differences again...
I guess there is big difference in working for someone and working for one self.
Working for someone, means you HAVE to attend ANY and as MANY clients your boss wants. Which could explain lots of things said up there.
Now, working for one self is another game...you make your own rules, choose your clientele, you have time to chat, e-mail, exchange pics and "feel" each other out before an actual meeting. Is more personal and you can offer more than a simple FS, BBBJTC or greek.
To me, the word "provider" has a more broader meaning than a plain fuck.
Every man has a different need and not all guys are into the "hobby", jumping from one girl to another.
Like any business, if you don't satisfy and please your client, he will NOT come back and, of course, he will look for someone else.
Providing exactly what your client is looking for means he will come back for more....
And, in my particular case, I never ask for tips, gifts or anything else.
It's very nice when I guy brings me candy, flowers or a little bear. But if he doesn't I will treat him the same. Not everyone can afford all these extras.
Peace out!!!