Maybe I'm not really amazed and shocked really. But I'm really glad it's not me and there is something definiitely unhealthy about it. MAybe that's why I can't understand it. (Not suggesting that I'm healty and functional, after all I've spent 30 years seeing prostitutes). But there seems something even more perverse by not only seeing prostitutes but getting involved (and feeeling the need to get involved) in a prostitutes life and work.
Over the last few months or so, I've been finding that reading UG as a place where I come to put my life in perspective and feel good about who I am and what I'm doing - or really trying to do.
I don't really mean that to come out in a superior, condescending way. Or that I'm better than anyone else. Lord knows we all have our issues and I'm certainly a leader in that group. Maybe its limited to my reviewing why I did (do) this and that I've determined that I'd rather put my efforts into my relationship with my wife.
Over the last few months or so, I've been finding that reading UG as a place where I come to put my life in perspective and feel good about who I am and what I'm doing - or really trying to do.
I don't really mean that to come out in a superior, condescending way. Or that I'm better than anyone else. Lord knows we all have our issues and I'm certainly a leader in that group. Maybe its limited to my reviewing why I did (do) this and that I've determined that I'd rather put my efforts into my relationship with my wife.