Okay guys, time to get things VERY clear. Someone wrote me and said, the guys are very outspoken and can be very hostile. COOL, so can I. I have never been one to watch my mouth and I say what I feel. I am a REAL person and I choose to be myself. I really don't care who does not like the way I am, there are plenty that do. I am strait forward and always tells it how it is.
Now, I am definately NOT LACKING business in any way! Completely on the contrary. I do exceptionally well here but this is because I only see 2 new guys per visit. The rest are REPEATS. (I usually book 4 so I can get 2 LOL!) But this works for me. I have already built my cliental here and weeded out the rest.
As far as my friends. I explained to them how this city works from my own experiences. So they are doing what is best for them. There is no double bookings and no unhappy hobbyists. Can anyone out there say they had a problem or a bad time? I highly doubt that! Now, they are NOT LACKING in business eithor. Ashley is VERY HAPPY about her week and will return next fall when she tours again. She had an amazing week here and many guys have written there thank you's already. So this is not about proper advertising and getting the right guys, because I am the one doing all the screening and I have a name and phone number for each guy that booked. I have talked to each personally myself. I AM EXTREMELY ORGANIZED! And regardless to where we locate ourselves, IF YOU MAKE AN APPOINTMENT....IT SHOULD BE KEPT! And still, there is guys that do not show. That is a part of life, but I will let it be known. But if this is not the case for "you" then it was not written for "you". I am making clear that this is happening, and that just maybe, these guys who stand girls up, should get a "little shit" for it. I am surprised that all of you are attacking me and not those who are making Jersey a bad name.
Do you think it is happening to just the three of us? No, it is happening to alot of girls. Some that are not BOLD enough to write about it. (I can see why now) But yes I am arrogant enough to do so and I love my personality. I wish there were more strait shooters like me out there that I could relate too. One thing about a strait shooter is that there is no bullshit and no lies, just the honest truth. So to the guy who has never met a honest and trust worthy provider.....now you have! I always tell it how it is, and I do not FEAR these boards one bit.
It is sad that you guys preferr the quiet , docile ladies who just tell you what you want to hear. Maybe "you" should go to ASIA. I am definatley "American" and preferr to speak my peice. If you do not like it, don't read it. There are many other threads out there to read.
For the gentleman giving thoughtful and helpful feedback, it is very nice to know there are some out there. But I know there are a lot of great Jersey guys out there and I have met many. I just wish this "nonsence" did not have to go on. It does not have to be this way. This is what a "black list" is for. So no one else has to deal with the same fools who enjoy wasting a girls time.
As far as the type of clients we are catering too, well they are all executives in large corporations and lawyers, doctors, pharmaists... I have spoken to each one. Maybe we should cater to the lower class, then they won't be so busy.....that they could not even CALL! Remember, I am from Boston, I book very carefully! Now, I think I am doing the right thing posting this here, and not calling there "JOBS" and "SECRETARY's" asking why they felt they felt they should not cancell!
I DO NOT OVER BOOK! So there is NEVER a problem! But if I cancell then I pay for it! Im not asking the guys to compensate us in any way but a simple phone call would be nice.
Thanks guys, " I came" I love aggressive men. Happy hobbying