Re: Re: Having thought about it for a while . . . .
Originally posted by justme
1. I'm not sure that I assign a 'point' to individual sex acts except...
2. Yeah, I suppose that the selfish reason I perform cunnilingus during commercial sex (other than the histrionic related ones) is that I have some vain hopes that it will lead to better sex (actually, not so vain, given experience). Anyway, I've found that I can still secure the better sex regardless of whether or not I can secure a bbbj.
(And of course we have to remember that I belong in Ripley's)
So I guess it comes back to swope's point.
I don't think covered FS is any great thing. But obviously I don't expect or particularly want (unless I'm being honest -- but let's put that aside) BBFS commercially. (I mean, certainly I don't
look for it.)
So that leaves us with the situation where I'm giving the prostitute oral sex, and she's getting all hot and bothered (or pretending to -- I can't know), and then all I get is some covered BJ that feels like absolutely
nothing to me, so then we move onto covered genital sex that, to be honest, doesn't feel a whole heck of a lot better from my perspective, but she's all wet and stuff and obviously wanting to come (or pretending to -- I can't know), and without the BBBJ to get me started I'm not feeling very stimulated at all, and the pressure is building and I'm not feeling anything, and we're even positioning ourselves to maximize
her stimulation rather than mine, and . . . .
You can see that what I'm getting just doesn't turn out to be "great sex" for me.