Losing weight the right way IMHO
IMHO the best way to lose weight is through "Diet and Exercise." I know that line has become a cliché, but you have to learn to do it the right way. The best way to diet is to choose and eat a healthier diet. I am going to assume that we don’t just eat junk food (McDonald’s, potato chips, etc) for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Whatever types of food that you regularly eat, try eating less servings and slightly altering it to make it healthier. For instance, if you like to eat mash potatoes and fried chicken for lunch, try modifying it by eating baked chicken instead of fried chicken. Try eating more of the white meat of the chicken (breast). It is much healthier than the dark meat. If you usually eat 3 pieces of chicken, eat 2. Lessen the amount of servings of the mash potatoes as well. If you make your own mash potatoes, don’t get whole milk. Try 1% milk, 2% milk, or fat free milk. I never liked fat free milk but 2% milk works great for me. If you like to eat cereal, try finding one that is good for you (to me, Kellogg’s Smart Start tastes great) and still tastes good that you can eat all the time.
This type of diet becomes habit forming. You should not diet for the short-gain to lose a lot of weight really fast. You should try to modify your eating behavior in order to maintain a healthier lifestyle. I myself have gotten so use to eating things like white meat chicken, that even when I am not on a “diet”, I barely ever eat dark meat chicken. I have gotten so use to 2% milk; it is the only milk I drink now. Try to eat more servings of fruits and vegetables as well. Instead of having ice cream or cake for dessert, try a yogurt or a serving of your favorite fruit (try maybe eating ice cream or cake once in a while). If you like to eat sandwiches, salads etc, try getting low-fat salad dressing and low-fat mayonnaise (I'm sorry but I just can't stand eating anything fat-free, it just takes the taste out of anything completely, but low-fat works for me). Try to cut down on your consumption of juice, and drink a bit more water. Most of us don’t drink enough water on an everyday basis.
You should take the same type of approach to exercise. Try finding some type of exercise activity you like doing, like playing sports, running, jogging, bike riding, yoga, tae bo, or whatever. Do exercises that you can incorporate permanently into your life. If you hate to jog/run, then don't do it. Find something else that you can at least learn to like/love. Exercise is not supposed to be done only when you're dieting. You're supposed to do a certain amount of exercise at least on a weekly basis, like jogging/bike riding a few times a week. By choosing to do exercises that you actually like/love doing, it will make it easier to continue doing them when you're not on a “diet.” That is the key.
If you take this type of approach to diet and exercise, the results may come at a slower pace. I guarantee you, if you stick with it and assimilate these things into your “everyday life,” you will keep the weight off and be healthier in the long run. Most type of diets where you eat "diety" type foods you would not normally eat in your everyday (like slim fast or low-carb diets, protein shakes, or whatever the case may be) only work in the short-run, because once you lose the weight, you're going to go back to eating the way you normally eat and put the weight back on.
These are just some basic tips that I have learned that work. I am not saying that you should not take supplements, diet pills, etc to get the weight off. These things can only help you to lose the weight faster. Remember these are only temporary solutions, which has nothing to do with the underlying problem. Modifying your eating behavior and your attitude towards exercising is the best way IMHO to keep the weight off permanently. I am not some type of exercise guru and I am not saying that you can do this overnight, but in time you can change your eating/exercise habits. If anyone has more tips and want to add anything else, or make comments, feel free.