What's up with Guyanese women?

#22
Neither, my advice is to start drinking, take a trip to Europe or simply click on the "Classifieds" link and book a session with a provider who will make you feel good for an hour. Seriously though, you need perspective. A good woman does not make you feel shitty or frustrated, nor should you waste time trying to think around the obstacles that she creates.
I hear ya, I just wanted to know if this chick acting like a nasty bitch is an isolated case, or if it is common among this race of women. I am learning that it is the later.
 
#23
Other day she sends me a text "You think you could give me a hand, I have a problem and everyone is turning there back on me"

I respond by saying "How big off a hand"

She responses "I hope your daughter or mother one day has to ask someone for a hand and they get the same answer"

I am really over taken by that response. Did I say something wrong? How could she bring in my family. In my book family is off limits, even in the most heated of arguments.
No intention to justify her, but there is a possibility that she may have misunderstood your response. She may have thought that you insulted her in a moment of need and her pride got stronger than her need.

She sounds like fun to me (probably because I am not the one who's meeting her).
 
#26
Here's how these posts work. The poster most likely already knows that he wants to continue dealing with this emotionally disturbed woman (which would not speak well of his decision making abilities). Now 97 out of 100 responses will advise him to drop this like a radioactive snapper turtle. The poster will instead concentrate on the three posters that advise him to try to understand her or otherwise encourage this downward spiral.
 
#27
Here's how these posts work. The poster most likely already knows that he wants to continue dealing with this emotionally disturbed woman (which would not speak well of his decision making abilities). Now 97 out of 100 responses will advise him to drop this like a radioactive snapper turtle. The poster will instead concentrate on the three posters that advise him to try to understand her or otherwise encourage this downward spiral.
That's assuming the stories are true to begin with.
 
#28
No intention to justify her, but there is a possibility that she may have misunderstood your response. She may have thought that you insulted her in a moment of need and her pride got stronger than her need.

She sounds like fun to me (probably because I am not the one who's meeting her).
Marc my long lost buddy, as always you have chimed in with words of wisdom!

I thought the same thing, maybe she felt really insulted by me, then I realized she is just a nasty bitch. That's why I went to UG with the question.

Sexual_Tyrannosaurus, who knows the culture well, verified what I thought was true. I spoke to two other guys, who told me they are nasty women. Act nice when they want something, nasty if they don't get it.

I never fucked away, so she leaves me a nasty massage, telling me how I should stop jerking off to her. WTF, how to you come off speaking to someone you barely know, and treated you very nice, a message like that?

Then when I speak to her she ask sweet. I don't question the voice mails at this point, as I do not want to start a fight. I am suppose to see her tomorrow, will see how it goes.
 
#31
IF YOU CAN NOT ACT LIKE AN ADULT GO AWAY, AND STAY AWAY FROM MY THREADS
Wow, you're touchy. There was nothing immature about my post. Too bad you can't say the same thing about your response. The lady doth protest too much, methinks.


I was speaking in general terms about some people who posts these types of threads, as was Puffin who I was responding to. However, if the shoe fits, feel free to wear it.


Given your track record, you're the last person who should be instructing others about being mature.
 
#34
Any girl that tells you to go jerk off really wants to "meat" you again. Give her some Salami!!!! There is a great Guyanese deli right on Jamaica Ave, in Richmond hill, You can pick up a perfectly sized one there...
 
#35
I recently met a Guyanese girl on CL . She responded to my ad in the msw section.

We email for a few days, picked it up a notch to text messages, graduated to phone conversations. We traded pics and she looked good, so I setup a first meeting in Starbucks. She looks great, says she is 32, but looks early 20's.

Took her out a few times, we seem to be getting along. Last date before she left my car we made out for a good while.

Other day she sends me a text "You think you could give me a hand, I have a problem and everyone is turning there back on me"

I respond by saying "How big off a hand"

She responses "I hope your daughter or mother one day has to ask someone for a hand and they get the same answer"

I am really over taken by that response. Did I say something wrong? How could she bring in my family. In my book family is off limits, even in the most heated of arguments.

A week has gone by, last night she sends me a text "Hey you"

I send her a text back "how you been" She responds "Fuck you how dare you ask me."

I send her a text "call me, there is some kind of misunderstanding between us."

She responds "go jerk yourself off" Your not using my voice to jerk off to"

She sent me other texts with nasty remarks, hitting way below the belt. I stopped answering her.

Today she sends me a text, "if you want to hang out, give me a call.

I talked to a few guys who have dealt with Guyanese women, they were not surprised.

Any insight into this situation is much appreciated.
She sounds like an escort who wants to get past the meet and greet phase and finally wants to get down to the play for pay phase, but doesn’t want to quote hourly rates but wants to go on pretending that she is your girl friend.
 
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#36
She sounds like an escort who wants to get past the meet and greet phase and finally wants to get down to the play for pay phase, but doesn’t want to quote hourly rates but wants to go on pretending that she is your girl friend.
Good point - but, an escort has no problem demanding money!!! Thinking about it... Neither does any other girl I been with, after I turned the magic age of 30.

CL has many women who make a living off the msw section.

She never never told me how big of hand (money) she is looking for. If she was acting nice, and it was a low number, it would be ok. I have a feeling it is in the five fiquires.
 
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#37
Nasty Voice mails

She called twice this weekend, and I did not pick up. Here voice mails were nasty. Telling my to pick up the phone and stop Jerking off. I should go fuck myself, she is not some bitch I could do what ever I want with.

Amusing.
 
#38
Good point - but, an escort has no problem demanding money!!! Thinking about it... Neither does any other girl I been with, after I turned the magic age of 30.

CL has many women who make a living off the msw section.

She never never told me how big of hand (money) she is looking for. If she was acting nice, and it was a low number, it would be ok. I have a feeling it is in the five fiquires.
Above, with the Salami, I was joking......but this is straight up.

I have personally met girls that want to sell their cooch, and forget being honest about it to a potential buyer, aren't even honest about it to themselves.

I have met a girl a club, that had a few drinks, blew me in the car, and then asked to borrow a few dollars. Non-pro, fallen on hard times? Most likely, as any pro would want cash up front (unless they really knew and trusted you).

Also met a girl, at a small local bar, was introduced by a mutual friend, and ended up back at my apartment, both sorta drunk. (This is obviously before I was married) We fooled around to the extent of heavy kissing and grouping, but when i hauled out junior, and started navigating her mouth towards my stiffie, she asked me "What's it worth to you?" I was floored and upset. I have nothing against paying for it (or I don't think I would be here), but I was taken by surprise.

I offered to just take her home, with a rather snide comment along the lines of "If I am paying you, I want a lot more then head." I think she felt really bad, and serviced junior quite well, before I took her home.

Next morning, i called to see how she how was, being the non-judgmental type of guy I am (she also sucked a mean dick, I think that also was why I called). She tearfully thanked me for calling, thinking I never would. She explained that she had dabbled as a sex worker in the past, but was no pro. I ended up dating her for a few months, and WOW, did she have an oral fetish...this girl would suck me on and off all night, and got more pops out of me then I thought possible, all as a girlfriend, NP4P, except the cost to take her out to dinner and a few drinks (like we all pay). It actually took some work to finally get some pussy, but i did. We double dated, and i found out she snuck out with her best friend's BF, and blew him (told you she had a fetish). Well, I kept junior in check for her, and expected the same, and her friend wasn't too happy either, so i dumped her and dated two of her friends.
 
#39
Good point - but, an escort has no problem demanding money!!! Thinking about it... Neither does any other girl I been with, after I turned the magic age of 30.

CL has many women who make a living off the msw section.

She never never told me how big of hand (money) she is looking for. If she was acting nice, and it was a low number, it would be ok. I have a feeling it is in the five fiquires.
She doesn't know if your a cop or not, so she's afraid to directly relate money to your continuing relationship with her. You should have asked her how much money she needs. If she quotes or settles for a figure of about $200 or $300, how would you feel about that?
 
#40
Here's how these posts work. The poster most likely already knows that he wants to continue dealing with this emotionally disturbed woman (which would not speak well of his decision making abilities). Now 97 out of 100 responses will advise him to drop this like a radioactive snapper turtle. The poster will instead concentrate on the three posters that advise him to try to understand her or otherwise encourage this downward spiral.
I dont think he's interested in 'understanding' her much beyond knowing what personality type he's dealing with. I think he just wants to get laid.
 
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