Breaking up with Chicks sucks..
- Thread starter fuckingahole
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Hey Pal,
You need to do what is right for you. You need to put you first. I am not saying to be cruel to anyone. But you can't go getting sick or mad wondering what you should do next....
You did it, told him it wasn't working and wanted to end it. Now both parties need to move on as aweful as it is. He is trying to make you feel guilty. Don't allow it. (easier said than done because you are so caring) but you have to let him deal with it his way without you and perhaps get counseling.
Your feelings........."this too shall pass"
Wishing you the best
Be Well
Mr. PB & J
You need to do what is right for you. You need to put you first. I am not saying to be cruel to anyone. But you can't go getting sick or mad wondering what you should do next....
You did it, told him it wasn't working and wanted to end it. Now both parties need to move on as aweful as it is. He is trying to make you feel guilty. Don't allow it. (easier said than done because you are so caring) but you have to let him deal with it his way without you and perhaps get counseling.
Your feelings........."this too shall pass"
Wishing you the best
Be Well
Mr. PB & J
thanks guys i honestly just wanted to know if i was handling things right by just not responding and really just posted the email because i was concerned and second guessing myself...not about ending things but just how i was handling things...i think not replying, as cold as it is, is the right thing to do..i dont want to give him any kind of false hope or what have you..sadly with a guy like this he wont get over me until hes moved on to "jane doe" #2....thanks for the input...im not the wishy washy girl and once i make a decision thats, that..there is never any going back.
i just really hate hurting him or anyone and the more he says i did the more i want to cave in and answer the phone or email...so best thing it to just not read the emails or listen to the vm's.....things like this have me putting the whole relationship idea on a shelf for a long, long time.....xox
i just really hate hurting him or anyone and the more he says i did the more i want to cave in and answer the phone or email...so best thing it to just not read the emails or listen to the vm's.....things like this have me putting the whole relationship idea on a shelf for a long, long time.....xox
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it makes me think of them as the "me, me, me" people....they say they love you than all they care about is what we do that can make them happy...some disguise it so well you dont realize it til theyve chipped away at you until all you want to do is just bitch slap them...for me school is very important to me, something ive dreamed about finishing since having a baby at 17...so the fact that he doesnt realize its importance to me just proves he doesnt know me and cant possibly love me..i mean shit my kids make me tired too, next thing hed have asked me to quit them too....yeah im in the angry phase of all this and thankfully have a party weds to blow off steam and have fun....deff sticking with battery operated boyfriends from now on....xox
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Thank you Dave for this touch of honesty. Believe me you are in majority. We hate to get dumped. We get neurotic, frustrated, obsessed. We don't enjoy dumping someone, but I would be surprised if someone here would chose to be the dumped one. It shots down your self-esteem and there is nothing worse than that.
Of course, being utter something scumbags (have yet to learn the right formula), we get over soon and discover with joy the bright side of being unchained.
Of course, being utter something scumbags (have yet to learn the right formula), we get over soon and discover with joy the bright side of being unchained.
I had this girl and she dumped me. She dumped me every week. She kept coming back having sex with me and dump me again a few days later. I didn't mind. I agreed with her every time.
Once, as she was riding me like a good cowgirl, she told me: "You must have made a spell on me that is why I keep coming back."
I said: "You never come back for me. You come back for me cock. If there was a spell he did it, I am clean."
She laughed like crazy.
Poor girl. She believed she could do better and kept trying to hook with other guys. She would return heart broken and desperate and laughed as I made fun of her targets. She was quite a catch, but she kind of scared men away.
I should have been offended that she considered those guys to be better than me, but I was a degenerate who just wanted sex and didn't give a shit what she thought of me. I was very young and life was easy.
Once, as she was riding me like a good cowgirl, she told me: "You must have made a spell on me that is why I keep coming back."
I said: "You never come back for me. You come back for me cock. If there was a spell he did it, I am clean."
She laughed like crazy.
Poor girl. She believed she could do better and kept trying to hook with other guys. She would return heart broken and desperate and laughed as I made fun of her targets. She was quite a catch, but she kind of scared men away.
I should have been offended that she considered those guys to be better than me, but I was a degenerate who just wanted sex and didn't give a shit what she thought of me. I was very young and life was easy.
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in my case i would have preferred to be dumped this time because than i wouldnt be sitting here posting at almost 4 in the morning filled with guilt over what went on tonight...wondering if things would have been different if id answered the phone or returned an email today. I wish id done things differently.
I dont know but maybe if id just talked to him yesterday my life wouldnt have turned into one hell of a bad lifetime movie last night...i cant even begin to explain what went on over here and truth out of all my yrs as 'alyssa" ive never been as scared as i was last night. None of this is normal and goes beyond HS dramatics its down right scary and just plain crazy.
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I am trying to figure out when is the best time to tell my ex lawyer girlfriend that I got engaged to my ex jailbird girlfriend. We went to Ihop on Sunrise Highway Valentine's day and I gave her a ring. I just took my lawyer ex girlfriend to Walmart 2 days ago she still thinks I am single.
Hey Desi when is the best time to tell her? She seemed so happy when we went to Walmart at Green Acres Mall.
I am trying to figure out when is the best time to tell my ex lawyer girlfriend that I got engaged to my ex jailbird girlfriend. We went to Ihop on Sunrise Highway Valentine's day and I gave her a ring. I just took my lawyer ex girlfriend to Walmart 2 days ago she still thinks I am single.
Hey Desi when is the best time to tell her? She seemed so happy when we went to Walmart at Green Acres Mall.
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