That works for the current question as to what you do in your second job. To be honest was on a date a little while ago, we talked about kids and family and the normal stuff. Than she began to ask questions about my past and other things, I kept dancing around the issue, was never a good lier and I guess she picked up on it. Well at least I didn't have to worry about what to say on a second date. At home I hide so much history from the kids... Kids I shouls say young adults 23 18 and 16. Like Betty says the internet and the fact that my kids are all savie on it. They have found photos of me and their mother in so old carnival achives and a write up on me and the wall of death (motorcycle show) nothing on other things yet. They did find their aunt on the internet and she is who I work for at night. Was able to explain that away. I figure some day I'll come clean and pull the photos from the vault. It is funny that they never put somethings together as why there is a pole in my bedroom, but their mother loved to dance....