus during commercial sex (other than the histrionic related ones) is that I have some vain hopes that it will lead to better sex (actually, not so vain, given experience). Anyway, I've found that I can still secure the better sex regardless of whether or not I can secure a bbbj.
(And of course we have to remember that I belong in Ripley's)
(Of course a woman wants a guy to come quick while giving him head. A guy wants the same out of a woman (for the most part). I mean, there's not a whole lot of pleasure out of giving oral sex aside from the 'ta da!' aspect, and you get that just as well (if not more) when it occurs sooner rather than later.)
Originally posted by justme
(Of course a woman wants a guy to come quick while giving him head. A guy wants the same out of a woman (for the most part). I mean, there's not a whole lot of pleasure out of giving oral sex aside from the 'ta da!' aspect, and you get that just as well (if not more) when it occurs sooner rather than later.)
(Of course a woman wants a guy to come quick while giving him head. A guy wants the same out of a woman (for the most part). I mean, there's not a whole lot of pleasure out of giving oral sex aside from the 'ta da!' aspect, and you get that just as well (if not more) when it occurs sooner rather than later.)
Originally posted by justme
A guy wants the same out of a woman (for the most part). I mean, there's not a whole lot of pleasure out of giving oral sex aside from the 'ta da!' aspect
A guy wants the same out of a woman (for the most part). I mean, there's not a whole lot of pleasure out of giving oral sex aside from the 'ta da!' aspect
I really like the feeling of going down on a girl. I like the taste of her, and the smell of her, and the feel of her on my tongue. I really get off on it. It's not some altruistic thing (although it is fun if/when she comes), and it's not an attempt to get her to do something else later (although I never pass up a BBBJ in return). It's just that eating pussy is SO much fun, especially with non-providers.
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Originally posted by alterego
Oh man, I TOTALLY disagree with this.
I really like the feeling of going down on a girl. I like the taste of her, and the smell of her, and the feel of her on my tongue. I really get off on it. It's not some altruistic thing (although it is fun if/when she comes), and it's not an attempt to get her to do something else later (although I never pass up a BBBJ in return). It's just that eating pussy is SO much fun, especially with non-providers.
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Oh man, I TOTALLY disagree with this.
I really like the feeling of going down on a girl. I like the taste of her, and the smell of her, and the feel of her on my tongue. I really get off on it. It's not some altruistic thing (although it is fun if/when she comes), and it's not an attempt to get her to do something else later (although I never pass up a BBBJ in return). It's just that eating pussy is SO much fun, especially with non-providers.
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