Took me a while to find this.
I think is up to each of us to stop or continue. When there is a will, there is a way.
You only have a few moments to enjoy outside of all the things you are responsible for. Make those moments count.
It could be a new personal best at the gym. It can also be the experience of being balls deep inside a sexy woman you've never met before.
I like the idea of rubbing one out and saving any funds that were not spent. Maybe I can finally get that one toy I wanted for years by taking this approach.
I would leave this anytime but everytime I see a new sexy piece of ass, the urge comes back again.
Anything is possible, according to your commitment and willpower.
I have obliterated mongering for long segments, but it wasn’t so difficult because I did not obliterate sex and masturbation.
To obliterate all sex and all masturbation is a commitment of a very high order, most especially if you are young, virile, strong and healthy.
If your physical sexual appetite is waning, for whatever reason, but most commonly due to age or sickness, yet your mind and habits still crave a variety of sex, that is a true dilemma.
Instead of dealing with your station in life, at this time, and allowing the compulsion to die in the mind, as it died in your body, and move on to possibly greater experiences, we reach for drugs and stimulants, and create a physical desire where there was really no desire.
Our counterparts in the animal kingdom, would have just followed the promptings of nature, and found happiness and peace in other outlets, not allowing memories of passion to torture them.
So, being in the “dilemma” category, not using drugs like Levitra, Ciallis, Viagra, et cetera, but knowing how to manipulate food, diet, practices and herbs, I have found peace and happiness in limiting my wayward behavior, by not creating an urgent need with too much ginseng or the like.
For example, I will be traveling with my wife soon, and our sexual activity is almost dead. I will try to reignite it on you trip, but I am not going to rape her, either. If she is unwilling, mostly due to my vagabond sexual escapades, I will alter my diet and herbs to divert energy from the nether region, and enjoy with her the trees, oceans, mineral baths, fresh air, meditation, talks, walks, music, foods, dining, discussions.
It is always a matter of redirecting your life force to fit the situation.
And, on return from a non-sexual, but very fulfilling in other avenues vacation, I can see myself finding an allotted time to take on a lovely threesome adventure with an Asian sister duet.
If we adjust to our circumstances, we will always be content.
