mikertmodbl said:
one of my employees in my straight job is a stripper. she shares lots of stuff with me. she has no clue i'm a hobbyist.
many of em are scam artists. its a badge of honor if they can play a guy for $$ and not have to do anything sexual.
they are very cynical.
Truly?
There are two kinds of women who work in strip-clubs [speaking in broad strokes].
Type 1: The Dancer. She is full of herself and the 'knowledge' that men will, in general, do anything her little heart desires if they
think they might get laid. She has an absolutely crazy notion as to the worth of her sex in dollars and cents. She can be allowed to think this way because many men will break their backs if they think they are going to get into her pants, and part with way too much money in the process.
The Dancer will run the gamete from those who simply work their natural charm to those who outright lie and cheat to get at their ends. Most truly, and I do mean truly, couldn't give a crap less about their customers. Customers being defined as any man who will part with significant coin for their 'services' [or lack thereof] in a strip-club. To appear on their radar as a human being you must avoid being defined as a 'custy' as their disdain for the 'custy' is almost palpable.
Type 2: The Provider. These are women who work in strip-clubs who see it as a job, and simply that. It isn't the same as the way we use the term on this board, though Providers may very well sell sex.
They don't see stripping as "performing". They don't see themselves as 'stars'. Just working a job in a service industry. Therefore they see what they 'provide' as a product and act accordingly. They may only sell visual stimulation, though they may run the gamete all the way up to FS extras. They may be 'operators', as people in business frequently can be, but by far and away they are more honest in their dealings with their customers than "Dancers".
Dancers
hate Providers.
Providers tolerate Dancers, though they think their full of it and can't understand why their 'custys' put up with them.
[again, very broad strokes being used here]