So I met this guy off of a popular dating site and yes it is one that is advertised on television. We went on about five dates. He has a great personality and a gorgeous smile. We seemed to click and shared many common interests. Then we decided to take it to another level and sleep together. Of course I blew his mind--not knowing that I am pretty well-seasoned lol! BUT I did not feel the magic or the sparks. No bells and whistles went off for me. So this leads me to a few questions from the UG guys and gals.
1. I feel that I should be honest and just tell him that the bedroom was not hot and steamy and I did not feel anything? It is better to be honest and not waste anyone's time? What do you think?
2. At my age (thirty- something still) should the sex not count as much since we click on other levels?
3. Am I expecting too much because I am well-seasoned and I want a healthy relationship both in and out of the bedroom? Maybe I have more expectations than the normal vanilla gal?
4. Should I contact Doctor Phil?
1. I feel that I should be honest and just tell him that the bedroom was not hot and steamy and I did not feel anything? It is better to be honest and not waste anyone's time? What do you think?
2. At my age (thirty- something still) should the sex not count as much since we click on other levels?
3. Am I expecting too much because I am well-seasoned and I want a healthy relationship both in and out of the bedroom? Maybe I have more expectations than the normal vanilla gal?
4. Should I contact Doctor Phil?