Des,
Sorry I came off so hard on the "nice jewish boy" thing, but all my life I have heard it, and it is the farthest from the truth for me.. for him obviously, nice jewish boy translates to an absolute asshole... using big words and asking you if you understand? "fuck you asshole.. what I understand is that you think you are better than everyone, which actually means that you are the same as all the other Aholes, ..sorry.. got sidetracked".. I hate him already, and am surprised that you would not pick up on him being a douche..but you are just getting back in the game... go slow.. my mother always told growing up, jewish boys do not do kung fu, they do not play ice hockey, and you get it...what she meant was moms want their boys safe.. but her pushing me one way, just made me go the other... and I am glad you realized that by italian you meant a blue collar "i had to work for this" attitude, and not some antiquated "woman service me" ideal which always leads to problems, unless the woman feels that she is less than equal to her man, and then its a perfect relationship, master/slave....
Anyway, what I meant to say was, good for you, this thread is the best reading I have done in years, and I get to participate ...amazing.. and its a personal journey and one that I think we can all predict the outcome.... but it by no way diminishes the excitement we feel for you, as you search to find the right path...
Sorry I came off so hard on the "nice jewish boy" thing, but all my life I have heard it, and it is the farthest from the truth for me.. for him obviously, nice jewish boy translates to an absolute asshole... using big words and asking you if you understand? "fuck you asshole.. what I understand is that you think you are better than everyone, which actually means that you are the same as all the other Aholes, ..sorry.. got sidetracked".. I hate him already, and am surprised that you would not pick up on him being a douche..but you are just getting back in the game... go slow.. my mother always told growing up, jewish boys do not do kung fu, they do not play ice hockey, and you get it...what she meant was moms want their boys safe.. but her pushing me one way, just made me go the other... and I am glad you realized that by italian you meant a blue collar "i had to work for this" attitude, and not some antiquated "woman service me" ideal which always leads to problems, unless the woman feels that she is less than equal to her man, and then its a perfect relationship, master/slave....
Anyway, what I meant to say was, good for you, this thread is the best reading I have done in years, and I get to participate ...amazing.. and its a personal journey and one that I think we can all predict the outcome.... but it by no way diminishes the excitement we feel for you, as you search to find the right path...