Originally posted by justlooking
1. I don't think it's a particularly good or desirable thing to befriend sex workers. I think that affirmative attempts to do that on behalf of the customer breach the boundaries upon which this whole business rests (and also betray an unadmirable neediness on the part of the customer).
2. I also think it's dangerous for customers to think in terms of befriending sex workers. It leaves them open to exploitation and emotional anguish.
3. I finally harbor no illusions that I'm friends with the strippers and prostitutes I see.
4. OTOH, I think it's silly to deny the possibly of such friendships' developing. I don't think it would be a bad thing if they did. And while everybody has their own sensitivities, I don't see why, as a rule, they would prevent any customer from continuing to buy sexual services from his friend.
1. I don't think it's a particularly good or desirable thing to befriend sex workers. I think that affirmative attempts to do that on behalf of the customer breach the boundaries upon which this whole business rests (and also betray an unadmirable neediness on the part of the customer).
2. I also think it's dangerous for customers to think in terms of befriending sex workers. It leaves them open to exploitation and emotional anguish.
3. I finally harbor no illusions that I'm friends with the strippers and prostitutes I see.
4. OTOH, I think it's silly to deny the possibly of such friendships' developing. I don't think it would be a bad thing if they did. And while everybody has their own sensitivities, I don't see why, as a rule, they would prevent any customer from continuing to buy sexual services from his friend.
2 - Befriending, much less loving (God forbid!), someone is dangerous in that it opens you up to potential exploitation and emotional anguish whether or not they are a sex worker. I will agree that the risks of such victimization and sufferring are higher than with some other classes/types of women/people, but they are also probably less than with other groups. In other words, I see this a difference of degree, not of kind, in terms of risk.
3 - OK
4 - The red part of #4 seems to directly contradict with the similarly color coded part of #1. Or am I misunderstanding something here? I agree with the last sentence in #4; I think it bothers some people but others don't have any trouble with it at all.
-Ww