Bi-Sexual Men
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I never considered myself as anything but str8 for a long time. Then, for money, I sucked a guys cock. Two years later, I started receiving blow jobs from men. Then I craved touching cocks of other men. Now I love sucking cock in front of my woman who totally gets off on the scene. I advertise myself as orally-bi. I don't want to have intimate relationships with men like I do with women, but a hard cock that explodes with cum is just HOT in my book. Call me what you like. But definately call me if you have a hot cock and want to explode ;-)
It's the same, only different
That's my take on it too. There's a certain intimacy and closeness I can enjoy with a woman that I don't with men. But hot is hot and I'll get raging hard over either. Sex can be great with either.
The main thing that struck me the first time I tried sucking cock was how not strange it was. It was just licking and sucking, stimulating some skin, getting someone all worked up. But, maybe that's me. I don't spend a lot of time judging myself or others. I like what I like and don't need to label or justify it.
One difference... I remember someone describing their love of wine by saying that they could love the really good stuff, but also loved it enough to find something to appreciate in a so-so bottle. In my experience, I can have good sex with a woman who's got a so-so body. But a guy needs to be more attractive.
That's my take on it too. There's a certain intimacy and closeness I can enjoy with a woman that I don't with men. But hot is hot and I'll get raging hard over either. Sex can be great with either.
The main thing that struck me the first time I tried sucking cock was how not strange it was. It was just licking and sucking, stimulating some skin, getting someone all worked up. But, maybe that's me. I don't spend a lot of time judging myself or others. I like what I like and don't need to label or justify it.
One difference... I remember someone describing their love of wine by saying that they could love the really good stuff, but also loved it enough to find something to appreciate in a so-so bottle. In my experience, I can have good sex with a woman who's got a so-so body. But a guy needs to be more attractive.
Usually when someone says "bi-curious girl" they mean she's interested in waving fun with another female.
But I take it you mean she wants to see you with another guy.
If so, very hot!
What turns her on about that? Would she like the guys to focus on her, or would she like to take charge and tell the guys what to do to each other?
But I take it you mean she wants to see you with another guy.
If so, very hot!
What turns her on about that? Would she like the guys to focus on her, or would she like to take charge and tell the guys what to do to each other?
I don't believe that Eddy, I think the person who all of a sudden becomes gay because he or she engaged in homosexual activity was gay already, but afraid to act on it. How many guys when they were teens, engaged in circle jerks, mutual masturbation and ect. They were not gay, they married and probably never engaged in that activity again. But when your young, dumb and full of cum, some guys will do things they might not do otherwise.
If you have a choice of a good looking guy to have sex with and a good looking woman to have sex with, you pick the guy your gay, you pick the women your straight. Now that being said, guys something engage in activity that could be construed as being gay. I know and have known guys who are so violently anti guy, I wonder if this is a self defense mechanism because they have curiosity about other guys and are afraid to act on it. So they put up this facade of "homo phobia" to send a message to other guys, so they don't also act on the same curiosity. Kind of like the "Elliot Spritzer railing against prostitution publicly, but partaking in secret". Senator Craig is another. How many of you guys check out the other guys equipment at the gym, showers, urinals and ect. I think we all have some curiosity towards other men, but does that make us gay or bi, I don't think so. but how many of you will admit it. Kinda like 94 percent of men admit to masturbating. The other six percent are liars.
If you have a choice of a good looking guy to have sex with and a good looking woman to have sex with, you pick the guy your gay, you pick the women your straight. Now that being said, guys something engage in activity that could be construed as being gay. I know and have known guys who are so violently anti guy, I wonder if this is a self defense mechanism because they have curiosity about other guys and are afraid to act on it. So they put up this facade of "homo phobia" to send a message to other guys, so they don't also act on the same curiosity. Kind of like the "Elliot Spritzer railing against prostitution publicly, but partaking in secret". Senator Craig is another. How many of you guys check out the other guys equipment at the gym, showers, urinals and ect. I think we all have some curiosity towards other men, but does that make us gay or bi, I don't think so. but how many of you will admit it. Kinda like 94 percent of men admit to masturbating. The other six percent are liars.
Nor what if someone has those choices and picks both?
you have a choice of a good looking guy to have sex with and a good looking woman to have sex with, you pick the guy your gay, you pick the women your straight.If he picksboth what is he?
How does the same choice apply to a woman with a good looking man and a good looking woman in front of her and she chooses both.
Sexuality is a continuum and changes at different times thoughout a persons life or it may remain the same, but it is usually not either black or white with no shades of gray!
I wouldstrongly suggest there are more shades of gray than either black and white combined!
you have a choice of a good looking guy to have sex with and a good looking woman to have sex with, you pick the guy your gay, you pick the women your straight.If he picksboth what is he?
How does the same choice apply to a woman with a good looking man and a good looking woman in front of her and she chooses both.
Sexuality is a continuum and changes at different times thoughout a persons life or it may remain the same, but it is usually not either black or white with no shades of gray!
I wouldstrongly suggest there are more shades of gray than either black and white combined!
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So as an experiment I rented a movie in a hotel a couple of weeks back. It was a mmf movie where both the guy and the girl would take turns sucking the other guy's cock. I had always thought of myself as completely straight and while I am open minded and have had an mmf threesome there was no interaction between me and the other guy.
I figured that if watching this turned me on I might have tendencies that I was unaware of.
I can watch a girl fuck a horse and get turned on. I can watch two girls shit on each other and get turned on. I love pissing on girls. But watching a guy suck another guy's cock was bewildering to me and I had to turn it off. I got through the first scene and watching the guy smile and lap up the other guy's nut just didn't seem right to me.
Bottom line is we are all different and should do what we want. It isn't worth our time to speculate on what other people might or might not be.
I figured that if watching this turned me on I might have tendencies that I was unaware of.
I can watch a girl fuck a horse and get turned on. I can watch two girls shit on each other and get turned on. I love pissing on girls. But watching a guy suck another guy's cock was bewildering to me and I had to turn it off. I got through the first scene and watching the guy smile and lap up the other guy's nut just didn't seem right to me.
Bottom line is we are all different and should do what we want. It isn't worth our time to speculate on what other people might or might not be.
It's interesting that you did that, because most guys would simply never do it and still claim they knew things about themselves without ever having tried them. Maybe take a tab of X and try it again and teh results might change. but that doesn't matter. What is important is your last graph, which pretty much hits the nail on the head.
In other words, they were gay before hand but in denial. Not that they turned gay.
(but I really hate the way that sounds, because it is so not black and white being gay or not gay).
However, playing Devil's advocate, I have met many women sex workers who were not lesbians, but after engaging in the sex business took women lovers. I think some of the reason is that they needed to be sexual and couldn't separate having sex with some men in 'shut down' mode and then others for fun/sport/affection and needed to compartmentalize some of their sexuality.
(but I really hate the way that sounds, because it is so not black and white being gay or not gay).
However, playing Devil's advocate, I have met many women sex workers who were not lesbians, but after engaging in the sex business took women lovers. I think some of the reason is that they needed to be sexual and couldn't separate having sex with some men in 'shut down' mode and then others for fun/sport/affection and needed to compartmentalize some of their sexuality.
The asshole is full of nerve ends, it is almost as sensitive as the tip of the penis. One may not like penetration, but guys who say they don't like ass play are in total denial. I learned my lesson from visits to AMPs.
I think that many more men would have been engaged in gay sex if there was:
1 - less social prejudgments and discrimination often indoctrinated on us from early age.
2 - less of this imposing and intolerant gay culture based on which a man has to act if he has gay tendencies or even in order to get some action.
I think that many more men would have been engaged in gay sex if there was:
1 - less social prejudgments and discrimination often indoctrinated on us from early age.
2 - less of this imposing and intolerant gay culture based on which a man has to act if he has gay tendencies or even in order to get some action.
The way I see it, if you get turned on by something watching porn by yourself, there is something to it. There is nobody to deny your feelings to. If your cock stays hard it stays hard for a reason.
I watched the movie after getting into a strange conversation with a girl from a sugardaddy site that wanted me to pay her, but still include her husband in all of her sessions and perform double vag penetration. She said I wouldn't actively have to do anything to him and I'm pretty open minded but figured I'd better do some more homework. Ultimately I will pass...partially because I'm not sure why I should pay for it when it is clearly about what she wants.
As an aside, I've never done X, but I kind of feel that if you have to do drugs to like something, it is difficult to say whether you like the drugs or the thing you are doing while on them.
I watched the movie after getting into a strange conversation with a girl from a sugardaddy site that wanted me to pay her, but still include her husband in all of her sessions and perform double vag penetration. She said I wouldn't actively have to do anything to him and I'm pretty open minded but figured I'd better do some more homework. Ultimately I will pass...partially because I'm not sure why I should pay for it when it is clearly about what she wants.
As an aside, I've never done X, but I kind of feel that if you have to do drugs to like something, it is difficult to say whether you like the drugs or the thing you are doing while on them.
I really don't agree, there's plenty of stuff people watch and get turned on by which they wouldn't up close and personal. In fact, the scenario you describe is exactly one of them: there's plenty of guys who watch 2-on-1 (MFM) porn but couldn't handle it IRL. but also, it doesn't mean the inverse is false. In other words, there can be things you aren't turned on by watching in a video which would turn you on IRL. I'll give your example of water sports: i would never watch a video, but if in the heat of passion some girl wanted to do it, i would probably find it hot.
I wrote a similar post last night on a slightly different subject. the only quibble I have is that it depends on the specifics. What if the two invovled were {insert the name of whatever girl is your ultimate fantasy right now} and the price was $50. Of course that example is rediculous, but there's ground in between. Although I'm sure in the instance you are tlaking about, they not only wanted it their way, but at a price which should have been your way, and when that's the case i 100% agree with you.
Again, I disagree. I'll bet half the guys (or much more) who do this have a drink (or 3) before or during sessions with girls. They didn't come up with in vino veritas for nuthin'. Think of what the definition of "inhibitions" is. Don't tell me there's never been a girl who you assfucked who liked it, but had to take something (liquor, pot, xanax, whatever) to get "in the spirit".