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[BigMadM]

Will someone please answer me.

If I walk into a room, with an escort, and say, ok, get on your knees and suck my dick, and dont stop until I come, and then dont stop, I want you to keep going until my knees buckle.
No conversation, no, Hi, so hows everything, what do you do for a living. yada yada......am I treating this girl less than human?

 

[pjorourke]

New one on me.

Originally posted by slinkybender
tsuris

????

I thought we had an english only rule.

 

[pjorourke]

Originally posted by BigMadM
If I walk into a room, with an escort, and say, ok, get on your knees and suck my dick, and dont stop until I come, and then dont stop, I want you to keep going until my knees buckle.
No conversation, no, Hi, so hows everything, what do you do for a living. yada yada......am I treating this girl less than human?

I don't think so. I think thats a "different stroke for different folks" type situation. You obviously are going to get a different experience than the "lover boys" with their flowers and gifts, but its your call what you are looking for. Hell, I never understood someone getting their rocks off by getting peed on.

 

[xxx_xoxo]

different strokes for different folks

bmm, i don't think that the scenario you described is treating the girl less than human. like pj said, it is just a different kind of session. a good portion of the small talk "get-to-know-you" stuff i engage in with some dates is to make YOU feel more at ease... not to elicit some sort of treatment from you!

~xxx

 

[justme]

So I'm a wimp

You could phrase that, "What I'd really like for you to do is get on your knees and..."

Or you could say, "Get on your knees and..."

The distinction between an order and a request has a lot to do with social position and respect.

Pleasantries are social lubricant, and I think in prostitution where there is a lot of serious dehumanization a little lube goes a long way.

Another way of thinking about this is that you have session conversation with a prostitute, "A little to the left, ah yeah," and you have meta-session conversation with a prostitute, "What time are you available? The kind of session I'd like is..." During the session conversation I think that it's fair to say just about anything as long as both parties agree to the tone ahead of time in the meta-session. I generally try to handle the meta-conversation in the same way I would any other business conversation... lot's of social lubricant.

I think the more johns make an effort to treat the prostitute very humanely out of session (the converse, I'm sure, is also true but we're not talking about it here), the less dehumanizing the actual session will be no matter what actually happens. After all, a session is just make believe.

 

[BigMadM]

one of the best sessions I ever had was a young girl who just said, "comere big boy, Im gonna fuck ya so long Ill fuck some of that fat right off ya."
Too bad I cant mention her, shed get really pissed off.

 

[pjorourke]

Re: So I'm a wimp

Originally posted by justme
Pleasantries are social lubricant, and I think in prostitution where there is a lot of serious dehumanization a little lube goes a long way.

Most prostitutes use lots of lube.

 

[fumpton]

speaking of lube, the last provider I saw told me not to put too much lube on the condom, she can't feel it when it's too slippery. 15 minutes later I was cumming buckets doing her doggy style.

 

[Hawley Griffin]

Next time line the condom with sandpaper.

 

[fumpton]

inside or outside?

 

[jp1064]

Originally posted by BigMadM
Will someone please answer me.

If I walk into a room, with an escort, and say, ok, get on your knees and suck my dick, and dont stop until I come, and then dont stop, I want you to keep going until my knees buckle.
No conversation, no, Hi, so hows everything, what do you do for a living. yada yada......am I treating this girl less than human?

Yes, except if she's into being submissive and likes that sort of thing.

 

[Thorn]

Originally posted by xxx_xoxo
there is a lot of muddiness in my mind around pmb attempts to "professionalize" hooking (with reviews, industry standards, etc.) but then simulataneously reduce hookers to non-people ~ even occasionally to animals. or just stupid bitches. the double standard takes on new meaning on a whoreboard.

I think you are judging many by the idiocy of a few.

I think many bend over backwards here to make nice-nice to the working gals. They are looking to curry favor.

Someone like myself, while plain spoken, is always polite. I never forget that people are people and if I want respect I have to give it. The very few people I don't give respect are people I want nothing from in any way, including their respect.

It's my opinion that judging the lot of us by the actions of the vemeers of the this board is wrong headed.

 

[Thorn]

Originally posted by BigMadM
Will someone please answer me.

If I walk into a room, with an escort, and say, ok, get on your knees and suck my dick, and dont stop until I come, and then dont stop, I want you to keep going until my knees buckle.
No conversation, no, Hi, so hows everything, what do you do for a living. yada yada......am I treating this girl less than human?

If she knows you and you have specifically contracted for a service of that nature, then no. You are willing, adult, participants entering into a mutually agreed scenario.

IF she has no clue that this is the way you behave, and you haven't discussed it before hand, than yes, there is a line that I believe has been crossed.

 

[xxx_xoxo]

Originally posted by Thorn
It's my opinion that judging the lot of us by the actions of the vemeers of the this board is wrong headed.

thorn,

yes, you are always a gentleman!

i did not mean to say that all ~ or even many ~ pmb posters are pigs. pmb's are by nature like a big soup made up of many intermingled ingredients, the bitter, the sweet and the spicy... one cannot separate the spice from the soup once it is brewing. one cannot separate the piggishness from the pmb once it is stewing. (it would be pretty bland around here without it!)

my point was that the boards demonstrate a strange mix of conflicting attitudes and desires towards hookers. this is precisely why this "profession" will never be too professional... by nature it calls upon the most untamed and wayward of human desires and needs.

or that's my opinion. i personally object to the term provider in regards to myself ~ it puts a "professional" face on something i consider to be more unruly and intimate (in its own way.)

~xxx

 

[jp1064]

Originally posted by xxx_xoxo
i personally object to the term provider in regards to myself ~ it puts a "professional" face on something i consider to be more unruly and intimate (in its own way.)

I'm just curious x, what term do you like?

 

[jras]

semi-provider?
non-pro pro?
luv bunny?
(where's vermeer when you really need him?)

 

[xxx_xoxo]

nix on the luv bunny

"hooker" suits me just fine

~xxx

 

[April]

Re: Re: So I'm a wimp

Originally posted by pjorourke
Most prostitutes use lots of lube.

Spit works better!

 

[April]

Originally posted by BigMadM
WELL-IM SICK AND TIRED OF GIRLS WHO FEEL THIS WAY, AND WAY TOO MANY OF THEM FEEL THIS WAY, SO THEY BETTER BE PREPARED TO BE CALLED ALOT OF NAMES THEY DONT LIKE BECAUSE AT THAT KIND OF SALARY, THEY SHOULD LEARN TO HANDLE THINGS DIFFERENTLY, AND UNTIL THEN, EXPECT TO BE CALLED THINGS LIKE CUNT AND EVERY OTHER DISGUSTING WORD UNDER THE SUN, BECAUSE THE TOTAL DISREGARD FOR OTHER PEOPLE IS SO OBVIOUS, MAYBE THEY SHOULD GET ALL RILED UP AND COME ON HERE AND SAY, YEAH, SO I FUCKED YOU OVER, WHAT ARE YOU GOIJNG TO DO, CALL ME A CUMDUPMSTER?
IT WILL BE AT THAT POINT, THAT EVERYONE ELSE WILL BE ABLE TO SEE THAT THE GIRL IS NOT ALL SHES CRACKED UP TO BE, SINCE IF SHE IS TOTALLY UNRELIABLE, LIKE 20% OF THE GIRLS I KNOW, SHE IS USELESS TO MOST OF US.

It's not what you say it's how you say it. Saying xyz stood me up , or what late 3 hrs, or vagina smelled smelled. That is info guys need.
IMO Saying instead The dumb cunt xyz stood me up , or was late 3 hrs, or pussy her vagina smelled Isn't needed and while it lets you air out your anger at the moment, you are inadvertantly (sp?) doing damage to the bisiness end of the board. Speak the truth keep nothing back, girls need thick skin because unlike other boards with reg review sites here it shows as a post, to me thats better. If its true I appologize and give my side of it and make up for it. If its a flat out lie I will deny it , but no futher pissing contests anymore, I've been around long enough for those that know me know what my MO is and isnt. I always say if it dont apply let it fly. I luv u mike and I know your a pussycat as long as things go your way and your the tazmanian devile when they dont. Draft a post on wordperfect, leave it for an hour, you obviously write these posts when your temper is up cause for more than half you come back and appologize. If you still feel the same then post it but read it over first and see if there is anything not needed for the full info, by all means if we screw up tell the world , keep it true and accurate as I know you mike for one do, that was more so for others.

Just my advice, you know how i feel about you, you big lug,
thats why i feel i can say this, just like you can tell me im getting to fat or skinny or old (I'll kick yo ass)lol

love you
April

www.samanthaofnewyork.com

 

[BigMadM]

I am not an agent of this board.
I promote this board as the best site to advertise to any girl that might ask me how she might drum up business.
I promote it because I enjoy being a member, and would like to see it around for as long as possible.
I support this board by donating what I consider a fair amount.

When the day comes that my accurate and honest account of something that happens, cost the board a possible advertiser, Ill leave it up to the moderator to either warn me to shut up, or tell me to leave, or just ban me.
Once I am told that complete honesty and accuracy is not appreciated here by me, I will leave.

I dont have the board skills or saavy as many other posters.
I post what I feel or what happens.

There are alot of clever people who know how to send me *****, god only knows how they got my ***** addy, and I cannot respond to the hate mail.
Its obvious, I have alot of ***** buddies that hate me for posting.
My latest *****, very funny one, warned me that being a shill for new agencies or indies, will not save me, even if I am a puppet, with someone over me pulling the strings.