I was having dinner with a (now-"retired") stripper I've been "dating" for a while. After dinner, we were going to a hotel together.
She claimed I was the only (former) customer she was having sex with. Indeed, she claimed, since her boyfriend moved away from the area a few months ago (she plans eventually to join him), I was the only man she was having sex with.
She said I was not, however, the only (former) customer she saw. There was this other guy who she said she considered a friend. She spends a lot of time hanging out with him, and she asks him to do things for her. "I would never expect that from you," she said. "You've got a life."
As much as he obviously wants it, however, she does not have sex with him. Indeed, she told him her boyfriend is her husband in order to fend him off. She said she did not find him attractive. It also seems like he's probably somewhat socially maladroit, since she said he didn't have a girlfriend and probably never had a girlfriend.
"If he wants sex," said this woman who in less an than hour's time was going to be having sex with me, after which I'd give her some money, "he should hire an escort."
Now clubber will probably respond that she was lying to me about all this, and that's the end of the story. But let's pretend for a minute, for discussion's sake, that she was telling me some form of the truth.
I confess that the message I derived, as I was listening to her, wasn't that you can't sell sex to someone you consider a friend. What I thought was, some guys are losers and some aren't.