EZRLOVE,
You said "Ozzy, I agree with you. I already lost. My reputation has been smeared across the internet."
I don't understand something. While I don't pretend to be anywhere near the hobbyist, say, that Ozzy is, I generally read TBD (NY, Miami, Philly), Utopia Guide and a "clients-only" site which will remain nameless (not that virtually everybody here doesn't know its name anyway though), with more regularity than is probably healthy. I don't recall anything specifically naming you, or the provider for that matter, along with ANY salient facts (facts, in this case being from either you or she) of this supposedly "wrongful" encounter, yet you insist that you have been smeared "across the Internet". Could you be exaggerating somewhat ?
In the absence of facts, again only postings from either YOU or SHE, many will form opinions based on any and all hearsay. Many will not.
"The funny thing Ozzy, is that everyone is putting together what happen and I didn't say anything. I have been the one to keep my mouth shut while lies are being told about me."
I think Ozzy's advice was basically correct. If you just leave it alone, it will probably just die and nobody will remember it in a week. Sometimes though, if people not in the know keep it alive, as much as you want to let it die, perhaps you cannot. If that's the case you should let everybody know exactly your side of the story, from the horses mouth so to speak. I can tell you from personal experience, it may turn into a complete conflagration, but at least everybody will KNOW your side of the story.
"I have heard that I am a rapist, that I brutally attacked a girl. And my race is being brought into the whole situation. "
See now, where have you heard that ? I haven't heard it. Even in this thread I just read some vague innuendo about a meeting that turned a little ugly, and now I hear FROM YOU that people are saying these things ABOUT YOU.
"Why should I stay quiet, I got nothing else to loose. And I have absolutely nothing to hide."
Yet you remain silent and let those of us who are not aware of the facts just imagine (and write) what we will. BTW, YOU and some of the posters know of the incident in question but you will note than none of them refer to the participants nor any of the specific activities they are referring to or about. Obviously YOU know everything they are talking about but you should realize that unless they start naming names, the rest of us don't even know what they're talking about. Then YOU go and tell us what we didn't even know.