porn theaters and glory holes

Waterclone

Go ahead. Try me.
Are men considered Gay if they get their dick sucked by a man in a glory hole and dont know it? Are they gay if they liked it and kept doing it, knowing its a man but never recipricated?
Let me help you out here. First of all, "gay" is just a random label and it's pretty useless. It's like saying someone is black when you are trying to describe their skin color. There are countless shades of skin tone, and if someone's parent's are black but they are pale and can "pass" does that count? It's all bullshit labeling.

That said, for the purposes of using the label, if you absolutely have to for some reason, then Gay means you are attracted to men. Period. It's about who you want to kiss. When you see a good looking guy and you get a little hard thinking about being with him, then you might fall under that category. It has nothing to do with whether you like to get your dick sucked anonymously, or if you like girls to fuck you with a strap on, or even if you get off when a guy sucks your dick. It's more about who you think about when you fantasize.
 
WaterClone - Your logic was well put, I found it to be pretty deep and honest....Good Read
Like I stated, I wouldn't put my dick in GH covered or uncovered under any circumstances.....just my safety concerns.....It's probably a little too Neurotic....but better safe than sorry.....I did dig that gay explanation you gave...."gay" is such a broad stroke these days.....
 
I hit a place on Remington Blvd. in Ronkonkoma near Macarthur airport once called Heaven's Here about 2 years ago.
I was just looking for a place to get a booth and bust quietly, but if you are into the gloryhole scene this place is for you.

It was slow, so once I walked in the guy at the desk started hitting on me. I politely said I was interested in girls, and he said "I can be a girl..."
He was almost like a caricature of a gay man you see on TV. I have nothing against guys who like guys, but it was like I was suddenly being eyed like a Thanksgiving turkey.

I went against me instincts and bought a 'theater' ticket. The usual dark little hallway with about 8 single booth. I ducked into one to see a GH, then went into another to find one there too.
I watched the screen for about four minutes, hearing someone else enter and feeling like I was in a 'panic room' when they knocked on my door.
I said "no" and came out, but my path was almost blocked off from the manager's coworker, a sweaty big guy in his fifties that was massaging his groin. After I did something like a spin you would see during a football game I almost ran to the exit.

I think the idea that you would get a real woman on the other side of a GH is like the idea of discovering the Loch Ness monster.
It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia had an episode featuring a glory hole.

https://quipvid.com/watch/EjlLfp7T
 
Actually, I couldn't tell if your post was intended to be an insult or a joke.
yeah - that's a drawback with text posting; you can't tell from looking at the poster's facial expression and tone of voice whether or not he is serious or joking (can't even tell if it poster is he or she).
I was joking.
PS. I find posting insults a waste of time as I don't get any gratification in doing it and the person being insulted usually doesn't care.
 
I know this is old but figured id respond in case anybody else has the same question. I was having the same problem. I have a "partner in crime" that has the same appetite for freakiness that I do. I found a place across from a well known (in the south amboy area) motel with themed rooms and by a couple of clubs, that has a booth. My friend sat on my cock and I had a perfect view of her getting her mouth fucked through the gloryhole. Anytime you wanna meet up let me know!
Thanks Slinky for the nod. ill have to do some digging to see if i can glean the rational behind the rule ... i expect that will help keep it in line next time.

I agree that generally speaking glory holes are fronts for the gays and such... which makes this quest even more difficult. We'll probably find ourselves in some booth somewhere turned down by one gay guy after another. I think part of la cosa nostra is the recon and such... thats supposed to be fun and build the excitement and anticipation and all that... but to be honest... i feel a bit lazy about it.

to nine lives questions... i would think it nearly impossible to not know if it was a girl or a guy blowing you .... well lets revise that ... if the guy is a passable tranny or cross dresser then that's different... but if he was your ordinary looking guy or girl then you would see something that would make it apparent before hand... if your blown by a guy and you dont actually know it then i dont think that makes you gay. if you are blown by a guy and you didnt look through the hole and suspect its a guy and that doesnt turn you away then your most likely bi or on the spectrum somewhere. If you full on know its a guy... then yeah... your full on bi or gay... not that thers anything wrong with that... not my cup of tea personally ... but own it if thats your thing.
 
You can just bring a piece of carboard, cover your car door and have one of your fwb or a provider blow you and pretend its a legit gh. You can now watch porn in your phone. I shouldn't be that hard to set this one up.
 
Adult theaters are good. I've had some good times at them when girls and couples come in. Gangbang, people watching whatever your looking for you can get
I went to Cherri Bombs a month or so ago, it was all males staring at me. It did have some nice private corners and rooms if you found something there. Maybe I need to try a few more times or different locations.
 
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