Revisiting my original thread and following up ....
Found myself in the same spot recently. E mailed a previous friend who I have seen several times to check in, see how she is doing and expressed intent on seeing her on a couple of months when I plan to travel.
Her response was “ Hi great, look forward to seeing you
My response was .. “that was thoughtful “
I was not insulted, but felt slighted that she could not have taken more then a minute to reply...
Any way.... 2 weeks later she writes me a nice 3 paragraph note apologizing for the short response, explaining she was touring, busy, and how she knew I would be sympathetic to clients that she was scheduling immediate appointments for, not me , months ahead...
So, I will take back my original thread here.... Not knowing all the circumstances behind the lack of a detailed response.... I jumped to a conclusion
This gal is a class act and I will certainly see her again and again