Oh come on...
"now she's using coded language to destroy the reputation of a highly respected client in our community"
Oh come on, Guy. I think you know me a little better than that.
Do you really think I would yell "fire" just because someone else does? Give me some credit.
Even the mighty fall, Guy...check out what is happening to Big Louie on the ASPD.net Houston board
http://www.reviews.aspd.net/Forum250/HTML/000027.html
--he is being raked over the coals for several behavioral faux pas--one of them was he used his power of influence with several new ladies...did it happen? Well, I have to that most of the guys that were his pals say yes, it indeed did...or at least that Big Louie bragged about it. Who knows...but BL was probably THE most well-respected poster on ASPD...a legend in his own time...but even BL makes mistakes. My anger is about the mistake itself--and the fact that we are all adults and should know better about certain things--there are no second chances here--no amount of apologies that can correct the situation.
What a mess. You wanna know why I brought this up again? Because EZrlove did--with his "I'm just keeping quiet" and that other guys' crap about "Oh poor EZrlove". POOR NOTHING. What a crock. Every day, guys who do the same thing are all over the country, and they all get away with it...why? Because the girl is a hooker. That's what it boils down to. Fuck that. Some have said, "But we had an emotional connection." My ass. If that's true, the right thing would have been done in the first place.
Consequences. Yeah, there are consequences. For Ezrlove? Hell no, all he has to do is get a new handle. She freaking QUIT over this--and is now only seeing two regular clients she trusts at home. What the hell does that tell you?
Reputation--shee-it, you guys have it easy. Don't bark at me about reputation. You have no clue.
Ezrlove, dude, I'm sure you're a nice guy and all, but you fucked up. That's all there is to it. If there are no consequences for you, then we are all screwed. Sorry, but that's how it is. I'm sure you aren't a rapist or a beater or any of that...what I think is you got stupid and you got selfish--and those two are dangerous when you've been drinking and partying with a beautiful girl...but unfortunately most men think that because they are paying for it they are entitled to more privileges...
So you will have to forgive me if I get mad when I see you posting regularly, contributing back into the fold...when my friend can't even log on to this site because she will get flamed up one side and down the other. Forgive me that I'm mad that everyone wants this swept under the rug all nice and neat and pretty...and no one believes her...or at the very least, they are skeptical...and that's enough for me. Why? Well, why do you think?
In Dallas about two weeks ago, there was a girl murdered who was touring from Richardson (right outside D) and she worked for an agency there. The guys on ASPD had a fit about it...pleading with each other.."Oh, we must take care of our girls, protect them...do whatever we can...they are our ladies..." puffing out their chests and patting each other on the back for simply being men....so we girls come up with an idea for a pager system for three girls in Houston, and three girls in Dallas...(to be the "big sisters" for touring girls and newbies)...and asked the guys to help and.....NOTHING. Not a word. The thread has been moved down the list, replaced with topics such as "Enhanced or Real?" and "Who is your ATF?"
I guess you can only expect so much, hmmm?
Perhaps I am just getting jaded after three years.
Either way, it makes my blood boil.