Dating site extortion experience

#41
Recently received an email showing a password I had used in the past and saying that they have accessed my contacts and will send out pics of me masturbating to porn if I didn't send bitcoin to them. Well, good luck to them, as I have never masturbated on line or in front of my computer. That they had the password and handle was a bit disturbing from a general security standpoint, but I cannot trace where it was stolen from as I had used them years ago before heightening security and using different passwords per account. I just deleted the email. Got a second one several days later, ignored and deleted it as well. All quiet since.
When there is a breach at some large company or even one of the credit clearinghouses like Equifax, they steal your personal information.
You can get a new credit card, you can get a new phone number, you can even move. But you can’t change your name, you can’t change your Social Security number, and you can’t change your date of birth.
They harvest that information and they hold it for years sometimes not using it for two or three years.
So when a breach occurs and a company contacts you and tells you they’ll pay for you to have “one year of free credit protection”, that’s a scam. Because they know your information won’t surface for two or three years. So when the year is up you’re stuck paying them $20 a month or so for years.
When Equifax lost 50 million people’s worth of identity information, to cover there butt, they offered one free year but they made a fortune collecting it every month for years after that. there are a few services out there that will protect your identity and notify you whenever someone is trying to use your identity to open an account or buy something. A Common one is LifeLock, But there are many. it’s about $100 a year.
Let’s say someone uses your identity to open up a new phone account with Verizon. They use that number to call Argentina for three months and eventually the bill catches up with you and now Verizon wants you to pay a $2000 bill. now you have to prove that you didn’t open that account, or make those calls, and fight with Verizon. You may have to pay the $2000 while you’re waiting for the problem to clear just so they don’t screw up your credit. Imagine how much time you’re going to waste with this problem and the paperwork and loss of money and grief. Pay the $100/year to protect you in advance and sleep like a baby.
If you have kids under 18, they charge $25 per child per year.You couldn’t take the kid home from the hospital when they were born without getting a Social Security number but you probably won’t use it for 15 years so during that time someone will pay somebody in the hospital to get your kids Social Security number, and use it to create a fake identity and use it for years until you finally detect that somethings wrong.

I get a text message from LifeLock 4-5 times a year asking me “are you trying to open an account at Bloomingdale’s? “And there’s a red button “NO”and a green button “YES” in the text. If I didn’t, I hit “NO” and that’s the end of my problem. I never hear back from them again and my credit is intact.
 
#42
Maybe I should look to see if there’s a thread on making your identity Invisible. If not I could start one.
-how to create a dummy identity
-spoofing
-VPN and how to hide your device
-IP addresses and how you’re traced
-creating dead FB accounts
-creating dummy e-mail addresses
-creating dummy SB accounts
-finding photos that look something like you but not enough to trigger facial recognition technology
-password protection programs, what’s best
-fake identities under LLCs
-obtaining out of state license plates, addresses, PO Boxes, etc.
That sounds great. I haven't figured out how to go on meeting or dating websites like SA or others without taking a picture of myself. If I put a pic up I put it out there to all these people who may know my so or who are clients or colleagues at work that know im Married. With WYP I didn't need a photo but these others seem to need a photo. Or do people put up a pic thats false?
 
#45
That sounds great. I haven't figured out how to go on meeting or dating websites like SA or others without taking a picture of myself. If I put a pic up I put it out there to all these people who may know my so or who are clients or colleagues at work that know im Married. With WYP I didn't need a photo but these others seem to need a photo. Or do people put up a pic thats false?
You don’t have to have a picture on SA as long as you pay the monthly fee. I would never put my pictures on those sites remember what happened with asley Madison a few years ago.
 
#46
You don’t have to have a picture on SA as long as you pay the monthly fee. I would never put my pictures on those sites remember what happened with asley Madison a few years ago.
Facial recognition technology has really gotten out of control. It used to be that the FBI had about 20 million faces that it could search through. NYPD had about 4 million faces on file.

There is someone from Sweden that wrote a program that searches all the social media sites and collects faces. His database now has 250 million faces in it and he’s now selling that software to police departments for $1000 a month. There’s solving criminal cases like crazy because now they can take a picture of someone from far away or capture them on a street camera and then run it across his database and they can find everybody from pickpockets to sex offenders to bank robbers. Apparently it’s a great tool for police but it’s a total invasion of privacy and now they link you through your social media account so they know who your friends are, your acquaintances and any other info you have on linked in, Facebook, SA, bumble, SB, etc. It’s all tied together.
It’s a very invasive program and it looks like the cat is already out of the box and there’s no way to put it back in.
If you want or need to post a picture on one of these sites, I suggest you search on Google photos for a face somewhat similar to yours but not exactly you. If you’re 45, Italian, and have a beard, search for that criteria and you’ll find someone, somewhere who looks something like you but it’s not really you so it doesn’t trigger facial recognition. You should do everything to keep your identity private.
 
#51
I hear you, that's probably the smartest thing to do if you're married. Although these hidden cam things with the local po po makes me not want to go there anymore either.
I’ve thought about that. I stick to the ones that have never been busted and have been around for years. It’s my guess they pay enough to not get hassled.
 
#52
I'm not "giving you crap".
You are in Moderation, so your posts are given more scrutiny than normal members.
If your posts don't advance a thread then they are deleted.

Since it was allegedly your "friend" who bragged about being invisible online, having no digital foot print, then it was only logical for me to ask which one of you was going to start that thread.

Also it was always your "friend" who would give me responses like that, like when he was pissed his review was deleted while "you" have always been civil with me.
Hey Billy, how long does moderation last? Last nights I posted here info relevant to losing money through extortion about the risks of debit cards. It was relevant, informative yet it got deleted. What am I missing here?
 

pokler

Power Bottom
#53
Just wondering .. On cam sites like Chaterbate is it possible for someone or a software to activate the cam on your computer without your knowledge and take a vid of you as you pull it ?
 
#54
Just wondering .. On cam sites like Chaterbate is it possible for someone or a software to activate the cam on your computer without your knowledge and take a vid of you as you pull it ?
Absolutely!!! There are multiple reported cases of computer cameras being activated remotely without your knowledge.
Thete was a famous case where a high school principal was activating the cameras on laptops provided to students and watching what was going on in their homes.
You should keep your camera covered with a piece of black tape or something blocking it until you’re ready to share your images with someone using your camera.
You can tell many of these scams are fake because they say they have images of you masturbating at your computer, and your computer is not equipped with a camera!!
 

billyS

Reign of Terror
#55
Hey Billy, how long does moderation last? Last nights I posted here info relevant to losing money through extortion about the risks of debit cards. It was relevant, informative yet it got deleted. What am I missing here?
No it was straying off topic as this whole thread has been doing and is due for a clean up like I had to do with the Lucy 3 Amps thread.

When other members complain to me about threads straying I take a closer look. Sometimes I start a new thread with the information sometimes I don't have time.

Moderation lasts as long as needed when trust is broken.
After the shit you pulled with your other accounts you can't blame us for being careful with you.
Especially with people who have tried to deceive us and/or other board members in the past.
 
#57
Just wondering .. On cam sites like Chaterbate is it possible for someone or a software to activate the cam on your computer without your knowledge and take a vid of you as you pull it ?
Plenty of people keep a piece of tape over their laptop camera for that reason.
 
#58
When there is a breach at some large company or even one of the credit clearinghouses like Equifax, they steal your personal information.
You can get a new credit card, you can get a new phone number, you can even move. But you can’t change your name, you can’t change your Social Security number, and you can’t change your date of birth.
They harvest that information and they hold it for years sometimes not using it for two or three years.
So when a breach occurs and a company contacts you and tells you they’ll pay for you to have “one year of free credit protection”, that’s a scam. Because they know your information won’t surface for two or three years. So when the year is up you’re stuck paying them $20 a month or so for years.
When Equifax lost 50 million people’s worth of identity information, to cover there butt, they offered one free year but they made a fortune collecting it every month for years after that. there are a few services out there that will protect your identity and notify you whenever someone is trying to use your identity to open an account or buy something. A Common one is LifeLock, But there are many. it’s about $100 a year.
Let’s say someone uses your identity to open up a new phone account with Verizon. They use that number to call Argentina for three months and eventually the bill catches up with you and now Verizon wants you to pay a $2000 bill. now you have to prove that you didn’t open that account, or make those calls, and fight with Verizon. You may have to pay the $2000 while you’re waiting for the problem to clear just so they don’t screw up your credit. Imagine how much time you’re going to waste with this problem and the paperwork and loss of money and grief. Pay the $100/year to protect you in advance and sleep like a baby.
If you have kids under 18, they charge $25 per child per year.You couldn’t take the kid home from the hospital when they were born without getting a Social Security number but you probably won’t use it for 15 years so during that time someone will pay somebody in the hospital to get your kids Social Security number, and use it to create a fake identity and use it for years until you finally detect that somethings wrong.

I get a text message from LifeLock 4-5 times a year asking me “are you trying to open an account at Bloomingdale’s? “And there’s a red button “NO”and a green button “YES” in the text. If I didn’t, I hit “NO” and that’s the end of my problem. I never hear back from them again and my credit is intact.
All of this is true. Some of the credit card companies will also offer free credit monitoring and alert you if your SS number has been used. One can also contact Ithe credit bureaus and flag their accounts as being compromised ( in the past). A lock is put on the SS number and no information can be released without a verification process. Prevents new loans, credit cards , credit scores from being run. It is a free service.
 
#59
I think the most reassuring thing I have is that I didn’t bite on paying and I blocked right away rather than keep the dialogue going. It’s easier to try a bunch of other horny guys and hope they pay. Probably one in five pays and they want the quick cash, I’m thinking. not wishing it on anyone else, mind you.
I agree with you there. I haven't experienced what you described specifically, but I agree that cutting off the ability of an extortionist to message you is the best way to get them to move on. It's a game theory thing on some level. If they can't threaten you anymore, they can't get you to do anything, and move on to people they still have the ability to negotiate with....
 
#60
It reminds me of someone I knew who used the club anti theft thing and I asked her if she thought it worked. How hard could it be for a thief to get past that.

She said she figured that any car thief would rather go to the next car that didn't have it. Why waste a few extra minutes if there's an easier picking. That made sense.
 
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