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i am a professional sub, M. also, in my personal life, being sexually submissive can be a huge turn on for me. i was thinking recently, though, that i've only had two substantial relationships in my life - and neither of them included the submissive part of me at all. i don't know if i can have both...
Where are all the sub providers at? LOL!
Recently, i've become 'intrigued' by the BSDM lifestyle, though I do not participate in it...Guess its a phase I'm in....
Anyway, recently I've been having fantasies about tying up, spanking schoolgirls (over 18, of course), but haven't been able to find a provider who would be willing to meet all of the criteria, as follows
- must look the part of a school girl (thin, short, have the outfit)
- must appreciate the spanking /discipline aspect (not too rough)
- must be really into the roleplay....acting...and not just go thru the motion and think that I'm just looking to f&%k
If anyone can steer me to a provider or website...tried Eros, and CL.....but no one seems to fit the bill
I guess im over my Polish Russian woman phase...LOL!
Recently, i've become 'intrigued' by the BSDM lifestyle, though I do not participate in it...Guess its a phase I'm in....
Anyway, recently I've been having fantasies about tying up, spanking schoolgirls (over 18, of course), but haven't been able to find a provider who would be willing to meet all of the criteria, as follows
- must look the part of a school girl (thin, short, have the outfit)
- must appreciate the spanking /discipline aspect (not too rough)
- must be really into the roleplay....acting...and not just go thru the motion and think that I'm just looking to f&%k
If anyone can steer me to a provider or website...tried Eros, and CL.....but no one seems to fit the bill
I guess im over my Polish Russian woman phase...LOL!
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i'm not sure if this would be helpful, monk. "the community" frowns on female subs having sex in session...and i'm not sure many dommes would be in touch with escorts who do submissive things. i'm not an expert in this area, but "the community" has made a huge effort to distance itself from the escorting profession.
Dommes having sex with clients is the BBFS of the BDSM community: a hell of a lot more of it goes on than anyone wants to admit, and "The lady doth protest too much, methinks" comes into play.
But as SA is alluding to above, if you don't require sex after your session (or should I say, during your session), a lot of the BDSM studios are "8 Dommes and a sub". Also, depending on how hard a sub you need, there are plenty of non-hardcore BDSM working girls who will do things like spankings as long as you know where her limits are and respect them.
But as SA is alluding to above, if you don't require sex after your session (or should I say, during your session), a lot of the BDSM studios are "8 Dommes and a sub". Also, depending on how hard a sub you need, there are plenty of non-hardcore BDSM working girls who will do things like spankings as long as you know where her limits are and respect them.
I like being bound but due to double jointedness and tiny wrists I escape easily....
I used to be a pro sub,,,in my first professional incarnation a million years ago,,,
I got hurt badly by a john and keep that side very compartementalized.
When I feel safe enough there is nothing hotter than total helplessness
I used to be a pro sub,,,in my first professional incarnation a million years ago,,,
I got hurt badly by a john and keep that side very compartementalized.
When I feel safe enough there is nothing hotter than total helplessness
it's kinda funny - someone reminded me tonight of a time when i was hurt by a john. it never even came to my mind, miki. i did assume that the john who hurt you did it maliciously, which was not the case for me.
my incident was the result of an overly effective implement. the client made his own whip out of cut telephone cords with a duct tape handle, (he used to do that kind of stuff for dramatic effect,) and tied me to a table next to the bed. what he couldn't see, when he started whipping, was that the wire tips of the implement were actually wrapping around to the other side of my body and tearing open my hip and thigh. after a couple of strokes, blood started fling onto the white bedsheets, and - noticing that - he immediately stopped, untied me, and helped me to get medical attention.
the interesting part of that story for me is that i completely put it out of my mind.
my incident was the result of an overly effective implement. the client made his own whip out of cut telephone cords with a duct tape handle, (he used to do that kind of stuff for dramatic effect,) and tied me to a table next to the bed. what he couldn't see, when he started whipping, was that the wire tips of the implement were actually wrapping around to the other side of my body and tearing open my hip and thigh. after a couple of strokes, blood started fling onto the white bedsheets, and - noticing that - he immediately stopped, untied me, and helped me to get medical attention.
the interesting part of that story for me is that i completely put it out of my mind.