The death of any illusions about my sanity
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Each person has a series of lessons they must learn in life to find contentment within themselves. IMHO, a substantially functional, healthy relationship is one which moves you along towards that goal.
I disagree with you about Frog's Continuum Theory. He didn't have as many facts at his disposal. He hadn't contemplated the many faces of sex within himself; nor had he contemplated the Void.
He wanted to see only the similarities between prostitutes and our mothers, sisters and daughters. He was too afraid to contemplate the differences. Like Freud, he was too busy seeing what he wanted to see about women and turned away from seeing them as they are.
Although his efforts at developing a General Theory of Commercial Sex were admirable, they were primitive - like the earliest abstract thinkers in Greece.
Now there will be an inevitable outbreak of Needy Guyism. My sessions will no longer be safe. I can't do a thing with Needy Guys when we are all sitting around afterwards in other johns' sessions. They don't take orders well and can't dance nearly as well as Stoics, Studs and Lovers. When the riff-raff start getting edgy and move in for the kill, they whimper.
I hate it when catatonics whimper.
JC
Each person has a series of lessons they must learn in life to find contentment within themselves. IMHO, a substantially functional, healthy relationship is one which moves you along towards that goal.
I disagree with you about Frog's Continuum Theory. He didn't have as many facts at his disposal. He hadn't contemplated the many faces of sex within himself; nor had he contemplated the Void.
He wanted to see only the similarities between prostitutes and our mothers, sisters and daughters. He was too afraid to contemplate the differences. Like Freud, he was too busy seeing what he wanted to see about women and turned away from seeing them as they are.
Although his efforts at developing a General Theory of Commercial Sex were admirable, they were primitive - like the earliest abstract thinkers in Greece.
Now there will be an inevitable outbreak of Needy Guyism. My sessions will no longer be safe. I can't do a thing with Needy Guys when we are all sitting around afterwards in other johns' sessions. They don't take orders well and can't dance nearly as well as Stoics, Studs and Lovers. When the riff-raff start getting edgy and move in for the kill, they whimper.
I hate it when catatonics whimper.
JC
Re: i have no doubt u are a charming
We broke up when she went home (very far away). I knew this would be the eventual end, so I can't complain. I have never dated a Catholic (the significance of my religious upbringing is far more subliminal).
I've never taken vaca. Is that like MDMA.
(I never hobby on vacation. Well, almost never)
We broke up when she went home (very far away). I knew this would be the eventual end, so I can't complain. I have never dated a Catholic (the significance of my religious upbringing is far more subliminal).
I've never taken vaca. Is that like MDMA.
(I never hobby on vacation. Well, almost never)
I have always been in agreement with #1, #3 and #4. As a rule, I still believe them. Should anyone think I'm advocating this kind of thing, please reread the title of the thread. I find the exprience similar to the (likely fabricated) story of the guy who suffered from debilitating migraines and deciding to end his misery with a bullet to his head, failed to kill himself but did miraculously solve the migraine problem.
Jealousy was an issue for me. She did not work while we were involved, and even then I had issues. She is not currently employed as a prostitute, nor do I think she ever will be again. If I am wrong, I'll probably take it hard, but will understand.
Jealousy was an issue for me. She did not work while we were involved, and even then I had issues. She is not currently employed as a prostitute, nor do I think she ever will be again. If I am wrong, I'll probably take it hard, but will understand.
Re: Piercing the void
Thanks. As I mentioned above, we broke things off when her visa exprired. I should mention that this was not the visa that she took out to work here. After I met her, she worked, returned home, and then applied for another visa with the purpose of returning to me.
However, even without geopolitical barriers, I doubt the relationship could have been permanent. For one thing, she maintained thatshe wanted to eventually marry and have children, but that she could never marry someone that knew she had worked as a prostitute*. For another, she slurped her soup (sfsf).
Actually, part of why I think the relationship was so healthy was both of our acknowledgement and acceptence of it's inherent temporality.
* - You cant imagine the relief that this inspired in my two friends that were privy to the knowledge of where I'd met her. They had written me off as doomed to K1 visa hell.
Thanks. As I mentioned above, we broke things off when her visa exprired. I should mention that this was not the visa that she took out to work here. After I met her, she worked, returned home, and then applied for another visa with the purpose of returning to me.
However, even without geopolitical barriers, I doubt the relationship could have been permanent. For one thing, she maintained thatshe wanted to eventually marry and have children, but that she could never marry someone that knew she had worked as a prostitute*. For another, she slurped her soup (sfsf).
Actually, part of why I think the relationship was so healthy was both of our acknowledgement and acceptence of it's inherent temporality.
* - You cant imagine the relief that this inspired in my two friends that were privy to the knowledge of where I'd met her. They had written me off as doomed to K1 visa hell.
jl:
Think there's any chance I can incite anybody to privatize Ana?
That's one of the things I'm most proud of doing vis-a-vis Inna.*
It showed the power of the internet.
And didn't cost me a cent.
JC
*Lest anybody think I'm really all that cynical, my hat is still off to the man who apparently gave Inna $28K to leave Julies. His heart (and penis) was in the right place.
PS: You're right about the compliment. Ana is a straight shooter.
Think there's any chance I can incite anybody to privatize Ana?
That's one of the things I'm most proud of doing vis-a-vis Inna.*
It showed the power of the internet.
And didn't cost me a cent.
JC
*Lest anybody think I'm really all that cynical, my hat is still off to the man who apparently gave Inna $28K to leave Julies. His heart (and penis) was in the right place.
PS: You're right about the compliment. Ana is a straight shooter.
Originally posted by fallenwoman
JC,
honestly, none. You've asked me that before, and my answer still hasn't changed
xo
fw
JC,
honestly, none. You've asked me that before, and my answer still hasn't changed
xo
fw
I don't recall ever asking you that question.
You're response, though, is admirable, and shows that you have high standards concerning the nature of love.
Best, etc.
JC
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Obviously this is impossible, but I'll say a few things now (and probably more later).
We were still happy apart, but we were happier together.
Unlike every other woman I've been involved with, she would actually make things better by talking when I was getting upset.
When we compromised, it was always without subjugation.
I never felt like I had to lie to her. In fact, while with her I was compelled to be honest.
She appreciated me without really being able to assess the things that I value most in myself.
We were still happy apart, but we were happier together.
Unlike every other woman I've been involved with, she would actually make things better by talking when I was getting upset.
When we compromised, it was always without subjugation.
I never felt like I had to lie to her. In fact, while with her I was compelled to be honest.
She appreciated me without really being able to assess the things that I value most in myself.
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