What is fat & who is fat?
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I realized when I gained weight (which wasn't alot in general but because I was so small to begin with it was alot) that my sex drive diminished like 75% some was mental because I didn't feel attractive but mostly I believe was something physical like maybe fat was surpressing some nerves that control sex drive(just my opinion still doing research on it). But it definitely made me more lazy were I had no energy & I did just want to lay on my back. But the more I dropped the weight, I jumped right back into my energetic self & my sex drive came back better then ever. However I always cared about how I smelled but that's me, everyone is different.
My weight tends to vary within about a ten lb. range, and I definitely feel much sexier and therefore sexual when I'm on the thinner end of the spectrum. It's ALL about self confidence! I'm certain people notice when I'm feeling good about how I look, and that in turn makes me look better to them.
Anyway, weight is such a funny subject because everyone carries it so differently. There's the build factor, the muscle tone factor, height, ethnicity, etc. I've met other women my exact weight who look like pigs and others who look completely svelte. Personally, I think the hottest women are simply the ones who look like they care about themselves and put some effort into it, despite whatever size they are.
Anyway, weight is such a funny subject because everyone carries it so differently. There's the build factor, the muscle tone factor, height, ethnicity, etc. I've met other women my exact weight who look like pigs and others who look completely svelte. Personally, I think the hottest women are simply the ones who look like they care about themselves and put some effort into it, despite whatever size they are.
I don't understand how very skinny girls function. I lost alot of weight a few years back and I was so weak. To maintain the low weight I basically had to starve (eventually my body rejected food). I want to be skinny again but I also need to be able to climb my stairs, clean litter boxes and basically do everyday chores. I was so weak at just 10 pounds more than the weight Eddie claims is his favorite I ended up in the hospital malnourished with a bleeding ulcer. My neighbors and local store workers were asking if I was sick and is there anything they can do to help. It just might not be possible for most woman to successfully maintain a waif body and we have to just deal with the gene's our parents gave us.