let me get my answers out...yours first
Congrats Betty. Now what's this about only a monger. Well I'd give it a shot and I love the city but I am a LI guy and a tuff ride in. I would be spending all my time driving or riding in. I bet it would be interesting though. Good luck to you..
I did try relationships with different kind of guys...and I found out that escort/civy guy never works!
The last try was last Summer...he could not handle the fact I sucked other guys dicks first. Then, he accepted IF I only sucked and didn't fuck.
I did comply with my side of the deal and, then, some idiot posted a review about fucking the daylights of me.
He read the review...and it was the end of our relationship. No matter how much I tried to explain how reviews works, how many guys holds on them until they need that VIP access, or they post things that never happened as an Ego trip, well, he didn't believe me saying I broke the "trust".
Recently, I was involved with another civy guy...this time I didn't tell him about what I do for living and guess who was double timing me? him! He was dating me and - at the same time - having a serious relationship with a woman in LI...so, I was the one he saw from tuesday to friday and she was the one he spent the weekend with. Very convenient until she dumped him and he came to me with a guilt trip telling his sobbing story. What a jerk!
So...that's why I think just a real monger can understand and accept my ways and trust me on issues that we need to compromise if we want the relationship to be a happy one.