I am sure some of you guys out there kind of ran into this. I have a four and a half year old daughter that I see for dinner during the week and all day on Saturday. This hasn't affected my dating life so far. It's a long story, the mother of my kid never told me she existed until she was 13 months old.
Well, I met a girl that is 25, professional. If any of you have read my stories, she's a lot different than any of the chicks I have dated over the last 5 years. A lot different.
I haven't danced around the issue with her at all. It hasn't come up at all. But, I have to come out and tell her before anything takes off. And by the way things are going, this just might take off. Listen, life happens. I won't deny my daughter. I just don't know what her reaction is going to be.
Would coming out and saying:
I don't know if this came up, but I have a 5 year old daughter. She lives in the Bronx with her mother and I see her on Saturdays. I just want to assure you that there is no drama with the mother; she is happy in a relationship with my daughter's step-father. But I do see my kid every week and I do pay child support.
It really is confusing. We kind of have our "first date" tonight. So I figure that this should come up. I just don't know how to go about it.
Honestly, I would completely understand if this girl walked away from our burgeoning relationship. No matter how pretty and sane a picture I paint, that would probably hit someone pretty hard.
Be well and looking for some pointers here,
Gavy
Well, I met a girl that is 25, professional. If any of you have read my stories, she's a lot different than any of the chicks I have dated over the last 5 years. A lot different.
I haven't danced around the issue with her at all. It hasn't come up at all. But, I have to come out and tell her before anything takes off. And by the way things are going, this just might take off. Listen, life happens. I won't deny my daughter. I just don't know what her reaction is going to be.
Would coming out and saying:
I don't know if this came up, but I have a 5 year old daughter. She lives in the Bronx with her mother and I see her on Saturdays. I just want to assure you that there is no drama with the mother; she is happy in a relationship with my daughter's step-father. But I do see my kid every week and I do pay child support.
It really is confusing. We kind of have our "first date" tonight. So I figure that this should come up. I just don't know how to go about it.
Honestly, I would completely understand if this girl walked away from our burgeoning relationship. No matter how pretty and sane a picture I paint, that would probably hit someone pretty hard.
Be well and looking for some pointers here,
Gavy