FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT??
I want some feedback on a complicated matter... and please answer with your opinion only as it pertains to your sessions with providers.
I absolutely love sex and love what I do. Sometimes probably more than I really should, but who determines that anyway. There are times when climaxing is just not going to happen. As a rule, I have refused to fake it... but it seems that the men always seem so defeated when I don't get there. I always explain that it is not that I don't enjoy it, it just happens sometime. (S/N - Believe me, if I didn't enjoy it, I can always teach you during the session to do it the right way for me to enjoy it!!) SO.... do I fake it or not?
Although we have never met ( I didn’t pass the screening process) I can’t comment based on our sessions. Having said that I not only enjoy this hobby for what I get out of it but for the satisfaction of knowing that the provider has enjoyed themselves as well. No it’s not an ego thing and I’m looking to brag about my size or performance or ability bc I’m an older average guy. It’s more about how believing she had fun removes the transactional aspects of the encounter. I hate a mechanical session and would first being given direction on what to do in order to make the session pleasurable for the provider or at the very least do your best job at faking it since you are receiving compensation. I’ve been with a few providers who were dead silent and emotional cold - ONCE! I had the pleasure of being with some that make me feel like a teenager in the back seat of my parents car - and they were compensated and seen as often as possible lol.
There’s my 2 cents.
Have a great weekend Sweetie
Nutty out