Re: REPLY TO TC123'S COMMENTS ON DSS
Bid D,
I think you read WAY too much into my post. WAY too much.
First of all, I agree with you that all the guys were GENTLEMEN just there to have a good time, and never said any different. Second, I also agree that you and the rest of the management keeps everything cool and makes sure everyone has a good time.
The reason I said what I said was this: When DSS opened, JVJ gave a dress code, so the place would not attract too much attention from law enforcement. Same rules at ASSC. It said something about business casual, etc, because of the type of building it is and it's location. When I see people going against that, i wonder if it is attracting attention and is about to get busted. I'm not saying it will, but if I have that instinct, my enjoyment for the evening is over and I'm gone.
I read my last post over and I could see why you'd think there might be racial overtones. For that, I'm sorry. It's partially the way I worded it. It's partially because you don't know me. If you did, you'd know that there weren't. And you would know I don't judge a person by what they wear, so you're preaching to the choir. And you would know that I'm personally fine with anything people wear at say, 243, because that's just what people normally do there, unlike DSS, for the reason above. And you would know that I'm also one of the ones there that "makes things happen". But hopefully you'll re-read my post too and see you assumed a lot that simply wasn't there.
Like saying people would or wouldn't act a certain way based on clothing.
Like saying people would or wouldn't spend money based on clothing.
Like saying anything was race-based.
I don't think that way. Believe me or not, take me at my word or don't, it's up to you. Hopefully, my next time there, we'll have a drink together and smooth things over.
I'm not sure who your man Goldberg is, but offer him the puppy, I don't need one.
Peace.
TC
Originally posted by HANDS ON
All in all a nice time. Still, about 1:00 am, the vibe changed a bit.
*****“Hands on” reply--How did the vibe “change a bit”. Did it change for the better or for the worst? I think it changed for the better because the guys that entered were guys that were there to spend lots of money, but you wouldn’t know that because you left.
I know the ASSC dress code says "No gangsta/thug wear" but I'm not sure if it's the same policy at DSS.
*****”Hands on” reply—I’m trying to understand what exactly is “gansta/thug wear” and what exactly does it matter “what kind of wear” a person is wearing just as long as he has pockets, on what he/she is wearing, to hold the money he may need to enjoy himself.
Anyway, a bunch of guys came in who, shall we say, were not too concerned about that.
*****”Hands on” reply—let’s just say they did not have any concern of the “wear”, what concern would you have on what another GUY is wearing when he goes out to enjoy himself. I would not what to believe that you are checking out the ladies and the fellas (hmmm, let’s take a moment and think about that).
I'm sure it was no big deal, but I felt the vibe changing a bit, and I listened to my instincts and left.
*****”Hands on” reply—obviously it was a BIG DAEL to you or you wouldn’t be commenting about it on this forum. Well, I was there before you came and after you left and if you would of stayed you would of seen that the vibe changed from a small group of guys standing and sitting around waiting for things to happen to a larger group of guys actually coming in and actually making it happen. I’m sure you know the saying “SOME PEOPLE MAKE IT HAPPEN WHILE OTHERS WAIT FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN FOR THEM. Which one would you be?
*****I’m not sure but I have to ask. Are there any racial overtones in your comments of “gansta wear” or in the “changing of the vibe” comments? If so then let me address that. At DSS there is not such thing as “black or white” or “gansta or tuxedo”, but there is such thing as GENTLEMEN, no matter how they are dressed, cumming in and having a good time in a clean and comfortable environment that management has tried their best to make it that way. If you are concerned with what another person or persons is wearing then clearly you are not there for what everyone else is there for, and that is “HANDS ON” adult entertainment. At DSS the management has taken several steps to secure everyone’s safety just like the management of your big mainstream clubs. And if you are nervous because of the entrance of several “gansta wears” wearing GENTLEMEN, and I do say GENTLEMEN because that’s how they acted all night long, no matter what they were wearing, then you may want to GET A PUPPY FOR PROTECTION.
IN CLOSING TC123
I, HANDS ON/BIG D/PART OWNER OF DSS, DRESS IN “GANSTA WEAR” where ever I go, FOR ADULT ENTERTAINMENT, to enjoy myself and always “CHANGE THE VIBE” when I enter, because I am one that will make it happen and not one that is waiting for someone to make it happen for me, and never once was I accused of not being a GENTLEMEN. So please do not judge what a person is wearing as to who a person is, you never know, he may be a GENTLEMEN like a person in a tuxedo. And by the way, why would you want to get your tuxedo messed up while enjoying some HANDS ON ADULT ENTERTAINMENT.
Please note that the view expressed is the preceding comments are those of BIG D and not of anyone else.
AND AS MY MAN GOLDBERG WOULD SAY...TRUTH--"YOUR NEXT"
All in all a nice time. Still, about 1:00 am, the vibe changed a bit.
*****“Hands on” reply--How did the vibe “change a bit”. Did it change for the better or for the worst? I think it changed for the better because the guys that entered were guys that were there to spend lots of money, but you wouldn’t know that because you left.
I know the ASSC dress code says "No gangsta/thug wear" but I'm not sure if it's the same policy at DSS.
*****”Hands on” reply—I’m trying to understand what exactly is “gansta/thug wear” and what exactly does it matter “what kind of wear” a person is wearing just as long as he has pockets, on what he/she is wearing, to hold the money he may need to enjoy himself.
Anyway, a bunch of guys came in who, shall we say, were not too concerned about that.
*****”Hands on” reply—let’s just say they did not have any concern of the “wear”, what concern would you have on what another GUY is wearing when he goes out to enjoy himself. I would not what to believe that you are checking out the ladies and the fellas (hmmm, let’s take a moment and think about that).
I'm sure it was no big deal, but I felt the vibe changing a bit, and I listened to my instincts and left.
*****”Hands on” reply—obviously it was a BIG DAEL to you or you wouldn’t be commenting about it on this forum. Well, I was there before you came and after you left and if you would of stayed you would of seen that the vibe changed from a small group of guys standing and sitting around waiting for things to happen to a larger group of guys actually coming in and actually making it happen. I’m sure you know the saying “SOME PEOPLE MAKE IT HAPPEN WHILE OTHERS WAIT FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN FOR THEM. Which one would you be?
*****I’m not sure but I have to ask. Are there any racial overtones in your comments of “gansta wear” or in the “changing of the vibe” comments? If so then let me address that. At DSS there is not such thing as “black or white” or “gansta or tuxedo”, but there is such thing as GENTLEMEN, no matter how they are dressed, cumming in and having a good time in a clean and comfortable environment that management has tried their best to make it that way. If you are concerned with what another person or persons is wearing then clearly you are not there for what everyone else is there for, and that is “HANDS ON” adult entertainment. At DSS the management has taken several steps to secure everyone’s safety just like the management of your big mainstream clubs. And if you are nervous because of the entrance of several “gansta wears” wearing GENTLEMEN, and I do say GENTLEMEN because that’s how they acted all night long, no matter what they were wearing, then you may want to GET A PUPPY FOR PROTECTION.
IN CLOSING TC123
I, HANDS ON/BIG D/PART OWNER OF DSS, DRESS IN “GANSTA WEAR” where ever I go, FOR ADULT ENTERTAINMENT, to enjoy myself and always “CHANGE THE VIBE” when I enter, because I am one that will make it happen and not one that is waiting for someone to make it happen for me, and never once was I accused of not being a GENTLEMEN. So please do not judge what a person is wearing as to who a person is, you never know, he may be a GENTLEMEN like a person in a tuxedo. And by the way, why would you want to get your tuxedo messed up while enjoying some HANDS ON ADULT ENTERTAINMENT.
Please note that the view expressed is the preceding comments are those of BIG D and not of anyone else.
AND AS MY MAN GOLDBERG WOULD SAY...TRUTH--"YOUR NEXT"
I think you read WAY too much into my post. WAY too much.
First of all, I agree with you that all the guys were GENTLEMEN just there to have a good time, and never said any different. Second, I also agree that you and the rest of the management keeps everything cool and makes sure everyone has a good time.
The reason I said what I said was this: When DSS opened, JVJ gave a dress code, so the place would not attract too much attention from law enforcement. Same rules at ASSC. It said something about business casual, etc, because of the type of building it is and it's location. When I see people going against that, i wonder if it is attracting attention and is about to get busted. I'm not saying it will, but if I have that instinct, my enjoyment for the evening is over and I'm gone.
I read my last post over and I could see why you'd think there might be racial overtones. For that, I'm sorry. It's partially the way I worded it. It's partially because you don't know me. If you did, you'd know that there weren't. And you would know I don't judge a person by what they wear, so you're preaching to the choir. And you would know that I'm personally fine with anything people wear at say, 243, because that's just what people normally do there, unlike DSS, for the reason above. And you would know that I'm also one of the ones there that "makes things happen". But hopefully you'll re-read my post too and see you assumed a lot that simply wasn't there.
Like saying people would or wouldn't act a certain way based on clothing.
Like saying people would or wouldn't spend money based on clothing.
Like saying anything was race-based.
I don't think that way. Believe me or not, take me at my word or don't, it's up to you. Hopefully, my next time there, we'll have a drink together and smooth things over.
I'm not sure who your man Goldberg is, but offer him the puppy, I don't need one.
Peace.
TC