How to lose a customer and other acts of disrespect
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Obviously you don't know Sophia.
She says whatever the fuck is on her mind and if you don't like it too bad.
I've gotten to know her on a different level, she separates work and get personal shit.
She is not my type so I don't see her as "Sophia" but rather stay in touch as we have some common interests.
And I'm not the only one here on Long Island as she as many guy friends she hangs out with in a non professional capacity.
She says whatever the fuck is on her mind and if you don't like it too bad.
I've gotten to know her on a different level, she separates work and get personal shit.
She is not my type so I don't see her as "Sophia" but rather stay in touch as we have some common interests.
And I'm not the only one here on Long Island as she as many guy friends she hangs out with in a non professional capacity.
I’ll put this thread here because prior to CV I would not have experienced some of these circumstances....
I went to to local grocer today not a giant big box supermarket, but corporate owned and a large footprint on LI. I wanted to exchange something ( non- food item). The store policy indicated no exchange or credit for items purchased after a certain date.
The cashier called over the supervisor who I will say is in his early to mid 20.s. Explain the request, product was inferior and the sup. refuses to hear me and points to the store policy. I politely reminded him that the item was purchased pre policy change and I would be happy to produce a receipt on my cc. He refused to listen, and was rude. He then goes on to say something like this.... I have had enough of YOU PEOPLE .. etc etc ..... I held my breath and anger.. How do I interpret this... I am not violent by any means, but do have a temper when crossed.. I wanted to pull this kid over the counter and explain to him how insensitive and harmful his comment can be... I am white and in my 50’s.. He was not referring to my race, but directed at the neighborhood I live in and the customer who demand a high level of service
My point... I was quite offended— super offended—- Was I just profiled here? Yea, maybe. I left the store, now knowing and experiencing firsthand how minorities and people of color can be treated on a regular basis. Disgusting
I went to to local grocer today not a giant big box supermarket, but corporate owned and a large footprint on LI. I wanted to exchange something ( non- food item). The store policy indicated no exchange or credit for items purchased after a certain date.
The cashier called over the supervisor who I will say is in his early to mid 20.s. Explain the request, product was inferior and the sup. refuses to hear me and points to the store policy. I politely reminded him that the item was purchased pre policy change and I would be happy to produce a receipt on my cc. He refused to listen, and was rude. He then goes on to say something like this.... I have had enough of YOU PEOPLE .. etc etc ..... I held my breath and anger.. How do I interpret this... I am not violent by any means, but do have a temper when crossed.. I wanted to pull this kid over the counter and explain to him how insensitive and harmful his comment can be... I am white and in my 50’s.. He was not referring to my race, but directed at the neighborhood I live in and the customer who demand a high level of service
My point... I was quite offended— super offended—- Was I just profiled here? Yea, maybe. I left the store, now knowing and experiencing firsthand how minorities and people of color can be treated on a regular basis. Disgusting
Hard to say unless you get a little more specific than just white and 50.
There is a younger member here who on occasion has answered other older members with "okay Boomer". You might not have noticed because I delete that shit as soon as I see it.
I'm not sure if that the type of insult you are getting at.
There is a younger member here who on occasion has answered other older members with "okay Boomer". You might not have noticed because I delete that shit as soon as I see it.
I'm not sure if that the type of insult you are getting at.
Here is an appropriate story. I like relationships. Obv more than one lol. So u saw this PROVIDER for months. Once, twice a week. ALOT . One day she got really busy. Pushed my PRESCHEDULED appt half hr. I walked in and her very happy client walked past me on cloud 9. After we chit chatted we got to biz. After 40 min of my 1 hr she was ready to go to NEXT. LOL
so... i had to laugh
I found better. Nicer. Cuter. Actually havent mongered since. So... take that for what its worth.
so... i had to laugh
I found better. Nicer. Cuter. Actually havent mongered since. So... take that for what its worth.
Yeah i think we all get sucked in by that provider that's so good at figuring out what we like, that when they start giving us what we like, and how we like it, and telling us they never did this in this way with anybody else before (yeah right!), we start believing it. This is their job, they are professionals, they see hundreds if not thousands of guys and they know how to play each and every one of us...we just sometimes tend to forget that its all business and we mongers start to thing that she really likes us at a different level. Not! We are just a client and another way for the providers to pay their rent and take care of their families.
Problem is lotta dudes lie to themselves. Ive stayed with pros for hours on an hr schedule. Slept over for free, cause we chilled and good vibes. Almost made 2 my gf. Then decided that's just stupid. Went to some pros housed others never been to. They arent robots they def vibe better with some than others.
All that time i never lied to myself about what it was and how i met them.
All that time i never lied to myself about what it was and how i met them.
Why should I freak out? I have a life and so do providers. So they don't get back to me. There are other providers. The problem is some mongers get emotionally attached and when they realize it isn't mutual, then they get bent out of shape. So my advice is to don't get emotionally attached and you can move freely about like a bumble bee sipping nectar from each flower you land. Plain and simple.
