Also I think BillyS was quite right. If by fall, he meant who we are attracted to, desire, want to be with, etc. sometimes that stuff happens and we can't control it (and I mean beyond just lust).
But you don't have to enter into a relationship with that person just because you develop feelings for them. i think that is where we have control. We can avoid that person and like many things in life those feelings will fade if they are not reinforced.
But you don't have to enter into a relationship with that person just because you develop feelings for them. i think that is where we have control. We can avoid that person and like many things in life those feelings will fade if they are not reinforced.