What does GFE mean to you
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That's what I thought, but I have read some guys claim that it must be BB, and I have seen ads where the girl state "No GFE, only safe play" so I think some guys have that in mind. Personally I usually find DATY too intimate, and I'd rather not jump down there ad hoc. In fact I have only DATY with a fraction of hte women I have slept with.
I don't understand the confusion. A porn star experience is very simple. You do it in front of a crew of men with heavy lights, cables snaked around the room, an obnoxious director who interrupts your orgasm, a lady who sticks her tongue in your mouth then slaps you when your cum in her hair, Key Grips that work with their fly open, makeup girls who smack their gum, and when it's over they hand you a check for $4.97 scale.
Why should option
2 and 3
3 and 4
and even 2,3 and 4
be mutually exclusive.
Honestly the three of them (#3 is a bit exaggerated and on purpose I suppose) can qualify as girlfriend experience. One definitely cannot be my girlfriend if she does not fulfill the option #4.
However, also the option 1 is not so much out of place when I remember a couple of my past girlfriends.
Ehhhh.
Call me a loser, but I am a sucker for #4. I will take that.
2 and 3
3 and 4
and even 2,3 and 4
be mutually exclusive.
Honestly the three of them (#3 is a bit exaggerated and on purpose I suppose) can qualify as girlfriend experience. One definitely cannot be my girlfriend if she does not fulfill the option #4.
However, also the option 1 is not so much out of place when I remember a couple of my past girlfriends.
Ehhhh.
Call me a loser, but I am a sucker for #4. I will take that.
I think Thorn is right. it is meaningless. if they offer BB then they would use "BB" in their ad. if they they DFK they should use that in their ad.
I think GFE is the kind of thing you can only identify after you have had it with a provider. For the provider to advertise it is probably pretentious and assuming. For me.. it means it has to "feel" real, believable. so far... just twice.
I think GFE is the kind of thing you can only identify after you have had it with a provider. For the provider to advertise it is probably pretentious and assuming. For me.. it means it has to "feel" real, believable. so far... just twice.
Hey, post 666... congrats! It must be self evident that there is no way a provider can treat every client the same way. I saw one (BBWish Irish girl Erica) who was great, and we hit it off, pretty much. After a few sessions the experience changed. So I think that aside from Meryl Streep quality acting, the best one can hope for a perceived mutual respect and perhaps mutual enjoyment of a session. I know I can never really get into it with a provider, so I'll never even try to rock her world (sorry ladies), though I can be gentle and affectionate.
GFE is to real girlfriend experience as a well liked barkeep is to a real friend. Don't fool yourself.
GFE is to real girlfriend experience as a well liked barkeep is to a real friend. Don't fool yourself.
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That would be it for me. Only 2 I recall are Malissa (recently) and Ashley of London (over 2 yrs ago).
There have been AMP girls where I was regular, but I can't really have a GFE experience in a spa on a massage table. The atmosphere is wrong, even if the performance is right. I also did not vote because none of the choices worked for me. Beyond the acts that are performed, feeling like you are seeing an old girlfriend and picking up where you left off is what does it for me. No awkwardness about payment or what is/isn't allowed, some idle chat between cups (if having 2 or more).
The greeting at the door is big, a smile and a hug (or LFK/DFK) and what seems like (and could even be) some enthusiasm to see me, that sets the tone for the whole session
There have been AMP girls where I was regular, but I can't really have a GFE experience in a spa on a massage table. The atmosphere is wrong, even if the performance is right. I also did not vote because none of the choices worked for me. Beyond the acts that are performed, feeling like you are seeing an old girlfriend and picking up where you left off is what does it for me. No awkwardness about payment or what is/isn't allowed, some idle chat between cups (if having 2 or more).
The greeting at the door is big, a smile and a hug (or LFK/DFK) and what seems like (and could even be) some enthusiasm to see me, that sets the tone for the whole session
Okay, I had my first session with Malissa last week and just realized I haven't reviewed yet. I won't do that now, but there was a funny moment that applies to this thread.
I was the first appointment of the day, and we were discussing not being morning people (easy to get up early, but liked to veg for a while before getting up to speed). She joked about falling asleep in mish, and I told her that would be a REAL GFE experience. A good laugh was had by all.
I've never had that happen, but definitely heard of it and certainly had some dead fish GFEs. Those girlfriends didn't last long.
I was the first appointment of the day, and we were discussing not being morning people (easy to get up early, but liked to veg for a while before getting up to speed). She joked about falling asleep in mish, and I told her that would be a REAL GFE experience. A good laugh was had by all.
I've never had that happen, but definitely heard of it and certainly had some dead fish GFEs. Those girlfriends didn't last long.