Almost everybody in the civilized world has psychological distortions regarding sex. Religious rules and societal rules compounded, along with parents and families restricting our understanding of the innate simplicity and beauty of sex.
I would say that the only peoples with a healthy, honest, true and real acclimation towards sex would be tribal communities where they are naked and free. Nothing is hidden. Everybody is walking around with erections, and bright pink moist pussies, free and easy with nothing to hide.
And, they are observing all of nature, pollination, plants, trees, animals, especially monkeys, doing nothing other than eating bananas and fucking. There is absolutely no mystery. No need to monger. You are credited for a healthy libido to add to the tribe. Your sexuality is your great asset, admired by all.
But, since we unfortunately did not grow up amongst the bushmen, we were burdened with the concepts of shame, guilt, limitation with regard to sex to whatever degree we accepted it.
It is our duty to ourselves to free ourselves from the conditioning imposed upon us, not only from our superiors, but that which lies deep in the subconscious of our human psyche.
For myself, giving up sex is a useless restraint that only breeds torment, frustration, and perverted desire.
My approach to free myself from my sexual phobias is to engage in the act very consciously.
Conscious sex can only be performed when to some degree you are able to control your orgasm.
If you are able to control your emission of semen, you are able to consciously design a session, and extend it and elongate it to experience a much higher quantity and quality of sexual content to satisfy all your desires fully.
If you lose control of your semen early, you might shortchange yourself, and not accomplish everything you want and need from a session.
Quality is more important than quantity.
The only way out is to be so satisfied and blissful having experienced sex to the hilt, where it no longer remains mysterious and hidden.
Then, you move on.
So, keep on doing what you are doing, but become a master of your sexuality. And, we have capacity to be a master and not a slave.
I would say that the only peoples with a healthy, honest, true and real acclimation towards sex would be tribal communities where they are naked and free. Nothing is hidden. Everybody is walking around with erections, and bright pink moist pussies, free and easy with nothing to hide.
And, they are observing all of nature, pollination, plants, trees, animals, especially monkeys, doing nothing other than eating bananas and fucking. There is absolutely no mystery. No need to monger. You are credited for a healthy libido to add to the tribe. Your sexuality is your great asset, admired by all.
But, since we unfortunately did not grow up amongst the bushmen, we were burdened with the concepts of shame, guilt, limitation with regard to sex to whatever degree we accepted it.
It is our duty to ourselves to free ourselves from the conditioning imposed upon us, not only from our superiors, but that which lies deep in the subconscious of our human psyche.
For myself, giving up sex is a useless restraint that only breeds torment, frustration, and perverted desire.
My approach to free myself from my sexual phobias is to engage in the act very consciously.
Conscious sex can only be performed when to some degree you are able to control your orgasm.
If you are able to control your emission of semen, you are able to consciously design a session, and extend it and elongate it to experience a much higher quantity and quality of sexual content to satisfy all your desires fully.
If you lose control of your semen early, you might shortchange yourself, and not accomplish everything you want and need from a session.
Quality is more important than quantity.
The only way out is to be so satisfied and blissful having experienced sex to the hilt, where it no longer remains mysterious and hidden.
Then, you move on.
So, keep on doing what you are doing, but become a master of your sexuality. And, we have capacity to be a master and not a slave.