Look, I'm not the one to give anyone advise. Suggestions, yes....but I don't want to interfere & be responsible. With that said, my suggestion is stay away from NP4P situations. They can be dangerous especially to a married man. You're young, recently married. If you want (or need) to experience "strange"....pay for it. Don't get attached, just get laid. Additionally, keep your activity to yourself (in real life) don't share it w/ your buddies. And be careful and protect yourself sexually, never go for uncovered FS. Read through the many threads and do your homework to minimize or prevent bad experiences.