I usually just tell them let's just not go there just yet if I'm not comfortable on the question. There's enough we can talk about -- or not talk about -- without having to swap social security numbers. Plus I like to hear what they have to say. Definitely most popular question is Are you Married? Others in that realm include: Have any children? Where do you live? What do you do?
Sugar Babies are not good Girlfriends
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I brought this here since discussion getting too deep probably on the other thread. I've been with her over 3 years. She has been loyal but some weird stuff going on lately so maybe it's run its course I don't know yet. In her case there was a more open period but in truth she needs the money so she does want it all the time. I've tried many want to help her and I'm currently not happy at all about that part atop the weird stuff especially as there were alternative I actually provided for and to her. I recently rejoined SA maybe to distract myself but perhaps I should be cold turkeying the whole thing for a bit.
I have no problem with folks having dinner dates if that's their thing great. I like dinners too but want the benefits part as well and have been lucky with that in most cases becoming a pretty fun part of it for me.
Anyway there is enough "girls next door" who are IMO gorgeous. That's more than fine with me. And yes it should be able both parties helping each other without duping each other. And I prefer LT although I think most are just going for one night stand kind of situations.
I have no problem with folks having dinner dates if that's their thing great. I like dinners too but want the benefits part as well and have been lucky with that in most cases becoming a pretty fun part of it for me.
Anyway there is enough "girls next door" who are IMO gorgeous. That's more than fine with me. And yes it should be able both parties helping each other without duping each other. And I prefer LT although I think most are just going for one night stand kind of situations.
3 years okay , not bad . I mean that what I am looking for ,I am seeking long term. Like that girl I met was perfect but you know the story. That’s my hunt at this point. I wanna take a break from going to the city and getting a sw. I don’t even aim for black girls because I am tired of them. Can’t have pizza everyday you know. Also Nothing has been standing out to me. Online site that post girl for incall and out are hit or miss now. You gotta be really lucky to find a gem.so I need an adorable girl who is gonna be loyal. I know they gonna be seeing other guys for date which is cool with me. That why the trust has to build and I don’t mind paying $100 for the first date/dinner date . She gotta make money somehow, I get it . I notice some of these girls who are looking for long term are just doing it because they in school and can’t work but they going over their head with prices. Which make this discussion perfect here because these girl are here now and once they graduate they go ghost . They leave that past behind and the man she meets who one day become her husband won’t know I fucking them .I feel shit just gonna come back around. I feel one day I’ll meet a perfect SO that was never on these sites but she’ll have a story that she will never tell . Which was she was once a SB Lmaoo . Technology/internet’s pros and cons lol
Sounds deep. Why did you let her go ? And would you say she cried because she saw herself being married to you one day ?(that if your not and if you are , did she know ?) or was crying cause now she has to go back on the hunt for find someone who can fill in that gap that she need to have passive money flowing in.
Also I gotta say this now that this convo is here and is the place for it. I never had a Sb so this route is very new to me. I put my foot in the door here and there but never fully went all for it til I met my first one last week. I guess it my first “L” I take . There will be some wins , hopefully sooner then later but I guess the way I SB comepare to other guys is I wanna make a SB a Girlfirend . The idea is much better but for girls who are SB they think of SD as guys who just want to give them money because they just want to be seen with young girls. Which that I not my case . That why I like to lay thing down on the table with them first because they catch feeling or I catching which I kinda did with the girl last week cause I was talking to here over text since October . There was a lot of potential but I also this makes me think like this girl want to have intimacy for money. Her feeling are gonna grow but she gonna eventually break up with me because she in collage and this is assuming that this the reason why she’s on these site . As for the guy who was there in the picture spending $800 per meet x 2-3 a week to see her already has a wife. Didn’t for one second think damn this shit expensive and my wife will evenully find out which she did. Like what kind of job did he have lol. Also she stupid because she gonna get toss in the street because hey SB are just gonna keep getting younger as we are getting old . When collage doesn’t work out and reach the age of 30+ guys are not gonna want to pay $800 to have a old pussy around. Her feelings are gonna get hurt lol. I do gotta say this it was a shity feeling in a way kinda like a heartbreak or maybe cause I lml had something going but last week and this week has opened my eyes and I am glad for this place because you guys give me great inputs .
Wow she seem like she really nice liked you. Plus you lent her $200 for glasses, she not even asking for them. She borrowing money. A teacher ? Idk why every time I hear SA female are teacher make me think about my teacher from when I pre-k til 12th grade and wonder how many of them would be on these site if there it exist back then. How old what she and what grade she thought . Lol if only I can time travel to fuck my math teacher. But damn sorry to hear that .
She was very nice and pretty. I tried to meet with her as much as i could but i would always have to cancel. She knew my situation though but was ok with it. She fell in love with me and i almost caught feelings also but i had to check my Self a few times. She was in S.A. for about 2 days when i found her . girls like her i do feel bad for but all the others i can just ignore and not give a fuck.
You're looking for a pot of gold. It's basically non-existent. After all this time I still really don't know how my main SB keeps things in check and in fact suspect at this point despite what we've done together and been though that she doesn't. That is, it's a feelings and head game for me but lately I see that it isn't for her. And that's a strong statement. So be cautious and keep yourself in check.
As much fun as I'm having, there is a cold hard reality to a lot of it. But like the title says SB are not good GFs and not even GFs.
As much fun as I'm having, there is a cold hard reality to a lot of it. But like the title says SB are not good GFs and not even GFs.
Yea I would for would feel bad for her too. It’s very rare to find those kind of SB and even though I don’t consider myself to be a dickhead or the better term “fuckboy” . There are many of those out there maybe 70%-80% of the world but When it comes to SB/SD site 95% of guys will be because at the end the day guys just want sex. So it hard for them to filter out BS as much as it hard for us to find a good female on there . Girls catch feeling easier , and in your case where she only been on the site for two days before deleting her account for you . It probably gonna be painful for her. I would hope for her to not don’t come back on the site , because you played your cards right but she gonna find out the hard way that other guys on there are “Basura”(Trash). So let hope she checked herself and that she don’t need the money that bad . So that she can move on to a better life. The normal life.
Yea I know I kinda pushing the envelope a little (or a lot lol) but I just gotta be patient . Make sure I take care of my Purpose first before dipping toes to this other life . Purpose for me means work making my money, staying in good health , getting an education because one can’t never stop learning and Family over all. So while I wait for a Sb to come by and catches my eyes . I’ll still be seeing a few of the sw and lc girls . This hobby becomes more additive but so is everything else in the world . I do understand there a cold hard reality , and your not lying about that. Keeping your purpose and checking yourself is really good to because you don’t want to fall in to deep before it too late . I remember back in the early 2000s some people felt embarrassed because they met their SO online thru MySpace because it didn’t feel natural compare to meet someone in the real world from school/work/bar/etc. Now it meeting a SB who can potienal be your GF/wife . The girl I met last week was talking about how she like animals and I told her I have a dog that basically belong to my little sister . She goes “wow I love dogs maybe one I’ll the dog and sister”. If it is Sb on Sa that carries herself in the right way as being a non-pro , it wouldn’t sound like a bad idea of making them a SO one day. The grossest then is marrying to a SW or escorts . Some guys do catch feelings for them too. Past visit to them have told a lot story but yea I see the SA/Wyp as being the 2.0 of (matchdotcom)
You are searching for a GF on a sugaring site ? Anything can happen, but what is your theory for why sugaring is a good way to find a GF ? Finding a GF on myspace or wife on match.com is not an accurate analogy.
Whether or not Seeking will become an evolved 2.0 version of match.com, depends if membership shifts away from paying for sex at the beginning. Not drinks, dinners, gifts........ cash in exchange for sex. If the members continue to do that, Seeking will remain a sugaring site despite how they market and it will not be a good place to find a real GF.
Whether or not Seeking will become an evolved 2.0 version of match.com, depends if membership shifts away from paying for sex at the beginning. Not drinks, dinners, gifts........ cash in exchange for sex. If the members continue to do that, Seeking will remain a sugaring site despite how they market and it will not be a good place to find a real GF.
Well my theory is not because it’s a good way. It’s just a bit convenient . You see the girls they offer and they see what guys they offer. Tinder and bumble you got to sweep and go one by one . On the sugaring site you get a list. When you get enough girls on you inbox , pay for one month. If your one iPhone I believe they give you a 7-10 day trial for $40-$50 . Tinder it mainly girls look for guy outta their league. Who the guy who they secretly liked from class and if they find them , it becomes a match.
Also Like I said a couple of time I am on the sugering site because it a different route then getting a escort off a site. Escort out there atm are not my taste. SA Girls are much younger, prettier and you are not running into any illegal activity such as going to a motel to find a room number or driving around the island in the middle of the night. Way Too risky . I call this a girlfriend route because I don’t plan to keep on paying a monthly fee for SA. One month should be enough to get a handful of girls . Last time I paid was last year over the summer. My inbox right now has 301 girls to be exactly . Some account seem to be disable but its there waiting for me to pay a membership. It also a girlfriend route because these girls will start talking to you on a day to day basis . Escort wouldn’t really text you on a day to day. Honestly I am open to a one night thing too til I find a girl to take the prement position . It’s like leasing a car but you go outta state and you need a rental . Lmaoo
Convenient for what ? Convenient to finding a SB and/or getting laid ? Yes.
Anything is possible and there are success stories out there. I ditched a SB because she got too serious despite me being married and 20 yrs older than her. However, that is not success. I could not give her what she wanted.
I think you might be calling a sugar relationship and SB a real relationship and GF. They are different.
Anything is possible and there are success stories out there. I ditched a SB because she got too serious despite me being married and 20 yrs older than her. However, that is not success. I could not give her what she wanted.
I think you might be calling a sugar relationship and SB a real relationship and GF. They are different.
