Thanks for all the feedback. Even those that tried to chide me. For doing so , you made me realize that my own deceptions occasionally are at the root of my own undoing.
Happy Hooker stated:
Daniel, no offense, but how can you expect honor among johns? Especially johns that have never even met each other??????
This is a dog eat dog world. It's every dog for themselves.
Of course you are spot on. I do not really know these people.
Sexy Whore wrote:
So what is it exactly that you're complaining about? the fact that you're utr whores wised up to your taking advantage of them by keeping them for hours and paying them streetwalkers donations or the fact that you were exposed for being a bottom bitch john.
Sure, quilty as charged. I have kept company and paid them what some would consider undermarket for their time and services. But at the time it was an arrangement willing entered into by both parties. If you were buying an antique that you knew was quite rare and valuable and you offerred the proprietor much less than its value, would you feel bad about it? He made money and you got a good deal. But you can't discount the times I contributed greatly towards their rent without any reciprocation. As far as being exposed as a bottom bitch John, I think you have me confused with someone else.
h. von bingin wrote:
i'm not sure what danielnyc's gripe is:
a) is his gripe that girls stop seeing him after awhile or
b) is his gripe that a poster here would not give him a working girl's ***** address?
if it's a, well maybe he should pay market value (and isn't).
if it's b, is every poster obligated to turn over ***** information?
Actually I have not had any provider refuse to see me, in fact as prices have increased, they have never raised my rate. But occasionally they get turned off to this "thing of ours" after meeting one too many inconsiderate johns
Secondly the e - mail addy was not of a provider, but of a rather astute female contributor. I respect that persons wishes for not wishing to engage in backchannelling for he is one of the good guys and I do trust him.
Popeye, Eliot, thanks for tour input.
I posted this this morning, not because all these things happenned last week, rather they have been building up over time.
When I sent that e - mail requesting that info, and found out that it was happennig to another poster I respect, well I got angry.
It is nice to have this "sounding board" to bounce ideas and thoughts around, then again I am entitled to a jury of my peers.