I decided to stir this up a little bit :)

#1
So, here I am.

I need a NYC boyfriend...any takers?

Someone to hang out when I spend time in the city.

Is easy to find me, banner is up there.

I just joined the AFF so I want to see which site gives me more replies.
 

wolf5958

lil Fuzzybear
#4
I am 20 posts away from the 5,000 mark.

wow, long time in here huh?
Congrats Betty. Now what's this about only a monger. Well I'd give it a shot and I love the city but I am a LI guy and a tuff ride in. I would be spending all my time driving or riding in. I bet it would be interesting though. Good luck to you..
 
#5
What are the particulars? What are you looking for in a boyfriend? A good backrub? Curious minds want to know before we apply for this appealing position.
 
#6
So, here I am.

I need a NYC boyfriend...any takers?

Someone to hang out when I spend time in the city.

Is easy to find me, banner is up there.

I just joined the AFF so I want to see which site gives me more replies.

Wow, what a coincidence. I just happen to be looking for a NYC girlfriend.
 
#7
backrubs....ahhhhhhh

What are the particulars? What are you looking for in a boyfriend? A good backrub? Curious minds want to know before we apply for this appealing position.
well, is good if the guy already met with me so this way he knows what he's getting...I guess I want a good guy, someone fun and who enjoys do a bunch of things out of the bed too.
 
#8
just for your information...

AFF sucks dick!

The site has so many features, is confusing and hard to keep track for the "flirts", "winks" and other stuff.

The guys who did put me in their HOT list look like predators or loonies :(

So, my membership there lasted exactly 12 hours, just canceled.

I think I will have better chances here with UG mongers :)
 
#11
I'm surprised that you don't have current clients trying to convert you to a gf already. Don't most escorts complain about that?
 

wolf5958

lil Fuzzybear
#12
Betty I have a question, What is it you like to do? I mean the things that make you happy, you see me I'm a movies cook dinner take a long ride on my motorcycle type of guy. Some of my greatest joys and I have been looking for someone to share that with. So maybe you would be able to share here and be able to weed through the reponses. Good luck...
 
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#13
your a catch!

Betty I have a question, What is it you like to do? I mean the things that make you happy, you see me I'm a movies cook dinner take a long ride on my motorcycle type of guy. Some of my greatest joys and I have been looking for someone to share that with. So maybe you would be able to share here and be able to weed through the reponses. Good luck...
Wow wolf ! what are you doing this week end???
 
#16
let me get my answers out...yours first

Congrats Betty. Now what's this about only a monger. Well I'd give it a shot and I love the city but I am a LI guy and a tuff ride in. I would be spending all my time driving or riding in. I bet it would be interesting though. Good luck to you..
I did try relationships with different kind of guys...and I found out that escort/civy guy never works!

The last try was last Summer...he could not handle the fact I sucked other guys dicks first. Then, he accepted IF I only sucked and didn't fuck.

I did comply with my side of the deal and, then, some idiot posted a review about fucking the daylights of me.

He read the review...and it was the end of our relationship. No matter how much I tried to explain how reviews works, how many guys holds on them until they need that VIP access, or they post things that never happened as an Ego trip, well, he didn't believe me saying I broke the "trust".

Recently, I was involved with another civy guy...this time I didn't tell him about what I do for living and guess who was double timing me? him! He was dating me and - at the same time - having a serious relationship with a woman in LI...so, I was the one he saw from tuesday to friday and she was the one he spent the weekend with. Very convenient until she dumped him and he came to me with a guilt trip telling his sobbing story. What a jerk!

So...that's why I think just a real monger can understand and accept my ways and trust me on issues that we need to compromise if we want the relationship to be a happy one.
 
#17
been there...

I'm surprised that you don't have current clients trying to convert you to a gf already. Don't most escorts complain about that?
and what I found was clients who just wanted FREE sex, while they booked other escorts and...paid for sex!

Very convenient, huh?
 

wolf5958

lil Fuzzybear
#18
I did try relationships with different kind of guys...and I found out that escort/civy guy never works!

The last try was last Summer...he could not handle the fact I sucked other guys dicks first. Then, he accepted IF I only sucked and didn't fuck.

I did comply with my side of the deal and, then, some idiot posted a review about fucking the daylights of me.

He read the review...and it was the end of our relationship. No matter how much I tried to explain how reviews works, how many guys holds on them until they need that VIP access, or they post things that never happened as an Ego trip, well, he didn't believe me saying I broke the "trust".

Recently, I was involved with another civy guy...this time I didn't tell him about what I do for living and guess who was double timing me? him! He was dating me and - at the same time - having a serious relationship with a woman in LI...so, I was the one he saw from tuesday to friday and she was the one he spent the weekend with. Very convenient until she dumped him and he came to me with a guilt trip telling his sobbing story. What a jerk!

So...that's why I think just a real monger can understand and accept my ways and trust me on issues that we need to compromise if we want the relationship to be a happy one.
I can understand that very well. My late wife and I worked the same club for awhile it was difficult to have to watch her work, so I went to work in another place. I guess from my point of view it is alright to know what is happening as long as I am not forced to watch so to speak. Your opinon on relationships seems a little different than others I ahve spoken to about this. Me I am worried that when I meet someone and the conversation turns to my past (which we all know it always does come up) do I lie and or just omit large portions of my life. Bad enough our children don't know and can't even begin to explain some of that. As for the present well I recently have begun working nights and well as they say you can't teach an old dog new tricks so how do i explain I'm a body gaurd for exotic dancers that do private parties, yeah what civie woman will stand for that. Anyway Betty believe me I feel for you and what you have said.
 
#19
I am lucky on the "family knows" issue

I can understand that very well. My late wife and I worked the same club for awhile it was difficult to have to watch her work, so I went to work in another place. I guess from my point of view it is alright to know what is happening as long as I am not forced to watch so to speak. Your opinon on relationships seems a little different than others I ahve spoken to about this. Me I am worried that when I meet someone and the conversation turns to my past (which we all know it always does come up) do I lie and or just omit large portions of my life. Bad enough our children don't know and can't even begin to explain some of that. As for the present well I recently have begun working nights and well as they say you can't teach an old dog new tricks so how do i explain I'm a body gaurd for exotic dancers that do private parties, yeah what civie woman will stand for that. Anyway Betty believe me I feel for you and what you have said.
My family knows what I do...is not a secret.

Being so well known and all over the internet these past years, it was just a matter of time before my kids found my occupation.

I thought it would be the end of the world and they would hate me forever...nope, they never questioned or accused me...they understood that ALL they have comes from one source...my "job".

I don't think you have to feel embarrassed because of what you do...is a job like any other and many guys would like to be around pretty semi naked women for living lol...if you have a teenager son, he would be bragging to his friends about the cool chicks.
 
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