How do you guys stop?

[Uniquelyme]

I’m sorry to hear that. I can’t help with the guilt because I truly don’t understand it. I don’t see this hobby as cheating... because I feel like cheating is something you do with your heart. As for STDs, “Keep It Covered” as your screen name states. Idk, sorry I am of no help.

It's cheating let's not get it confused. The reason he feels guilt is cause he has some type at least of love for his wife.

If my gf kissed another Man that's cheating whether she has strong feelings for him or not. I get the many girls who've told me they have no bfs doing this job.

Any kissing, fucking, sucking another person other than your SO. If the two of you are monagomous is cheating. For the past 7 mos except for the one time we broke up for a few days.... That doesn't count I haven't cheated on my gf. She's been my gf for 8 mos. 1st mo I can't count. Even though technically it should count.

I love my gf so for now I'm not cheating on her she's fly and sexy and is emotionally there and physically satisfies me better than even most of the top pros I've seen. If I do cheat on her I think some guilt would fall in.

To another post. I get all this completely it's hard af. I also think if you are one who doesn't walk away when you aren't feeling the girl. You have an issue. If you can't take a break for at least 6 mos just cause you want to date regular girls more or rekindle romance with your SO more you have a problem.

Not making light of the problem it is fun and exciting fucking a new person wirg such ease.

 

[hardndslick]

I think its a man's primal instinct to hunt and dominate. You cant just "Stop" that is just going to lead to an avalanche of session after session because you have deprived yourself the need to do what our minds are wired to do. It's genetics, some men can control it, others can't. Its like addictions/vices, some can have a drink, others need to drink the entire bottle.

I think as men, the desire will always be there. Trying to overanalyze it probably only makes it worse, as is quelling the desires. Its like fat people who starve themselves to lose weight, they end up putting it all back on and more in the end.
MODERATION is my best advise for anyone really struggling. You can't take something that is hardwired into our DNA codes, and hit a stop button, or take a pill to make it go away.

You nailed it.

 

[Hondadog]

Let me tell you guys it is tough as hell to try and stop. I did it for three years when I first got married. Then from 2007-2017 was back in the game thinking with the little head sometimes. But now as I get older trying to do better by my wife and always say to myself this money could be used for something else. It’s been almost a year and a half I’ve been good but coming on here and reading reviews has me ready to jump back in!!!

 

[asianmaster65]

As they say "denial" is a big river.
I'm addicted to sex. If I'm not mongering I'm masterbating to porn. I also "make love" to my wife twice a week to keep us connected.
I have been mongering for many year and find it helpful try to manage my addition in a couple of ways:

1) stay within my budget PERIOD , so I can tell myself I'm not addicted.
2) Periodically scale back by having other goals that keep me occupied (possibly positive additions), so I can tell myself I'm not addicted.
3) Use the reward program; If I'm achieving in other areas of my life, e.g. dieting, working out, the house to do list and being a better husband/dad, I can tell myself it's ok to not be perfect, I deserve a treat and I'm not really addicted.
4) Don't stay up when the wife goes to bed, because it cut's down on my internet mongering and masterbation, so I don't become too addicted.
5)Got a portable massage table so I can role play with the wife while watch massage porn.
6) Think of all those you will hurt if you're caught in a sting or bring home STD and if the shoe was on the other foot.....
7) Remember the providers don't care about you (except our money). I'm not special to them. They can't wait until I'm done and get the fuck out.

I KNOW I'M NOT GOING TO STOP MONGERING , SO I MINIMIZE MY RISK TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITIES BY USING THE ABOVE CHECK AND BALANCE PROGRAM.

Please feel free to add to the list above

 

[pokler]

As they say "denial" is a big river.
I'm addicted to sex. If I'm not mongering I'm masterbating to porn. I also "make love" to my wife twice a week to keep us connected.
I have been mongering for many year and find it helpful try to manage my addition in a couple of ways:

1) stay within my budget PERIOD , so I can tell myself I'm not addicted.
2) Periodically scale back by having other goals that keep me occupied (possibly positive additions), so I can tell myself I'm not addicted.
3) Use the reward program; If I'm achieving in other areas of my life, e.g. dieting, working out, the house to do list and being a better husband/dad, I can tell myself it's ok to not be perfect, I deserve a treat and I'm not really addicted.
4) Don't stay up when the wife goes to bed, because it cut's down on my internet mongering and masterbation, so I don't become too addicted.
5)Got a portable massage table so I can role play with the wife while watch massage porn.
6) Think of all those you will hurt if you're caught in a sting or bring home STD and if the shoe was on the other foot.....
7) Remember the providers don't care about you (except our money). I'm not special to them. They can't wait until I'm done and get the fuck out.

I KNOW I'M NOT GOING TO STOP MONGERING , SO I MINIMIZE MY RISK TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITIES BY USING THE ABOVE CHECK AND BALANCE PROGRAM.

Please feel free to add to the list above

What is your budget ?

 

[gold69]

I stop when i don't have my burner phone around. This phone is evil!!! Lol. For example when i go on vacations with my family or out of state or even sometimes on the weekends if i can't get to this phone i won't play or contact or search, but then again does situations dont usually last to long but a week or so. Fml lol.

 

[Unown]

I really like this thread and found myself nodding in agreement with many of the comments. That being said, I’m not sure we’re the right bunch of people to ask for advice. You don’t walk into a bar and ask the people holding drinks how they stopped. LOL

I’ve been doing AMPs on an off for 20+ years. I’ve had gaps that lasted years, but never considered it stopping. It was always a case of not doing it for now and not thinking about whether to do it tomorrow. I always needed three conditions to be met for me to continue.

1. Spending the money not being a problem
2. Finding a place that makes me feel good, even after I leave
3. Work / home balance that gives me the time

Right now I’m in a high cycle and all those conditions are being met. If any one of those legs from my “stool” comes up short, then I take a break and re-evaluate later. That break could be months or years. My longest “break” was 6 years.

If you really want / need to stop, one of the first steps is to seek out people who have taken that step. For that you might need a group situation.

The only advice I can offer is this. If you’re doing something that makes you feel bad, then it’s time to take a break. Every time you feel like starting up try to remember the bad feelings that made you take a break in the first place.

 

[NINE-LIVES]

As they say "denial" is a big river.
I'm addicted to sex. If I'm not mongering I'm masterbating to porn. I also "make love" to my wife twice a week to keep us connected.
I have been mongering for many year and find it helpful try to manage my addition in a couple of ways:

1) stay within my budget PERIOD , so I can tell myself I'm not addicted.
2) Periodically scale back by having other goals that keep me occupied (possibly positive additions), so I can tell myself I'm not addicted.
3) Use the reward program; If I'm achieving in other areas of my life, e.g. dieting, working out, the house to do list and being a better husband/dad, I can tell myself it's ok to not be perfect, I deserve a treat and I'm not really addicted.
4) Don't stay up when the wife goes to bed, because it cut's down on my internet mongering and masterbation, so I don't become too addicted.
5)Got a portable massage table so I can role play with the wife while watch massage porn.
6) Think of all those you will hurt if you're caught in a sting or bring home STD and if the shoe was on the other foot.....
7) Remember the providers don't care about you (except our money). I'm not special to them. They can't wait until I'm done and get the fuck out.

I KNOW I'M NOT GOING TO STOP MONGERING , SO I MINIMIZE MY RISK TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITIES BY USING THE ABOVE CHECK AND BALANCE PROGRAM.

Please feel free to add to the list above

number 7 is SO underrated and ON POINT!
Seems like so many get caught up in thinking these providers actually DO CARE. All they want is whats in your wallet.

 

[COD4]

Started down this road 11 yrs ago. Started as R&T in Hicksville. Progressed to BP girl in a run down house in Huntington. Didn’t even think of ramifications of it...diseases, getting robbed, getting arrested,etc. it was the thrill of it all. Had been married 10 yrs already w 2 kids.

For a good 7 years it was at least 2-3 dates every month. Remember the oroginal BBW Tiffany and Tessa and Italian Housewife Milf. I also ventured into sketchy situations that I hated myself for the moment I dove into the pussy.

For a good 4 years it was Tessa and the Itilian Milf twice a month. Always safe and was having sex at home but just had a nice friendship w them and it worked. Then they dropped off the radar a few years back. I tried quitting and did for a few months but got the urge again. Went back to massages but trouble finding right mix of nice girls, FS and close to me lead to exploring other things. Tried adult theatres, Tranny’s but nothing worked out the same way. I quit cold turkey again. I just jerked every morning to porn and tried to have as much sex w my SO.

Not feeling fulfilled I tried Kari Karina which was OK and then I found
Out about Sophia and met her a few times and thought I found my regular again. She’s amazing btw if you haven’t had the chance. Beyond the sexual Aspect she is just good people and makes you feel good. Then she had to take a break for a while. Once again a hiatus and I thought that’s it. I’m done. The BP shutdown hit and I thanked god bc now I could really quit. Nothing to draw me back in Bc Utopiaguide disappeared.

Wish it was a happy ending that could make you think it was possible to quit and walk away but it’s not. Found new websites to find girls but they are all sketchy. Have been getting manscaped and masssge w no extras to satisfy my self but have also tried Chanel in Commack, went back to Kari and others. Missed getting w Sophia the few times she is in Islandia but want to see her soon.

I think it’s just a desire and a need and unless you get it filled at home you will always look for it outside no matter the negative effects it can have on your life. You just play safer but are always looking. Sexaholics may be the only out Bc it is an addiction.

 

[genius]

I really like this thread and found myself nodding in agreement with many of the comments. That being said, I’m not sure we’re the right bunch of people to ask for advice. You don’t walk into a bar and ask the people holding drinks how they stopped. LOL

I’ve been doing AMPs on an off for 20+ years. I’ve had gaps that lasted years, but never considered it stopping. It was always a case of not doing it for now and not thinking about whether to do it tomorrow. I always needed three conditions to be met for me to continue.

1. Spending the money not being a problem
2. Finding a place that makes me feel good, even after I leave
3. Work / home balance that gives me the time

Right now I’m in a high cycle and all those conditions are being met. ......

The only advice I can offer is this. If you’re doing something that makes you feel bad, then it’s time to take a break. ....

I've been doing this for much longer than 20 years.
that said:
It's actually not complicated and I never feel bad about it.

I see it as just some "me" time where I can use some of my hard earned $ to pamper myself. It's not uncommon (depending upon how much time I have) to see a fs woman then go to a legit place for a relaxing massage and to loosen up some of the soreness I get from a particularly intense gym workout.

 

[LorenzoDeMedici]

Personally I don’t think anything is impossible Actually surprised that genius would say that and lightweight would make it seem so dire. Not that I don’t respect their opinions. I would mostly agree with waterclone. Part of the process is based on knowing the reason why you’re doing it in the first place. The funny thing is now that I’m back with the ex and have stayed away for six years. One of my methods ironically is to do exactly what NIne Lives said. I divert myself bye going to get something to eat or something else that burns up my time and make it impossible. ....just Not Taco Bell per-say.

Good Luck to you

 

[trigeek]

Personally I don’t think anything is impossible Actually surprised that genius would say that and lightweight would make it seem so dire. Not that I don’t respect their opinions. I would mostly agree with waterclone. Part of the process is based on knowing the reason why you’re doing it in the first place. The funny thing is now that I’m back with the ex and have stayed away for six years. One of my methods ironically is to do exactly what NIne Lives said. I divert myself bye going to get something to eat or something else that burns up my time and make it impossible. ....just Not Taco Bell per-say.

Good Luck to you

No more gang bangs too! Weren’t those the days!!!!

 

[LorenzoDeMedici]

No more gang bangs too! Weren’t those the days!!!!

Stooopppp! Tempting Me with these things LOL

Yes they were crazy days.

 

[NorfShore]

Great thread!

Over the past 20+ years I have been masturbating about 3X a day to skinny women (think: Melissa Ashley) porn. About 15 years ago was my first AMP experience, which I would do maybe 6X a year. Then about 10 years ago I discovered I can drive through “some” areas and there is a chance to find a skinny wsw.

Since then I cannot resist the temptation to drive around for hours at a time, a couple times each week. My rationalization is that I'm going to a store, but end up picking one far from me, hitting all the “spots” there and back, can end up being a 5 hour journey into the wee hours. Always thinking a 90 to 100 lb wsw could be around the next corner (continual optimist). On occasion, I jump on the net to look there, but find most to be unreliable, expensive, and the SW search is such a draw for me.

Had a few LE scares through the years which kept me away for a few weeks. Always thinking I will stop “some day”, but end up driving around “one more time”. Masturbation tames me for about 15 minutes. Sometimes I drink a lot at home so I can't go out.

 

[mugi]

I started about 40 years ago with an AMP. Remember and never forget, sex is a biological function as much as walking, breathing, eating, sleeping and self-preservation. Now, even if you become a Buddhist or Christian or any other type of devoted monk with the intentions of leaving all desires like sex to merge with God, you will still struggle with the primitive urge called sex. It is the act that brought you into this world. It is a formidable urge.

I once asked an enlightened Taoist master about handling sexuality. He told me when he was young he married and his sexual appetite was strong and he was not fit to be a monk because desire was strong so he used marriage as an outlet for sexual urge.

Be aware that marriage is an institution to handle the problem of sexuality. It is a forced vehicle to sublimate your urge into a family situation and create a tight bond and have the freedom to reach higher goals because your sexual urge is satisfied by a spouse. But that is ideally how it is supposed to work. There would be chaos without marriage and that commitment for social structure and also to create discipline so that sexual fantasy does not overtake your mind and heart.

BUT..... man by nature is a polygamist. Of course, also woman is tempted but she traditionally was raising and teaching children at home and had less temptation. Now is different. But generally speaking if she was satisfied by her man, she was very happy. And some men also are satisfied with the sex at home and work and children and guided by religion.

And then there are "US." We are not bad. We tried to be monogamous. But all around we are tortured by sexual stimulation, by the way women look and dress, television, media and even nature itself is one huge sexual act of procreation. It is all around us, everywhere. Sex is a predominant thought, as powerful as eating and sleeping and self-survival. Not just a human need. All of nature is copulating beyond trillions of times each second. And your body and mind are a part of that very nature and the urge is in you and outside of you.

Why do you think Mohammed veiled women in face covering and body covering cloaks and garments and masks. It was for the sole reason that her attraction to man was too much for him to handle. So he tried to hide her for social order.

So, lay guilt aside for a while. Nobody pistol-whips you for eating and sleeping. Sex is as strong an urge as eating, sleeping and self-survival. Only an iron will could "Just say no to sex."

Okay, we are a species of human being above the animal and our SPIRIT is not a part of nature. If we have that desire to merge with SPIRIT, we can stop merging with nature, women.

Gentlemen, I commend you for being open to this discussion. It is no small dilemma. Most of us put forth a valiant effort to remain monogamous and have succeeded for a time but succumbed.

I don't have the time to go into my own woes created by my desires and they are too odd and strange for most of you to relate to. The control I once exerted to keep my marriage vows destroyed me in some ways worse than visiting AMP''s. And my later indiscretions created only more chaos. So, it is a dilemma but it is not hopeless either. It just takes great skill and balance to slowly evolve out of addiction.

Be gentle with yourselves and when you are ready or disgusted enough, try to cut back and sublimate the sexual energy into another creative outlet. It can be done. Much more difficult when you are young and the biological necessity is predominant.

But as we get older, it is not so much a biological urge anymore. It is a mental addiction due to the vast memories of pleasure stored in our conscious and unconscious minds of past sexual experiences. We have stored a vast library in our minds of sexual pleasures and they prompt us to continue. And when the penis no longer is as spunky as it once was we look for libido enhancers in order to continue.

I commend you all for opening and participating in this thread and for sharing.

Of course if you are so inclined, meditation and prayer are highly useful tools to create balance in your mind and heart. But meditation does take effort and study. Other activities are also useful when they require your total immersion, like swimming or whatever other hobbies you really enjoy.

YOU GUYS ARE GREAT, BEYOND WORDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Uniquelyme]

I started about 40 years ago with an AMP. Remember and never forget, sex is a biological function as much as walking, breathing, eating, sleeping and self-preservation. Now, even if you become a Buddhist or Christian or any other type of devoted monk with the intentions of leaving all desires like sex to merge with God, you will still struggle with the primitive urge called sex. It is the act that brought you into this world. It is a formidable urge.

I once asked an enlightened Taoist master about handling sexuality. He told me when he was young he married and his sexual appetite was strong and he was not fit to be a monk because desire was strong so he used marriage as an outlet for sexual urge.

Be aware that marriage is an institution to handle the problem of sexuality. It is a forced vehicle to sublimate your urge into a family situation and create a tight bond and have the freedom to reach higher goals because your sexual urge is satisfied by a spouse. But that is ideally how it is supposed to work. There would be chaos without marriage and that commitment for social structure and also to create discipline so that sexual fantasy does not overtake your mind and heart.

BUT..... man by nature is a polygamist. Of course, also woman is tempted but she traditionally was raising and teaching children at home and had less temptation. Now is different. But generally speaking if she was satisfied by her man, she was very happy. And some men also are satisfied with the sex at home and work and children and guided by religion.

And then there are "US." We are not bad. We tried to be monogamous. But all around we are tortured by sexual stimulation, by the way women look and dress, television, media and even nature itself is one huge sexual act of procreation. It is all around us, everywhere. Sex is a predominant thought, as powerful as eating and sleeping and self-survival. Not just a human need. All of nature is copulating beyond trillions of times each second. And your body and mind are a part of that very nature and the urge is in you and outside of you.

Why do you think Mohammed veiled women in face covering and body covering cloaks and garments and masks. It was for the sole reason that her attraction to man was too much for him to handle. So he tried to hide her for social order.

So, lay guilt aside for a while. Nobody pistol-whips you for eating and sleeping. Sex is as strong an urge as eating, sleeping and self-survival. Only an iron will could "Just say no to sex."

Okay, we are a species of human being above the animal and our SPIRIT is not a part of nature. If we have that desire to merge with SPIRIT, we can stop merging with nature, women.

Gentlemen, I commend you for being open to this discussion. It is no small dilemma. Most of us put forth a valiant effort to remain monogamous and have succeeded for a time but succumbed.

I don't have the time to go into my own woes created by my desires and they are too odd and strange for most of you to relate to. The control I once exerted to keep my marriage vows destroyed me in some ways worse than visiting AMP''s. And my later indiscretions created only more chaos. So, it is a dilemma but it is not hopeless either. It just takes great skill and balance to slowly evolve out of addiction.

Be gentle with yourselves and when you are ready or disgusted enough, try to cut back and sublimate the sexual energy into another creative outlet. It can be done. Much more difficult when you are young and the biological necessity is predominant.

But as we get older, it is not so much a biological urge anymore. It is a mental addiction due to the vast memories of pleasure stored in our conscious and unconscious minds of past sexual experiences. We have stored a vast library in our minds of sexual pleasures and they prompt us to continue. And when the penis no longer is as spunky as it once was we look for libido enhancers in order to continue.

I commend you all for opening and participating in this thread and for sharing.

Of course if you are so inclined, meditation and prayer are highly useful tools to create balance in your mind and heart. But meditation does take effort and study. Other activities are also useful when they require your total immersion, like swimming or whatever other hobbies you really enjoy.

YOU GUYS ARE GREAT, BEYOND WORDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sex doesn't have the same urge as eating and sleeping do. I like many Men love sex I thibk about Women my gf and others often. However I have to eat I have to sleep every day. I DO NOT have to have sex everyday. 3 days or so a week is fine for me.

 

[LorenzoDeMedici]

Sex Addicts anonymous is prob the best choice. However, I am married and want to stay that way....might be tough to explain. My issue all my life, regardless of how hot it is, is that I get bored of the same person sexually. If you have Filet Mignon every night, you want a burger once in a while. Yes I'm a spoiled brat. The thrill of hobying is just that a thrill...it cost too much money, ....without those 2 what's the point? I knew I wouldn't be able to change my way based on answers here...just venting I guess. Thanks guys.

OK so many years ago I had a conversation with someone very close to me and divulged the fact that I was having an affair. His response was comforting in a sense that he then divulged to me that so had he ...numerous times. I was like WHAT!!?? I knew his wife very well and knew that she was both incredibly sexual and affectionate towards him. So it didn't make sense to me as my issue was that my wife at the time was extremely unavailable both sexually & affectionately. I quite honestly had the momentary gut reaction in my mind "well at least I'm not as bad as him". "I'm lookin for it because I'm not gettin it...he's just being fuckin greedy!"
But after still knowing him and some of you the way I do being on this board has shown me many facets to "why we do what we do".
If you are willing to go to sex addicts anonymous but don't feel you can explain that to your wife... well than it shows that you are both
*Open to a therapeutic Counseling environment
*Care about her enough to join in on one

Well then 2 things come to mind..
Tell her you wish to go to "marriage counseling" instead. I don't know your wife obviously but "Most" women are All about the counseling. The difference that they don't get sometimes between us & them is that Men are more results oriented. If we are gonna talk about our feelings we expect there to be an outcome. Otherwise why bother. Women on the other hand simply like to talk and in their mind simply talking...and talking...and talking IS The Solution. So before actually making the commitment to going be very clear with her that your intent is to enhance your relationship with her and that you desire for things to change. Be VERY Careful that she doesn't get the idea that you are asking this in a threatening tone. (she may take it that way anyway) But do your best.
Then over the course of the counseling sessions. Simply direct the flow of the conversation leaking out your desires for HER to be more sexually open and in your case(because I've learned your not just being greedy" ) That you need HER to be
"a BURGER once in a while" sometimes even a Turkey burger or maybe a Falafel hero. Shit lets do Italian tonight and ask her to be a Cheesy gooey slice of Pizza.
Be Very sure she knows that you are saying these things because SHE is THAT attractive and exciting to you. And that you are tempted by her Every day.
However UNDERSTAND that there are going to have to be concessions on your part. In terms of your behaviors, habits etc.

Best of Luck to you!

Ironically that guy has not cheated in a long time. I on the other hand became a World Class Monger ...but only when I wasn't with my GF (who thankfully gets it. And has actually made me a Better friend to the Ex)

BTW. a disclaimer..
I know I stated some generalities in this post regarding women. Please do not retort that I am in any way "misogynistic", or that I am "gender profiling". Generalities are just that! I don't believe or intend to convey that they apply to literally everyone.

 

[Nehoma]

OK so many years ago I had a conversation with someone very close to me and divulged the fact that I was having an affair. His response was comforting in a sense that he then divulged to me that so had he ...numerous times. I was like WHAT!!?? I knew his wife very well and knew that she was both incredibly sexual and affectionate towards him. So it didn't make sense to me as my issue was that my wife at the time was extremely unavailable both sexually & affectionately. I quite honestly had the momentary gut reaction in my mind "well at least I'm not as bad as him". "I'm lookin for it because I'm not gettin it...he's just being fuckin greedy!"
But after still knowing him and some of you the way I do being on this board has shown me many facets to "why we do what we do".
If you are willing to go to sex addicts anonymous but don't feel you can explain that to your wife... well than it shows that you are both
*Open to a therapeutic Counseling environment
*Care about her enough to join in on one

Well then 2 things come to mind..
Tell her you wish to go to "marriage counseling" instead. I don't know your wife obviously but "Most" women are All about the counseling. The difference that they don't get sometimes between us & them is that Men are more results oriented. If we are gonna talk about our feelings we expect there to be an outcome. Otherwise why bother. Women on the other hand simply like to talk and in their mind simply talking...and talking...and talking IS The Solution. So before actually making the commitment to going be very clear with her that your intent is to enhance your relationship with her and that you desire for things to change. Be VERY Careful that she doesn't get the idea that you are asking this in a threatening tone. (she may take it that way anyway) But do your best.
Then over the course of the counseling sessions. Simply direct the flow of the conversation leaking out your desires for HER to be more sexually open and in your case(because I've learned your not just being greedy" ) That you need HER to be
"a BURGER once in a while" sometimes even a Turkey burger or maybe a Falafel hero. Shit lets do Italian tonight and ask her to be a Cheesy gooey slice of Pizza.
Be Very sure she knows that you are saying these things because SHE is THAT attractive and exciting to you. And that you are tempted by her Every day.
However UNDERSTAND that there are going to have to be concessions on your part. In terms of your behaviors, habits etc.

Best of Luck to you!

Ironically that guy has not cheated in a long time. I on the other hand became a World Class Monger ...but only when I wasn't with my GF (who thankfully gets it. And has actually made me a Better friend to the Ex)

BTW. a disclaimer..
I know I stated some generalities in this post regarding women. Please do not retort that I am in any way "misogynistic", or that I am "gender profiling". Generalities are just that! I don't believe or intend to convey that they apply to literally everyone.

Just infuse some THC into some brownies for her and your problem solved!

 

[keepitcovered]

Thanks to everyone for sharing!

 

[Waterclone]

Sex doesn't have the same urge as eating and sleeping do. I like many Men love sex I thibk about Women my gf and others often. However I have to eat I have to sleep every day. I DO NOT have to have sex everyday. 3 days or so a week is fine for me.

You don't understand how addiction works. Yes, it's not the same as eating and sleeping. But it's also not the same as your average person who just loves sex. Sex addiction is a real thing.