Sorry my friend, I certainly did not mean to raise confusion.. “ A man of principal” was said perhaps tongue in cheek..Let’s face it...most of us mongers are lacking certain principals, but when it comes down to expenditures related to the hobby, I for myself have my limitations ...
In this case, the gal is advertising heavily, changing her m o so to speak and marketing herself as a higher volume, exclusive provider..What I knew of her ( and this was based on personal interpretation only) was she was always low volume and partook in a date only a few times a month... I was made to feel special and somewhat exclusive.. ... Knowing now I am just that time slot, cheapens the experience for me and allows me to reconsider not spending the extra money and just move on...
Trader1, I agree with you.
We do have principals and we do have integrity, even as mongers. We want to be treated like a human being and not a cashbox. Let her treat her other clients like that. But not you. And as soon as she starts treating you as such, it is over. You did not treat her like a whore. You gave her the title of ATF.
I was in the service industry providing expertise and services to a highly educated and demanding clientele. I had my fair share of the market and I kept clients for 40 years. I was good at my skill but there were others, my competition, who were on par. I kept my clients by treating them like human beings. After hours, without being paid, hearing their tail of woe, as a friend, without compensation, as a human being.
You should expect that from an ATF. Just because she is a prostitute, does not mean she is devoid of humanity. To feel connected with and trusting of another human being is rare and not so common in what we do here, but it truly does exist when you both bear your souls to each other, and you have a right to expect integrity and decency from that ATF.
A great looking hooker that you enjoy for her pure sex is not an ATF. They both have their places in our lives. You have a right to make the distinction.
Sounds like she has gone into desperate survival mode. Getting older, changing her style and it is her against the world. And she forgot that we all have to live life moment by moment and appreciate the wonderful people that we meet and exchange with, even if there is remuneration exchanged.
As a human being, you deserve to be treated well.