I do not believe the girls on SA are looking for a true SD they want someone to take of them while they still want to go and meet and charge men for meets.....Maybe I am wrong but for a girl/woman to truly want a SD she should be his exsclusivly. I had one a few years back as mentioned in this thread for mr to shell out thousands of dollars a month and place to live and buy things she should not have the need to still be doing those meets and chaging for sex. I am currently talking to a woman now who is looking for that type of relationship she has been burnt and taken advantage of by her husband her situation is an odd one she has no real traing to get a decent job to make any kind of living to survive she currently lives with her daughter and family but it is tight and her son in law is getting tired of her staying there. There are things to work out and I am weighing my options carefully.