Sex and Aging - old fuckers fucking

SUPAMAN

Not here for the bear hunting
#22
I am between 55 and 60 as well. First thing to note is I have not mongered in anyway for a year due to Corona. I would say 6-7-8 years ago I started to take Viagra. That definitely helps with the erections. For the most part I will visit a regular at a SC, will visit an AMP once or twice a month, X-dreams every once in a while. With these adventures it is a one and done event. However - when I travel on business I always try to make time to see a higher end girl for an hour or two. Anything more than an hour I think they assume you want more than one pop. I usually like to hang out before hand and drink wine and talk as I enjoy their company. I should mention most of these girls are regulars for me. I should also mention that I have extremely rarely tried for #2. I remember one of my ATFs after round one started a fantastic bbbj. She would not stop and was extremely talented. to my surprise - pop #2 occurred. She smiled ... looked up at me and said "I knew I would get it." I can't remember but that may be the only time I had 2 pops. I usually don't try for a second round. Maybe I should!

I think my regulars enjoy my company and some at minimum don't mind the sex. I think most at least somewhat enjoy it as I make it a point to DATY at the start. My regular in Chicago likes to show me how to do it so I know she is liking it. The regulars never over do it with the response either. I prefer that. I hate the fake BS. I think that most of these girls appreciate being treated nicely and like me taking time to get to know them. You would never catch me walking in and instantly dropping trou and starting the sex. If you are paying $400 an hour or $700- $800 for 1.5 to 2 hours ... these girls are figuring some chat time and drink time. I would say most of the time I go WAAAY over the time we had agreed upon. However ... the sex time was definitely less than the time paid for ... so if I paid for 90 minutes the girl may have spent 3 hours with me but we only has sex for like 40 minutes. And I actually prefer that.

I am a fairly attractive guy but I could lose some weight. I think the regulars do enjoy my company because I am a gentleman and I would like to think I am fun to be with. I think they don't mind the sex and maybe even enjoy it. You have to figure the average monger is a douchebag. If they see me they are seeing a kind gentleman who will treat them nice. To them that's a nice way to spend the evening and is much better than their typical experience.

When I was younger I would pop too soon .... then it took longer and longer and now I am taking ED meds and lasting a long time and every once in a while not able to pop at all. This usually happens at an AMP with a not very attractive AMP girl is jack hammering me.
I'm in the same age bracket as you, when I was 48 my boozing habit was over the top and I had been a alcoholic since 15. My habit at 48 was a bottle of Jameson and 30 pints 2 to 3 nights a week usually on the Nautical Mile where I had a boat docked. That year after a rough evening of booze and dope I went into full blown heart failure. I was hospitalized 2 weeks with an ejection fraction of less then 25% and was being prepped psychologically by cardiologist to have a defibrillator implant. I was released with a life jacket style defibrillator that I returned after 1 week despite warnings telling.my doctor I would never put one on again like Quinn in Jaws. I went cold turkey from booze but kept on smoking dope, no 12 step. I was type 2 diabetic and tipped the scale at 400 lbs. During this time I was having no erection issues whatsoever, between visiting the amp and a much younger married woman I was having an affair with I was very sexually active. At around 55 after having lost 150 lbs and recovered from heart failure, ejection.fraction 75%, exercising regularly, eating right and still sober but using herb my dick is starting to get soft at all the wrong times. Now in late fifties, much healthier than I was in my 40s , 150 lbs lighter, much better breathing, normal blood pressure, feeling better but my dick is starting to fail me, go figure. Viagra time.......
 
#23
I am between 55 and 60 as well. First thing to note is I have not mongered in anyway for a year due to Corona. I would say 6-7-8 years ago I started to take Viagra. That definitely helps with the erections. For the most part I will visit a regular at a SC, will visit an AMP once or twice a month, X-dreams every once in a while. With these adventures it is a one and done event. However - when I travel on business I always try to make time to see a higher end girl for an hour or two. Anything more than an hour I think they assume you want more than one pop. I usually like to hang out before hand and drink wine and talk as I enjoy their company. I should mention most of these girls are regulars for me. I should also mention that I have extremely rarely tried for #2. I remember one of my ATFs after round one started a fantastic bbbj. She would not stop and was extremely talented. to my surprise - pop #2 occurred. She smiled ... looked up at me and said "I knew I would get it." I can't remember but that may be the only time I had 2 pops. I usually don't try for a second round. Maybe I should!

I think my regulars enjoy my company and some at minimum don't mind the sex. I think most at least somewhat enjoy it as I make it a point to DATY at the start. My regular in Chicago likes to show me how to do it so I know she is liking it. The regulars never over do it with the response either. I prefer that. I hate the fake BS. I think that most of these girls appreciate being treated nicely and like me taking time to get to know them. You would never catch me walking in and instantly dropping trou and starting the sex. If you are paying $400 an hour or $700- $800 for 1.5 to 2 hours ... these girls are figuring some chat time and drink time. I would say most of the time I go WAAAY over the time we had agreed upon. However ... the sex time was definitely less than the time paid for ... so if I paid for 90 minutes the girl may have spent 3 hours with me but we only has sex for like 40 minutes. And I actually prefer that.

I am a fairly attractive guy but I could lose some weight. I think the regulars do enjoy my company because I am a gentleman and I would like to think I am fun to be with. I think they don't mind the sex and maybe even enjoy it. You have to figure the average monger is a douchebag. If they see me they are seeing a kind gentleman who will treat them nice. To them that's a nice way to spend the evening and is much better than their typical experience.

When I was younger I would pop too soon .... then it took longer and longer and now I am taking ED meds and lasting a long time and every once in a while not able to pop at all. This usually happens at an AMP with a not very attractive AMP girl is jack hammering me.
enjoyed reading your post and with the exception of the blue pill, I could have penned your exact words...
 

pokler

Power Bottom
#26
I am between 55 and 60 as well. First thing to note is I have not mongered in anyway for a year due to Corona. I would say 6-7-8 years ago I started to take Viagra. That definitely helps with the erections. For the most part I will visit a regular at a SC, will visit an AMP once or twice a month, X-dreams every once in a while. With these adventures it is a one and done event. However - when I travel on business I always try to make time to see a higher end girl for an hour or two. Anything more than an hour I think they assume you want more than one pop. I usually like to hang out before hand and drink wine and talk as I enjoy their company. I should mention most of these girls are regulars for me. I should also mention that I have extremely rarely tried for #2. I remember one of my ATFs after round one started a fantastic bbbj. She would not stop and was extremely talented. to my surprise - pop #2 occurred. She smiled ... looked up at me and said "I knew I would get it." I can't remember but that may be the only time I had 2 pops. I usually don't try for a second round. Maybe I should!

I think my regulars enjoy my company and some at minimum don't mind the sex. I think most at least somewhat enjoy it as I make it a point to DATY at the start. My regular in Chicago likes to show me how to do it so I know she is liking it. The regulars never over do it with the response either. I prefer that. I hate the fake BS. I think that most of these girls appreciate being treated nicely and like me taking time to get to know them. You would never catch me walking in and instantly dropping trou and starting the sex. If you are paying $400 an hour or $700- $800 for 1.5 to 2 hours ... these girls are figuring some chat time and drink time. I would say most of the time I go WAAAY over the time we had agreed upon. However ... the sex time was definitely less than the time paid for ... so if I paid for 90 minutes the girl may have spent 3 hours with me but we only has sex for like 40 minutes. And I actually prefer that.

I am a fairly attractive guy but I could lose some weight. I think the regulars do enjoy my company because I am a gentleman and I would like to think I am fun to be with. I think they don't mind the sex and maybe even enjoy it. You have to figure the average monger is a douchebag. If they see me they are seeing a kind gentleman who will treat them nice. To them that's a nice way to spend the evening and is much better than their typical experience.

When I was younger I would pop too soon .... then it took longer and longer and now I am taking ED meds and lasting a long time and every once in a while not able to pop at all. This usually happens at an AMP with a not very attractive AMP girl is jack hammering me.
Im paying $400-500 but that's for four hours. SA girls.
 
#27
@billyS
Hmmm.. “old age fucking” ?

Maybe we could have come up with something a little kinder and gentler :)

really hits below the belt ya know..I do feel like I am about 35? ( all in mind only)
Agreed — even Older aged fucking is a little easier on the ego of those of us in a higher middle age bracket.

BTW — the expression "really hits below the belt" is rather apropos.
 
#28
@billyS
Hmmm.. “old age fucking” ?

Maybe we could have come up with something a little kinder and gentler :)

really hits below the belt ya know..I do feel like I am about 35? ( all in mind only)
Maybe "Sex and Aging"?

My best friend and fellow monger is my age. And we lament how things have changed as we age. In our 20's a strong wind could make us hard and we could have sex for hours. Sex or the possibility of sex with any girl would beat any other activity. Now a days, there are times when a nap sounds almost as good. :)
 
#30
Okay, sounds good.
The original title was based on a comment made by @OSMonger which led me to make this a separate thread.
I also moved it to a more appropriate forum.
Sure sure, make me the bad guy!!! I’m not old but not young, but I had period of ultra high stress a decade ago which fucked with my hard on. Had to use the pill. Once I got through it I actually enjoyed using the pill if I new I was going to monger a lot over a short trip with my friends. Thankfully a stiff wind still gets me hard. Although I know I’d be wealthier and have more time for hobbies if my dick calmed down a bit!
 
#31
Sure sure, make me the bad guy!!! I’m not old but not young, but I had period of ultra high stress a decade ago which fucked with my hard on. Had to use the pill. Once I got through it I actually enjoyed using the pill if I new I was going to monger a lot over a short trip with my friends. Thankfully a stiff wind still gets me hard. Although I know I’d be wealthier and have more time for hobbies if my dick calmed down a bit!
When you get to LV have a few extra blues available.. That list I shared ( LV 411 thread).. You may need them.
 
#32
Forget performance for a second—

Thinking back to my extracurricular activities of a generation ago, I find myself much more preoccupied with my activities today then back then.
Disposable income the same, free time the same.
 
#33
Maybe "Sex and Aging"?

My best friend and fellow monger is my age. And we lament how things have changed as we age. In our 20's a strong wind could make us hard and we could have sex for hours. Sex or the possibility of sex with any girl would beat any other activity. Now a days, there are times when a nap sounds almost as good. :)
So are you saying that you actually mean it literally when you see sexy woman and say to your best friend "I'd really like to sleep with her"?
 
#34
Will be 72 this month. No problem getting it up, just in getting it off. I have always been a a little slow to cum, tho in my youth that didn't prevent 3+ in a night. Now I will get and stay hard as a rock and take forever to cum (good for her, pain in the back for me). And will recover fast and will not necessarily get off the 2nd time. Helps if at a swing club/gang bang as otherwise with one partner they wear out.
 
#35
I’m just north of 60. Mongering 6 years after divorce. An attractive woman keeps me hard but I have trouble finishing too. I’m in good health. HJ or FS or BJ. She has to be skilled and work at it. Lazy or inattentive doesn’t work for me.
latinas with hot body are my fave since mature man are more accepted. Amps great if in need of real massage. Alcohol slows me down now. Blue pill helps. I live in
Suffolk places mostly misses but I guess that’s true everywhere. Had a couple of trusty regulars over the years but even they disappear.
I have 46 year old woman living in Colombia waiting in the wings to come to NY. A beauty hoping to clear immigration and coronavirus restrictions this year. Anybody ever import?

we’ll see.

my two cents...
 
#36
I have been taking care of some personal matters which accounts for my non-participation. Those matters continue but the topic has evoked enough inspiration to respond.

We all are born with individual talents or powers or lack thereof. Some call it genetics. That is as good a term as any to try and explain, in this case, ones' sexual strengths and weaknesses.

I was born a true-blue American with a healthy dose of sex hormones that hijacked my brain in my youth to spending most of my time whacking-off and wondering why it just won't give me any peace. But, being young and strong, I could beat the hell out of it, 5 or 6 times and still go to the ball park and whack out a few homeruns, play football, track, hockey. In fact, the sports were the only thing that kept my mind off my dick.

Growing out of my teens, I felt a physical weakness and sexual weakness and losing a quick 100 pounds contributed to that. At that time I gravitated to Oriental diet, herbalism and philosophy. My real sexual strength returned and has been the same ever since.

I don't need Viagra, Cialis, Levitra or the like. In fact, I don't really needs herbs for sexual strength but I use them for some sports injuries which have the side-effects of warming the sex drive.

I enjoy sex as much as the next monger, but study has taught me that to constantly lose semen when one is past his youth, and I am in my low 60's, is not the best way to be strong in the real "senior years." (damned ugly term)

So, I manage and keep my sex drive on a low steady keel, checking every morning and sometimes throughout the day for the ability to spontaneously erect. I am able to go have a good time for as long as I like and enjoy the senorita cum apart and ooze out her femininity for as much as she likes without quitting on her. P.T. Barnum was possibly wrong because as far as I know, that is "THE GREATEST SHOW ON EARTH."

If I do take a strong herb, that could backfire on me and create strong spermatogenesis, the build-up of massive amounts of semen. And then, I am forced to start opening up the valve and releasing in my sessions or by myself. But, in favor of certain herbs, they definitely can cause increased girth and engorging in the tissues of the penis and also increase the strength and aggression of the male's charges and vigor while engaged in copulation. Downside is that that massive flooding of semen into the sexual organs also engorges the prostate which could aggravate the system if one is prone to those types of problems.

But, my goal is to never lose sexual ability, by constant monitoring, a variety of meditation practices, plenty of grain and bean gruels, not much sweets or alcohol and quite careful of any drugs legal or illegal and even weary of herbal supplement tablets which ONLY GOD KNOWS what factories in China throw into those. And, its not a racist statement, because even my Chinese friends trust them not.

My acclimation to sex differs from most of you guys only in the sense that my orgasm is not the goal of the sex act. The joy of sex for me is rather the sexual voltage that is released from the meeting of male/female during the session and that pleasantness lingers sometimes for days.

One of my great teachers, actually my guru, once posed a hypothesis to his students, "If the release of semen through orgasm is so exciting, imagine what it would be like, if that energy was released and transmuted within your own system to enjoy."
 
#37
Sorry to hear about your experience. Just a word of advice: if you haven't changed what led up to clogged arteries , it is just a matter of time before it happens again.

A really good book (actually a series) is How Not to Die by Michael Greger, MD. More than about heart disease. He also as good pod casts and videos (all free).
Thanks for the tip...knowing my family history my Doc(s) said to me 2 things..#1..It's in your family extensively, genetics has a big role to play..#2. You have to be real careful with what you put in your mouth...My cholesterol was always 170-175 range..My Doc wanted it under 120..So I became a vegetarian form the better part of the last 8 years...recently, I eat fish and the occasional poultry..I try and follow Dean Ornish's program which has been medically and scientifically shown to halt the progression of heart disease and if you're really strict has been shown to actually reverse the disease..1. Diet 2. Exercise 3. Social support system 4. Some form of meditation, or Yoga...you must do all 4 to have any meaningful results..
 
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