Hi Yes I've had 2 fwb arrangements with women I saw more than twice. One was not in Ny often enough for my liking. The current one I met feb 2019 and all was very good 1x a week to 2x a month varied depending on her day job and small child. Lately she has not made time for us in over a month. So not sure whats up. But I do prefer one lady and multi hour visits ranging from 1hr to a overnite. Its difficult to sort thru the hotel only ladies and ladies actually wanting a fwb vs 1hr fuck sessions
Anyone have a real Sugar Baby?
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Seemed like it was customary in parts of South Florida for waiters and bartenders to say your name when they handed you your card back.
Also, Many Marriotts have the TV on when you walk in the room or when you turn them on the home screen has your full name. My LTR - after dinner I would send her up to the room where I had a bottle of wine for her while I made phone calls from the lobby. Definitely know she knows who I am although I've not caught her looking at my linkedin yet.
Seemed like it was customary in parts of South Florida for waiters and bartenders to say your name when they handed you your card back.
Also, Many Marriotts have the TV on when you walk in the room or when you turn them on the home screen has your full name. My LTR - after dinner I would send her up to the room where I had a bottle of wine for her while I made phone calls from the lobby. Definitely know she knows who I am although I've not caught her looking at my linkedin yet.
After her moving into the apartment we spent on an average of 4 nights together on Friday and Saturday I some times spent the whole night and of sleeping over. We did the normal thing were we would sit watch a movie snuggle up had conversations about each others day. Besides letting her live rent free I would by sexy lingerie for her that I wanted to see her in if there was something special I wanted I give her money to buy it. I guess you can say this was win win situation She got a place to stay in rent free and I had a steady thing on the side which by the way she was exclusive to me but when she was unavailable certain days I would visit a provider.
I had one back in 2014 that lasted for 3 years. I was 32 and she was 24 at that time. We both worked at the same hospital, became a friend till she joked that I should be her SD and she will be my SB. She knows I’m married and she was dating someone that time. We go out on dinners after work, we play around in her apartment and thats about it. I do not give her but luxury item gifts on her bday and holidays. She left work 2017, found someone and got married. We are still friends, joke about thing once in a while but never did anything again. Can’t say it is an affair cause I have an affair that time lol. So basically shuffling 1 my SD and my side chick plus my SO.
They really dont exist anymore. Ive been on and off sa about 7 years. I did have a real legit sugar baby about 7 years ago, we had an arrangement that lasted about 2 years. At the beginning i was giving her money here and there but then i just started helping her with bills here and there, we started going lots of places together even the gym, it kinda turned into a full blown relationship but after a while i starting having personal issues at home so we went our seperate ways, She was a normal girl a yoga instructor. Cool girl. But those real sb relationships can become more complicated then anticipated. Plus they they make them like that anymore. The newer generation doesn't even know or have what it takes to be a real sb so why should one put them selves thru the ringer.
I had a unique relationship for some time with a provider out west, where I travel too frequently. Her first career in real estate did not work out and she chose to be a companion in her early thirties. Extremely educated and catered to the more wealthy type, she lived the life.. Traveled, showered with gifts and so forth..I found her at the tail end of her prime .. we became friends, spent time together off the clock and shared a limited amount of personal details..Sex was great at first, then it became somewhat mundane.. We enjoyed each other’s company.
During her prime, she made lots of money, but as she aged ( I met her when she turned 40 ish), her dates dried up, and she tried to maintain a lifestyle for which her income did not support. Having a background in finance I tried to set her in a path of financial security.. She was grateful and our time together now became completely off the clock..
We maintained routine dialogue ( mostly e mail and the occasional phone calls, but I sensed that she was becoming to emotionally attached to me)
My last visit to her left me feeling uncomfortable. Her financial situation deteriorated and her behavior changed. She did tell me that she had a regular who is supporting her.. Good for her... Time goes by and the regular, she informs me has now moved in with her.
She appears to be living happily ever after and I am glad. We make plans to meet on my next trip.
I get a Vm on my burner a week before the trip. She comes home to find her new BF hanging by a rope in the bathroom. He committed suicide. Needless to say, she lost it.
I never made the trip nor spoke with her again. The companionship was great. There is no room in my life for more complication, drama or stress
During her prime, she made lots of money, but as she aged ( I met her when she turned 40 ish), her dates dried up, and she tried to maintain a lifestyle for which her income did not support. Having a background in finance I tried to set her in a path of financial security.. She was grateful and our time together now became completely off the clock..
We maintained routine dialogue ( mostly e mail and the occasional phone calls, but I sensed that she was becoming to emotionally attached to me)
My last visit to her left me feeling uncomfortable. Her financial situation deteriorated and her behavior changed. She did tell me that she had a regular who is supporting her.. Good for her... Time goes by and the regular, she informs me has now moved in with her.
She appears to be living happily ever after and I am glad. We make plans to meet on my next trip.
I get a Vm on my burner a week before the trip. She comes home to find her new BF hanging by a rope in the bathroom. He committed suicide. Needless to say, she lost it.
I never made the trip nor spoke with her again. The companionship was great. There is no room in my life for more complication, drama or stress
One thing that became significant with my ATF was that even though we both had/have various drama in our life's when we're together we figure out a way to neutralize it for each other. I guess you could call it a second level of chemistry/attraction I'm not really sure. As Billy mentioned for many of you this is about one and done but for us in some weird way this has become one of "our things". An irony of real life is that it is often fake and this kind of put a real face on the coldness and of the fantasy part of the sugaring for us. As things became bumpy this year it's gotten in our way. I'm curious what next year brings us.
All the girls ive seen on SA where real SB's as they all stayed for hours some even sleep overs. Thats when SA is more bang for your buck. When thst doesnt happen then shes not an SB. Shes a hourly girl.
Only one girl was kinda quick she was 1-2hrs the rest minimum 4 hrs or i had to leave myself. And if she's a real SB she isnt asking for money afyer you see her you give it to her. It starts off lets say $300 and then twice a week maybe $200 each time or $250 etc. They chill with you cause they want to. Money ia the objective ofc but its not the only factor when it's a real Sb relationship and she's not juggling tons of guys at a time. Max 2 or 3. Even morr Sb when she deactivates her acct and sees you and maybe one other mainly.
Only one girl was kinda quick she was 1-2hrs the rest minimum 4 hrs or i had to leave myself. And if she's a real SB she isnt asking for money afyer you see her you give it to her. It starts off lets say $300 and then twice a week maybe $200 each time or $250 etc. They chill with you cause they want to. Money ia the objective ofc but its not the only factor when it's a real Sb relationship and she's not juggling tons of guys at a time. Max 2 or 3. Even morr Sb when she deactivates her acct and sees you and maybe one other mainly.
None that I ever hung out with. None that would ever even want to hang out. But my last UTR, I was starting to see 4 times a week for 3k a month, before she moved away.
I dont recommend it. In my experience, the more you see each other, the more likely it is some resentment will grow. My girl was a boring bitch and I wanted to punch her in the face more than once. But she was physically everything I absolutely love, so had to deal with it. So you're paying her to be your bitchy girlfriend who wont let you do nasty stuff to her.
Now, I think I just want some one-and-done's. If a girl wont be a filthy disgusting pig the first time, 99% of situation, she won't become one with more.money or more time. If I cant facefuck her til she spits up and pukes, fuck her ass, cum in her on her down her throat, she won't rim me and basically be my personal pornstar, I'd rather just jerk off.
I dont recommend it. In my experience, the more you see each other, the more likely it is some resentment will grow. My girl was a boring bitch and I wanted to punch her in the face more than once. But she was physically everything I absolutely love, so had to deal with it. So you're paying her to be your bitchy girlfriend who wont let you do nasty stuff to her.
Now, I think I just want some one-and-done's. If a girl wont be a filthy disgusting pig the first time, 99% of situation, she won't become one with more.money or more time. If I cant facefuck her til she spits up and pukes, fuck her ass, cum in her on her down her throat, she won't rim me and basically be my personal pornstar, I'd rather just jerk off.
True but the downside of things is that it can be lots of hard work etc. And no matter how much fun you're having or think you're having the cold reality can be that you're hoping she is too and that it's rooted in a transaction that you're paying never goes away. Of course traditional relationships aren't perfect either. From one perspective kind of hinges on the oxymornishness of real SB as it's often never real even though I know that wasn't the meaning your original question referred to.
Thread bump because I want to ask this question slightly differently;
Does anyone use the SA site to specifically look for a real Sugar Baby?
Someone to give an allowance to, take on trips, help her with her bills?
I know this question is probably better suited for an anonymous poll but that's not an option with the current version of the software.
I ask because I had a conversation with a lovely lady recently who said at this point of her life she'd prefer a SD to a boyfriend and was wondering if an add on that site would be worth it.
I did tell her to look at the comments on that site on this board to get an idea of what guys expect and the type of guys looking on there.
Does anyone use the SA site to specifically look for a real Sugar Baby?
Someone to give an allowance to, take on trips, help her with her bills?
I know this question is probably better suited for an anonymous poll but that's not an option with the current version of the software.
I ask because I had a conversation with a lovely lady recently who said at this point of her life she'd prefer a SD to a boyfriend and was wondering if an add on that site would be worth it.
I did tell her to look at the comments on that site on this board to get an idea of what guys expect and the type of guys looking on there.
Well my deal is you want to give the impression your looking for a sb when reality i just want a side piece or option to see someone when i want or can. And as far as allowance, trips and stuff, all the years i been on sa ive always done a "allowance per date", and never no trips and if it would become more of a casual relationship i would help with a bill here and there. And i tell them straightforward i suck at being a sd but they still go for me still lol. Dont get me wrong the site will bring you in maybe with the intentions of having or finding a real sb but once you get use to it and see what the girls on the site are all about that shit goes out the door. So no i actually dont look for a real sb on sa