This thread displays lunacy at its best....
What has transpired in this thread is simply remarkable. The only thing absent is a direct post from Julia, telling us why she has broken this man’s heart. Or rather, having her speaking up for all the AMP women of the world, and their difficulties in maintaining monogamous relationships. Plus explaining why they are duplicitous in their dealings with men- like these women do not encounter this from men on a regular basis? Someone said this thread has turned surreal and I could not agree with him more.
I once knew an AMP madam who I adored terribly. She held no illusions about the type of person she is, and that is why I liked seeing her. Basically, whenever I discussed the possibility of a relationship with her, the answer was no. She had tried it before, and was war weary, and figured fuck buddies would be great and nothing else. She knew what she was, a madam who liked making money through owning massage parlors- and spending the income however the f**** she felt. She enjoyed sex, and although she didn’t want to service every client and had actually stopped providing, had a few regulars she didn’t mind seeing every once in a while. For her, being in a monogamous relationship was too burdensome. According to her, monogamous relationships typically led to too many questions, and guys would ultimately turn sanctimonious by trying to save her from the life of shame of being a comfort woman- although it would never be voiced in such a manner. She had been through this, and felt it more of a nuisance than a good thing. We could go to dinner, the movies, and screw our brains out on weekends at her establishment. Yet there was to be no talk or actions regarding being more than friends. I could even see one or two of her girls- so she said; I never did, because she always gave me this look. Yes, the world is full of double standards. She liked the fact I never requested anyone but her, and would yell with glee whenever she saw my tool and say, “This is only for me?”
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, don’t let a prostitute be your wife or girlfriend, or partner, or significant other. You will only be asking for trouble. That is, unless you don’t mind the fact she sells her body for sex on occasion to strangers.
Like in any relationship, you do not get into it to change the person. You either accept them for who they are, or remain their friend without getting too emotionally involved. Either way it is important that if you truly care about the individual you should accept them as they are regardless. But if you personally cannot handle who they are, then know to avoid being too entangled with such people and admire from an emotional distance.
Regards,
Pop
Suck on that!!!! 1Mill1 much luck!