I have been taking care of some personal matters which accounts for my non-participation. Those matters continue but the topic has evoked enough inspiration to respond.
We all are born with individual talents or powers or lack thereof. Some call it genetics. That is as good a term as any to try and explain, in this case, ones' sexual strengths and weaknesses.
I was born a true-blue American with a healthy dose of sex hormones that hijacked my brain in my youth to spending most of my time whacking-off and wondering why it just won't give me any peace. But, being young and strong, I could beat the hell out of it, 5 or 6 times and still go to the ball park and whack out a few homeruns, play football, track, hockey. In fact, the sports were the only thing that kept my mind off my dick.
Growing out of my teens, I felt a physical weakness and sexual weakness and losing a quick 100 pounds contributed to that. At that time I gravitated to Oriental diet, herbalism and philosophy. My real sexual strength returned and has been the same ever since.
I don't need Viagra, Cialis, Levitra or the like. In fact, I don't really needs herbs for sexual strength but I use them for some sports injuries which have the side-effects of warming the sex drive.
I enjoy sex as much as the next monger, but study has taught me that to constantly lose semen when one is past his youth, and I am in my low 60's, is not the best way to be strong in the real "senior years." (damned ugly term)
So, I manage and keep my sex drive on a low steady keel, checking every morning and sometimes throughout the day for the ability to spontaneously erect. I am able to go have a good time for as long as I like and enjoy the senorita cum apart and ooze out her femininity for as much as she likes without quitting on her. P.T. Barnum was possibly wrong because as far as I know, that is "THE GREATEST SHOW ON EARTH."
If I do take a strong herb, that could backfire on me and create strong spermatogenesis, the build-up of massive amounts of semen. And then, I am forced to start opening up the valve and releasing in my sessions or by myself. But, in favor of certain herbs, they definitely can cause increased girth and engorging in the tissues of the penis and also increase the strength and aggression of the male's charges and vigor while engaged in copulation. Downside is that that massive flooding of semen into the sexual organs also engorges the prostate which could aggravate the system if one is prone to those types of problems.
But, my goal is to never lose sexual ability, by constant monitoring, a variety of meditation practices, plenty of grain and bean gruels, not much sweets or alcohol and quite careful of any drugs legal or illegal and even weary of herbal supplement tablets which ONLY GOD KNOWS what factories in China throw into those. And, its not a racist statement, because even my Chinese friends trust them not.
My acclimation to sex differs from most of you guys only in the sense that my orgasm is not the goal of the sex act. The joy of sex for me is rather the sexual voltage that is released from the meeting of male/female during the session and that pleasantness lingers sometimes for days.
One of my great teachers, actually my guru, once posed a hypothesis to his students, "If the release of semen through orgasm is so exciting, imagine what it would be like, if that energy was released and transmuted within your own system to enjoy."