Whitelightning,
As a matter of fact, I have ridden the subways. And yes, I do hear how Black men talk to women.
The majority of them speak English, just as well as you and I. And they're respectful.
Yes, some of the younger ones have salty language. But if you spoke Spanish, you will hear similar salty language emanating from the mouths of young Latinos as well.
Believe it or not, Whitelightening, most Black people have jobs and families and go about their daily lives just like the rest of us do.
You're probably concentrating on a very small percentage who unnerve you.
Have a good day.