You Got Some Big Ones-Daniel
Daniel-
First off, it took a great deal of courage to be upfront and personal regarding your feelings about this issue. I think more folks around here should be so open and honest. I encourage you to keep it up.
What you described in your various scenes or troubles, is at times unforunately somewhat typical. I agree a great deal with what Pop had posted. As always, he hit the nail directly on the head.
Throughout my many years in this hobby, you discover who can and who cannot be trusted. At times, you learn through trial and error. It has happened to most of us. Unfortunately, Johns exist on this Board, just like on others, that take advantage of straightforward guys such as you. They use the information, connections, etc. for their own good, and could not care a damn about people such as you. However, a wide array of Johns exist on this Board, and others, that are willing to share information, and do it in a manner that is positve for all of us. And I include the providers in this mix.
My suggestion-keep on going in the direction that your heart takes you in. I have always really enjoyed reading your reviews, and have found your sharing of information to be very positive.
As for the Craigs List prices, they are what they are. If a lady chooses to ask for a rate of $150 for 2 or so hours, that is pretty much up to her. She may want a very limited clientle. This is a free market the last time that I checked it out.