Geeez, BMM. I said in my first post that the sex for money aspect of it is subtracted out of the picture...Of course that is the main difference. But the similarities still outweigh the differences.
'Verbal contracts' is a very subjective concept. When you have a gf, you build your relationship around the time you can spend together, and if your work schedules restrict you to one or two days a week, that time becomes very important. Very quickly you both agree on how that time is going to be spent, and yes that includes sex. No money changes hands, but there is plenty of discussion - followed by the actual act or acts - about what is going to happen, where its going to happen, what positions are going to be involved, and what orifices (orificii?) are going to be used.
Money is not the only coin of the realm when it comes to women. You pay in other ways with a gf. All that 'emotional involvement' is part of the price you pay to have sex with a gf.
The opportunity to be a sugardaddy as you describe it has happened to me more than once. What I heard and saw in those (bizzare) "lets talk about it" conversations was a woman thinking she was about to get a sugardaddy AND something VERY similar if not identical to a boyfriend. Its unavoidable, and it means that their standards go up. They already know you have money. What you look like and the kind of person you are become much more important than if you're just some guy she meets in a hotel room. Thats why what you're looking for is more of a challenge to find and keep than if it were just a straight provider situation.
Hey, at least you know what you want.
'Verbal contracts' is a very subjective concept. When you have a gf, you build your relationship around the time you can spend together, and if your work schedules restrict you to one or two days a week, that time becomes very important. Very quickly you both agree on how that time is going to be spent, and yes that includes sex. No money changes hands, but there is plenty of discussion - followed by the actual act or acts - about what is going to happen, where its going to happen, what positions are going to be involved, and what orifices (orificii?) are going to be used.
Money is not the only coin of the realm when it comes to women. You pay in other ways with a gf. All that 'emotional involvement' is part of the price you pay to have sex with a gf.
The opportunity to be a sugardaddy as you describe it has happened to me more than once. What I heard and saw in those (bizzare) "lets talk about it" conversations was a woman thinking she was about to get a sugardaddy AND something VERY similar if not identical to a boyfriend. Its unavoidable, and it means that their standards go up. They already know you have money. What you look like and the kind of person you are become much more important than if you're just some guy she meets in a hotel room. Thats why what you're looking for is more of a challenge to find and keep than if it were just a straight provider situation.
Hey, at least you know what you want.